In fairy tales, the beautiful princess falls in love with the poor scholar, the noble prince falls in love with Cinderella, and the ordinary heroine in the idol drama can always meet the rich man. Stage all kinds of sensational romantic fragments, in our hearts, such love is the most legendary and romantic love in the world.
And if you say that the door is right, you may not hesitate to interrupt that it is the old feudal thinking that is at work, and when everything is possible, it is above love in the era of free love, where do we need to consider what door is right?
From the perspective of economics, the economic foundation determines the superstructure, and of course, love marriage should also have an economic basis to decide, but the door-to-door pair of modern marriage not only refers to social status and economic status, but more importantly, the two parties to the marriage are in agreement in terms of knowledge level, ideological realm, aesthetic taste and other aspects. That is to say, the door is right, and you can't just focus on family origin, education, occupation, and hobbies. That is, people often say that the match, only when both parties can treat each other equally, constantly surprise each other, romantic, in order to maintain the marriage more long. On the contrary, the way of thinking of academic qualifications is too large, it is difficult to communicate, the interests are different, it is impossible to communicate, the difference is too big, and it is difficult to equalize personality.
Fairy tales always have to experience a hard-working prince and princess, finally came together as the ending, from then on, the prince and the prince lived a happy life at the end, what remains is the future unknown, marriage is different from the thinking habits of both parties in love, there will be a big gap, after marriage will be revealed. If one party refuses or cannot change, sooner or later there will be contradictions, if the Titanic is not silent, so that the lady who has lived in an aristocratic family for a long time and a low-level boy live together, will there be no contradiction at all? Perhaps fairy tales tell us that we should break some inherent conditions to support love, but we should see through objective conditions whether the other party has the same values as us, common life pursuits, and working together to create a better life, perseverance and courage.