It is easy to like a person, but it is difficult to go on with a person for a long time, even if two people are not together, there are ways to connect with each other.
The love that two people work together is beautiful, but if it is one person's effort, it is impossible to have results. You are trying very hard to go in his direction, and he is always going backwards, you want to try to close the distance between you, and he rejects your closeness, rejects your sincerity.
It's not a shameful thing for a woman to like a man, and there's nothing wrong with bravely pursuing love, but if the person you like doesn't give you any response at all, although he doesn't officially say something that rejects your heart, but he's been doing these things, then he's telling you: he doesn't like you, there's no possibility between you, and you don't have to be obsessed with it anymore.
1, always find an excuse to refuse your invitation
If a man has a good feeling for you and is willing to continue to develop with you, then you take the initiative to invite him, he will gladly accept, because he does not mind more contact with you to know more.
If you invite him every time, he always makes all kinds of excuses to reject you, you want to cater to his time, but he always has things, never time. Then the man is actually telling you with actions that he does not have any good feelings for you and does not want to have any development with you, so he is deliberately keeping a distance from you and does not want to have too many opportunities to meet with you.
If the man has already done so, the woman should not be forced, he is not even willing to meet you, obviously does not want to give you any chance, although he did not explicitly say that from the time he makes an excuse to refuse your invitation, he is rejecting you.
2, reply to the message is very perfunctory
The person who wants to chat with you, even if there is no topic, he can take the initiative to find the topic. The person who doesn't want to chat with you, even if you take the initiative to find a topic, he will not continue.
If a man wants to go further with your relationship, then he will definitely reply seriously when he sees your message, even if you do not take the initiative to chat with him, he will chat with you.
If you message a man every time, he responds very slowly and responds very perfunctorily every time, no matter how many words you send, he only uses a few words to perfunctory you, and the questions you ask him, he often ignores and does not answer. Men do this to tell you that he doesn't want to chat with you, that your kindness to him is clear to him, but he doesn't want to accept it.
3, and other members of the opposite sex to get close
Your kindness to men, men must be able to feel, his heart is very clear. If he also likes you and wants to be with you, then he won't provoke other women.
If the man knows your good intentions, and goes to get close to other members of the opposite sex, and behaves ambiguously with other members of the opposite sex in front of you, completely disregarding your feelings, then the man is actually telling you that he does not want to be with you, and there is no possibility between you.
Therefore, women should stop making excuses for him at this time, and don't have any hope for him anymore.
4) Turn a blind eye to your message
If a man really likes you, then he will naturally want to be with you all the time, even if he can't be with you for some work or other reasons, then he will call you and send you a message to relieve the feelings of longing.
But if a man doesn't call you to send a message, and turns a blind eye to the message you take the initiative to send, then it is obvious that the man does not like you at all, and his attitude towards you is bored and ignored.
You must understand that if he likes you, he will definitely like you to send a message to take the initiative to find him, how can he still ignore your message? He is so "alienated" from you, but because he doesn't like you!
Feelings are a matter of two people, if a man has no intention of you, even if you have a heart, what is the use?
In fact, everyone is very sensitive to feelings, even if you don't say it directly, he must be able to feel it. If he wants to accept it, he has already accepted it, and if you have made a lot of efforts and he is slow to respond to you, he is rejecting you.
In the adult world, no response is a kind of rejection, and it is too embarrassing to say anything clearly.
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