The most romantic vow in Titanic is like the one: "If you don't disobey me, I can give you whatever you want, you can give me whatever you want, give me your heart."
Everyone wants to be a smart person, but in many things, it is also okay to pretend to be stupid, and sometimes people are too smart, but it will make people feel disgusted. There are many things that you don't need to see through her, and it's also a good idea to ignore her appropriately.
Especially women, in love, do not need to know all the things of men, or that you know all the things of men, but you have to learn to control your mouth. These 4 shortcomings of men, women with real high emotional intelligence, will pretend not to see!
First, there are dreams in the air
Men always have a heart that wants to succeed, they will want to make more money, they will imagine that they can have more money to give to women, so that women can follow him without worry. Once they have set a goal, they will work in this direction.
The difference between men and women is that they will have more momentum and perseverance, and after having a goal, they will start to achieve it in various ways. They are not afraid to suffer more for this, because they have a goal in their hearts, and this goal is supporting them.
But the road to success cannot be smooth, so in many cases, men will encounter a lot of obstacles, at this time, women should actually learn to pay attention to their mouths and pretend not to see.
Some women, in the face of men's failures, will choose to be cynical. Will complain that men have achieved nothing, only talk big, empty dreams, but no ability. Because they are dissatisfied with men's failures, they will have a good meal of sarcasm against men. And a woman with high emotional intelligence will pretend not to see the man's frustration, but will take her to scatter her heart, hug him, and tell the man that she will always be by his side.
Second, it starts to become nagging
When a man doesn't meet a woman he likes, he's always calm and self-sustaining. A mature man is often introverted, doesn't say too much, and doesn't care too much about times when he has nothing to do with himself.
But when a man is with the woman he likes, he will start to become wordy, start nagging, care about the woman's every move, and will care about the woman's every behavior. So he will start to talk a lot, for example, when he sees that you don't value yourself, he will start nagging that you don't care about yourself.
When you always stay up late to play with your phone, men will start criticizing you and telling you to turn off your phone to sleep quickly. At this time, the woman has to pretend not to see this shortcoming of the man, because it is a manifestation of his love for you.
If a woman judges that what a man says is indeed for her own good, she should silently follow the man's words, rather than arguing with the man. The shortcoming of this nagging man at the moment is only because he loves you very much, and women have to understand this.
Third, always think too much
After being with you, men will start to care about whether there is a new male around you, whether this man is very good, will make him start to worry, and then start to think too much.
Not only women will become inferior in love or have no confidence in themselves, in fact, men are the same, they will also be afraid of being compared to others, and they will care whether you think he is the best.
Men think too much, often because they like you, because they care about you, so they want to protect you well.
Women with high emotional intelligence should pretend not to see, but use practical actions to let men know that in fact, you really love him and can't do without him.
Fourth, the heart is soft
No matter how angry a man is at you, as long as you come to him to apologize, he will immediately reconcile with you.
Even if you don't come to him to apologize, he can't help but go to you, he is worried that you can't take care of yourself by yourself, so even if you don't come he will go to you.
And for others, once he violates the bottom line of a man, he will be angry and have to let others apologize to him, because in front of others, he wants to maintain his dignity as a man.
A man with this weakness will never care about his dignity in front of you, because as long as you are with him, he can tolerate you.
In fact, we can understand that a man's flaw is not that he is really imperfect and incapable of protecting you, because love has a magic power that makes people better.
Therefore, the shortcomings of men you can see are all because of the care of you, can't bear to hurt you, and blindly let themselves lower the bottom line of a performance.
As the woman he loves deeply, you must also try to understand him and cherish him, after all, a relationship that is more difficult than Jin Jian's is not easy to come by!
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