The length of each lesson in kindergarten increases as the child ages, and the maximum length does not exceed 30 minutes.
Many parents believe that the baby is playing in kindergarten, and the biggest difference between staying at home is that the teacher leads the play in the kindergarten and plays more tricks. Every day in addition to playing is eating.
Such a phenomenon may have occurred in kindergartens in the 90s. Due to the limited level of education at that time, the kindergartens were all small workshops, and the teachers did not have any academic qualifications, they could not teach children, and they did not even know what to teach.
Kindergarten classes are also an important part
When Toto was 3 years old, his mother sent him to a local public kindergarten. Although it is a little far from home, it will take some time to pick up and drop off the child, but the mother insists on sending the child there, in order to get a better education.
But after my mother went to kindergarten, she returned to the workplace, and the task of picking up and dropping off Duoduo fell on my grandmother. Once Grandma saw the wrong time, arrived at the kindergarten an hour early, and simply waited in the kindergarten to finish more school.
Grandma wanted to take this opportunity to see what the eldest grandson was doing every day in the kindergarten, and whether it was worth the money to collect such an expensive tuition fee every month.
At this time, I happened to see Duoduo's small class in the "Disciple Rules" class, the children sat on the small stool, the teacher stood in front of him and repeated sentence by sentence, and the babies followed one sentence after another.
Although the lesson lasted only 15 minutes, the children in the class behaved differently, and some of the children obediently repeated the teacher's words, including Duoduo, and looked at Grandma with a serious look of relief.
But there are also children who are not honest, poke this, touch that, and even go directly to the game corner to play with the toy. In order to correct the chaotic children, the teacher paused many times in the middle of this lesson.
After school, Grandma took the opportunity to talk to the teacher. The teacher unabashedly praised Toto and revealed to His grandmother that After Toto went to school, his grades must be excellent. Grandma smiled even harder.
Why would a teacher make such an inference?
In the kindergarten, the "sitting" and "can't sit still" babies have a significant gap in future grades.
Reason one: The sitting baby has a strong concentration
For babies who have just started kindergarten, their lesson time is 15 to 20 minutes. This is already the limit for babies around 3 years old. Even if you watch TV, your concentration time is maintained for so long.
As for babies who can look at them for a few hours in front of the TV, it is very detrimental to their brain development. They don't stop and rest on their own, and they have to rely on the reminders of their parents and teachers.
Moreover, it is not that the baby who has gone to kindergarten can immediately maintain 15 minutes of concentration, which also requires pre-training and guidance. But after a period of time, if you still can't sit still, it means that the baby's concentration is very weak.
Reason two: The sitting baby has a strong sense of rules
Although the concentration required in class is also called concentration, it is very different from the concentration when watching TV. The former is learned experience, which is to follow the rules. The latter, on the other hand, is spontaneous.
But after the baby goes to kindergarten, the teacher will repeatedly emphasize the rules of the class, such as not going to the ground casually, not talking to children, and so on. After all, the 3-year-old baby can already understand the rules. As for whether you can abide by it, it is the baby's own business.
That's why when they go to class together, some babies can sit still, and some babies can't sit still. This is directly related to whether the sensitive period of the rules was grasped well.
Reason three: The baby who can sit still has a strong endurance
In addition, whether the baby can sit still, there is another important psychological factor, that is, endurance. Restrain your other desires. For example, the desire to play with toys, the desire to stand up...
Moreover, when other children violate the rules, the teacher must need to interrupt the lecture and spend time to maintain order, then at this time, the baby who abides by the rules needs to tolerate the mistakes of other babies.
After all, they were originally listening to the teacher's lectures intently, but because a certain child had to interrupt his own train of thought, it was really not easy to reconnect!
Alpaca mom has something to say:
Whether it is concentration, rule awareness, or endurance, it is an indispensable quality in the future learning career. If there is no concentration, then the child will not be able to grasp the time in the classroom, which directly affects the learning efficiency.
If there is no sense of rules, then they will always continue to run into trouble to distract their learning energy, and even cause other students to resent, thus being excluded by their classmates. If there is no endurance, how to spend these 12 years of hard reading?
Today's Topic:
Can your baby sit still or not? If you can't sit still, do you think there's any impact?