The phrase "The wife of a friend shall not be deceived, and the husband of a friend shall not be touched" advises some men and women not to beat the idea of other people's wives and not to care too much about other people's husbands. During the Three Kingdoms period, Lü Bu had an affair with his righteous father Dong Zhuo's concubine, The Sable Cicada, and the cruel Natured Dong Zhuo knew about it and threw a handshake at Lü Bu, if Lü Bu did not hide quickly, he would have died under this handshade.
Since Dong Zhuodu first threw a murder weapon at Lü Bu, he had already disregarded the love of father and son, and Lü Bu had no choice but to kill Dong Zhuo to dominate the mink cicada. The ancients attached great importance to the word "righteous qi" in their dealings with people, and Lü Bu's act of killing his father and taking his wife was very despised, even if he was the first military general of the Three Kingdoms, and those who won the other were conducive to winning the world, but the world still thought that he was unkind and unjust.
From ancient times to the present, people are ashamed of cheating, and Li Wu proposed in the "Book of Law" in the Wei State Reform Law: "If the husband cheats, he will be punished, and if the wife cheats, he will be in the palace." The Qin Dynasty law stipulates that "men and women are sincere, husbands are sent, and there is no guilt in killing", and men and women who are caught cheating can be killed on the spot. The Tang Dynasty was relatively open to the public, and it was not so serious about cheating, and the sin was not even to death, and he had to go to prison: "The adulterers are apprenticed for one and a half years, and the husbands are punished for two years." ”
Modern people also hate cheating, no matter how high your achievements, no matter how great you are a celebrity, as long as you get involved in cheating, especially robbing your friends' wives, you will be spurned. A master of Chinese painting and calligraphy, Master Li Kuchan, he is the most expensive national treasure artist in the "Hurun Art List", but in 1993 he married his friend's wife Zhang Guiyun and changed the surname of his friend's two sons to "Fan" and let them call themselves "Father".
Fan Zeng was born in 1938 in jiangsu Shuxiang family, the first thirteen generations of ancestors were poets and literati, and his mother was the principal of a primary school. Growing up in this good family style, Fan zeng had a high artistic talent, and became one of the "Three Little Painters of Nantong" at the age of 13. At the age of 17, he was admitted to the Nankai History Department, and two years later transferred to the Central American Art History Department.
Fan Zeng has a lot of women chasing because of his talent and appearance, and the second wife Is Still Bian Baohua. Bian Baohua is also a student of CAFA, two years older than him, but her appearance is ordinary, and Fan once regarded her as a "turnip white potato". Fan Zeng married her because it was his most difficult time, divorced his ex-wife Lin Xiu, worked at the China History Museum, and lived in a warehouse full of old furniture, only Bian Baohua did not dislike him. The two married in the 60s and gave birth to a daughter.
In the early 1970s, Fan met the actor Su Zunde at the History Museum and became friends. He saw that Fan had been living a sloppy life from time to time to relieve him and give him some clothes. In 1971, Xu Zunde invited Fan Zeng to his home, which was equivalent to luring a wolf into the room, and Fan once saw Zhang Guiyun, who was dressed in two black and bright braids and fluttering in white, fell in love with his friend's wife. From this day on, Fan Zeng always took advantage of The Zunde to go out to perform close to Zhang Guiyun, climbing the stairs to the 14th floor in order to avoid people's eyes and ears.
In 1977, Fan Zeng was hospitalized due to illness, Xu Zunde did not know about him and Zhang Guiyun, often with food in one hand, and his wife to see him in the other, Fan Zeng did not feel embarrassed at all, but regarded this time as the most romantic day for him and Zhang Guiyun. He was kept secret by the two of them for 10 years, until the neighbors of the house hinted at him, and he did not know.
In 1988, Xu Zunde and Zhang Guiyun divorced, at this time Fan Zeng had not divorced Bian Baohua, Zhang Guiyun had nowhere to go, Xu Zunde was under the "one-day husband and wife hundred days of grace", gave her a house at home to live temporarily, and then left Beijing. What Xu Zunde did not expect was that he had exhausted his benevolence and righteousness, and Zhang Guiyun replaced the gate with an iron gate, but instead drove Xu Zunde out.
Two years later, Fan Zeng had divorced, and was not the poor boy who had been relieved by Xu Zunde for many years, he took Zhang Guiyun overseas, and He Zunde lived in his own home, but as soon as he entered the house, Zhang Guiyun had already cooperated with Fan Zeng to take away all the valuable things in the family, US dollars, precious calligraphy and paintings, rosewood furniture, etc., only a bed of quilts was left, and Xu Zunde only had one idea at that time: "Nothing is gone." ”
In 1993, Fan zeng married Zhang Guiyun and changed the surname of Xu Zunde's two sons to "Fan" and asked them to call themselves daddies. Since divorcing Bian Baohua, there has been no concern, until now the relationship between father and daughter is not good.