People who love life will never be defeated by suffering
Last Saturday, I met my cousin Orchid at the supermarket.
I haven't seen my cousin in four or five years, and we chatted affectionately. My cousin pulled a three-year-old boy and taught him, "Baby, call auntie." ”
The little boy did not recognize the birth: "Hello little aunt! ”
I hurriedly promised, "Hey, hello, baby, so good!" ”
My cousin was almost fifty years old, and the corners of her eyes were quietly crawling with crow's feet, but her smile was happy and cheerful, and her voice was still so beautiful. Uninformed people must feel that this is a state that only a woman who lives a happy life has.
But who knows, my cousin's past twenty years, soaked in bitter water?
First, the Mandarin duck that cannot be beaten by the stick
More than twenty years ago, my cousin fell in love with Zhou Manxing, who knew her as a migrant worker, but Zhou Manxing's family was very poor.
Their love affair was opposed by the whole family, and my cousin's mother, my great aunt, even used the method of hanging, but still failed to break them up.
The parents must have loved their daughters, but the cousin's insistence, the uncle and the great aunt had to agree to the marriage.
After the cousin married, the two no longer went out to work, and the two husbands sang with the wife, and started farming and orchards at home.
Zhou Manxing is a very good husband, and his cousin is also very diligent, and the two spent three years transforming a barren mountain in the family into an orchard, planting orange trees, raising hundreds of chickens in the orchard and feeding five sows.
They fertilized the orange tree with pig manure, and in less than two years, the orange tree bore fruit, and sold ten litters of piglets every year.
After two years of marriage, the two added a lovely son.
My cousin's life was busy but full, and the happy laughter of the family of three could be heard in the orchard.
Second, on a sunny day, the son fell ill
Perhaps it was the heavens that were jealous of her cousin's happiness and deliberately wanted to lower the suffering on the head of this family of three.
When my cousin's son was six years old, he began to slowly become unresponsive, often alone in a daze. It is reasonable to say that a five- or six-year-old child should be lively and active, but he always does not move his position for half a day, and his eyes have become a little sluggish. The children who went to school together often called him a fool, and he didn't return the favor.
The cousin felt that something was wrong, so he took his son to the county hospital for examination, at that time, the hospital equipment was still very backward, and the doctor suggested that the cousin take it to the provincial city to see.
The cousin hurriedly took her son to the big hospital in the provincial city and queued up for two days before it was their turn.
After a series of instrument examinations and tests, the doctor took the results and said to his cousin with a solemn expression: "Your child's disease is a bit troublesome, and it may be difficult to cure for life, because the disease is in the brain!" ”
The doctor's words were like thunderbolts on a sunny day, and the cousin's heart was broken into countless small pieces.
Third, the long road to seek medical treatment, exhausted, or lost
Went to the son
Her cousin had always been a strong person, and after wiping away her tears, she decided to find a way to cure her son's illness no matter what.
The cousin asked her husband to stay at home and take care of the litters of piglets that were not yet a month old, as well as the thousands of chickens that were fed. She took her son alone and embarked on a journey to seek medical treatment.
The provincial doctors have all been there, and my cousin doesn't want to go there again. She took her son to a hospital in Linsheng Province, which is more famous in the country, and was hospitalized for his son's treatment.
The results of the examination in this hospital are the same as the results of the last time in the provincial doctor, or that the disease is in the brain, can not be cured, can only be conservative treatment.
After a period of treatment, the son's illness improved slightly, and the cousin was slightly relieved. She called her husband and told her to sell the piglets as soon as possible because her son's illness costs a lot of money.
However, all the chickens and pigs in the family were sold, and only two years of treatment fees were maintained for the son. What is even more worrying is that the number of cases of the son is increasing, and as soon as he falls ill, he spits white foam and passes out.
Watching her son lose weight day by day, his eyes have sunk into his eye sockets, completely losing the vitality that a small child should have, and the cousin can only secretly weep.
Mother's love could not stop the cruelty of death, on a snowy winter night, this child who was tormented by illness, or gone, he had not been able to eat anything for three days, when he died, he only moved his mouth, and his cousin said: "The child is calling for mother." ”
The departure of the son made the cousin unable to get out of bed for half a year. She washed her face with tears every day, and people were so thin that the wind would fall down as soon as the wind blew.
Fourth, do not abandon, support each other
The husband also suffered from the loss of his son, but he understood that he could not fall.
He buried the pain deep in his heart, and every day he was busy, but also tried to comfort his wife as much as possible and take care of her daily life.
The great aunt also came, and she advised her daughter to want to open something, as long as the people are good, the children will still have.
Under the care of her family, my cousin finally got better, and she is still the sunny woman who loves life.
A year later, the cousin became pregnant again, this time giving birth to a daughter. The couple is even more precious, the home is full of laughter and laughter, and the happiness that was once gone is back.
Fifth, suffering strikes again
Once again, God showed his cruelty to the fullest.
When my cousin's daughter was five or six years old, the same scene was ruthlessly staged in her cousin's house.
It was examinations, blood draws, tests, hospitalizations, all the ordeals that were beating this poor family again.
The family was already destitute, and with the help of relatives and friends, they could not keep the second child.
The cousin did not fall this time, she lay down for three days, and then got up to cook and eat by herself.
My cousin said, "Manxing is already very tired, and I can't fall down and let him worry about me anymore." The child is gone, I still have my parents, and my husband. ”
The two of them took the pain to their hearts, took care of the fruit trees at home as usual, and fed the chickens and pigs as usual. The husband also borrowed money to buy a second-hand car, and when he had time, he would go to solicit some customers and earn some money to subsidize the family and pay off debts.
The cousin did not give up, she took the time to go to the big hospital in Beijing to check her body to see if it was possible to have a healthy child.
The expert looked at all the medical records about the child brought by her cousin and told her that only by scientifically giving birth to a child who was not related to her could she be healthy. Because the causes of the first two children are genetic problems.
After consulting with her husband, the cousin decided to have a child according to the doctor's instructions.
In this way, the cousin had this healthy child.
Several times and three tribulations, did not let the cousin lose hope, I believe that the second half of the cousin's life will be happy and happy!
My cousin's experience made me understand that as long as people have the courage to love life, they will definitely be bitter!