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There is such a single hot mom in Chengdu, who met a new love 8 years ago, fell in love with her boyfriend for many years and lent her boyfriend 700,000 yuan for investment, but the boyfriend suddenly "evaporated in the world".
The single hot mom went directly to her boyfriend's wife to collect the debt, but in the process of debt collection, she found that the boyfriend had other women outside.
What is the charm of this man that makes multiple women around him?
Cheng Jun (pseudonym)
It all started with a dinner party 8 years ago.
The heroine of today's event is called Tan Yan, in 2013, after experiencing the failure of the first marriage, Tan Yan was extremely lost in her heart.
At the beginning, Tan Yan trapped herself in a strange circle, could not find a catharsis for her mood, and washed her face with tears all day long. But looking at her lovely children and elderly parents, she had to be strong again.
So, after being sad for a while, Tan Yan entrusted the child to her parents and embarked on the road to Chengdu alone to make a living.
Tan Yan, who has just arrived in Chengdu, still has not come out of the shadow of lost love, but fortunately, there are friends who can talk to her, but she will not look too lonely.
It is a cold winter, although the winter in Chengdu is not as cold as the north, but the wet cold seems to directly invade the bones, Tan Yan tries to find a job in the smog every day, and temporarily lives in a good friend's home after work.
Chengdu is known as the city of leisure, people here still know how to live, after work, whether it is to play mahjong or go to the tea house to sit for a while, there will be a slow and leisurely feeling of enjoying life.
And the most indispensable thing for young people to eat here is to eat hot pot, and on this day Tan Yan's good friend pulled her to a dinner party together.
It was at this dinner that Tan Yan met a successful person, Cheng Jun. Cheng Jun is not only handsome and handsome, but also opened his own company, and his career is young and promising.
Most importantly, at the dinner table, Cheng Jun talked and talked, but also particularly warm, Tan Yan's cup of water was drunk, Cheng Jun very naturally filled her up, gentle and warm.
After hearing from friends that Tan Yan did not have a job and her life was very embarrassing, Cheng Jun immediately invited Tan Yan to work in his company.
At the dinner table, Cheng Jun said that he had opened a company, and now the company's personnel were not saturated, and he could arrange a job for Tan Yan.
Tan Yan looked at the gentle and warm Cheng Jun in front of her, and her heart was like grasping the life-saving straw in life, and immediately agreed to the job invitation.
The next day Tan Yan cleaned up and set off for a new life, after joining Cheng Jun's company, Cheng Jun arranged for Tan Yan to live in the staff dormitory of his company, and the problem of Tan Yan's residence was also solved.
Tan Yan (pseudonym)
In addition to his usual work, Cheng Jun is also extra attentive to Tan Yan, and not long after the two knew each other, Cheng Jun expressed his admiration for Tan Yan and said that Tan Yan was like his ex-girlfriend.
And women's hearts are very emotional, after experiencing the blow of the last failed marriage, Tan Yan did not easily ignite new hope for feelings.
Ke Chengjun is very gentle, not only transporting Tan Yan to and from work every day, but also personally teaching Tan Yan's business after work, and has always told Tan Yan that she is unmarried and single.
Tan Yan's liking for Cheng Jun gradually increased, but the failed marriage was like a shackle in her heart, she kind of liked the man in front of her, but she was worried that her identity of divorce and baby would be rejected.
Under the fierce pursuit of Cheng Jun, Tan Yan confessed to Cheng Jun that she had divorced and had a child. Cheng Jun, on the other hand, said that he didn't mind at all, and what he liked was Tan Yan. Cheng Jun's sweet words made Tan Yan's heart warm, and the hole that was missing in his heart seemed to be filled immediately.
Cheng Jun's height of one meter and eight, graduated from a regular university, and also opened a company of no small scale, this handsome and gold single "Wang Laowu", in the marriage market is very sought-after, but Cheng Jun's eyes are only Tan Yan in his heart. Not long after, Tan Yan fell.
In the process of chasing Tan Yan, Cheng Jun told Tan Yan the reason for the failure of his last relationship. He described himself as miserable, describing the reason he separated from his ex-girlfriend because of his ex-girlfriend's cheating, he was a victim of his feelings, he was very hurt at that time, so he was always single, but until he met Tan Yan, he was moved again.
Cheng Jun said that cheating is his bottom line, so when he found out that his ex-girlfriend was cheating, he felt that his dignity as a man had been trampled on, so he had to break up.
Cheng Jun's remarks made Tan Yan feel more sorry for this man, but he did not know that all this was Cheng Jun's "gentle trap", he packaged himself as a man who had been hurt in his feelings, which was more likely to arouse the sympathy of women, especially a single mother like Tan Yan who also experienced emotional failure, which instantly caused Tan Yan's resonance and heartache.
In the process of slowly chatting and getting acquainted, Cheng Jun told Tan Yan that he was an orphan, and when he was a child, his father sold him to his current mother for money, so he had no sense of security since he was a child.
As a mother, Tan Yan heard cheng jun's "exposed" scars, and the soft places in her heart were touched.
The man also said that because he was raised by his adoptive mother, when he was a child, his family was very poor, and his mother was very strict with himself, although his mother also loved him, but his mother earned money alone to support the two of them, which was really very hard.
As a result, he understands better how difficult it is to raise a child alone as a single mother.
Under this elaborate life and emotional experience, Tan Yan had the idea of going down with Cheng Jun.
After the two fell in love, Tan Yan found various sparkling advantages in her boyfriend's life. No matter how late Cheng Jun's overtime work, he would carry a warm night snack to Tan Yan downstairs and send it to Tan Yan.
In the morning, before Tan Yan went out, Cheng Jun was already carrying fritters and soy milk waiting downstairs in Tan Yan.
The "warmth" in her boyfriend's life makes Tan Yan very at ease, and after Tan Yan fell in love, Cheng Jun also said that in the future, her children will also be raised together, and they will definitely not treat their children badly.
Slowly, Tan Yan completely opened her heart to Cheng Jun, and after the two lived together, Cheng Jun was reluctant to let Tan Yan cook and personally made food for Tan Yan.
Tan Yan is like a spoiled princess, her boyfriend bathes herself, washes her hair, and even if her mouth is dirty, she has to gently wipe Tan Yan clean, and she also spoils Tan Yan and laughs at Tan Yan as cute as a child.
Women in love are easily attacked by gentle men, and slowly Tan Yan has completely become Cheng Jun's "palm thing", completely unaware of the danger of her boyfriend's gentle net to swallow herself up.
Tan Yan is obsessed with her boyfriend's gentle care, and in the years of falling in love with her boyfriend, her boyfriend has always been very good to herself. Although he only worked in Cheng Jun's company for two months, he did not affect the feelings of the two people after leaving.
But if the bad guy wants to deceive you, he will try his best to make you unaware, and after being deceived, he thinks that he is for the future of two people.
During the period when the two were in love, Cheng Jun took out his best way of "selling misery" to win sympathy and borrowed money from Tan Yan.
After Cheng Jun fully understood Tan Yan, he begged Tan Yan to say that because the company's efficiency was not good, the two of us would definitely get married in the future, and we would work together to make money, but also for the future of the two people.
But Tan Yan still has a child to raise, and her job does not earn much money, and she has to send money to the parents of the children every month.
But Cheng Jun is constantly begging Tan Yan, saying that this company is his own painstaking efforts, the company's capital turnover can not come, the benefits are not good now, if Tan Yan does not "save him", the company will go out of business.
Tan Yan's heart softened, and she agreed to lend money to her boyfriend to let him save the company, and Tan Yan used her insurance policy to lend 200,000 yuan to her boyfriend.
After that, the relationship between the two became more stable, Tan Yan thought very simply, she thought that it was not easy to meet her own people again, the road between the two would be longer, and there were difficulties to bear together.
And in the years when the two were in love, Cheng Jun gave Tan Yan a sense of security too much, and once again Tan Yan was sick, Cheng Jun was heartbroken and broken, and he stayed by Tan Yan's side to take care of her, which made her think of the contrast when she was with her ex-husband, and Tan Yan was more determined to be her own lover.
But what she didn't know was that Cheng Jun was a down-to-earth "liar.". In order to let Tan Yan lend him money, but with enough effort, he usually washed his feet and washed Tan Yan personally, which naturally immersed Tan Yan in the "happiness" woven by this man.
From September 2015 to May 2019, in less than four years, Cheng Jun borrowed money from Tan Yan for various reasons, and Tan Yan, who was immersed in "happiness", lent Cheng Jun hundreds of thousands of yuan by borrowing money from relatives and friends, mortgaged real estate, cash out of Huabei, wing payment, etc.
When Tan Yan did not know how to take out online loans, Cheng Jun would coax her with rhetoric and teach her to borrow. Every time she borrowed money or borrowed money, Tan Yan obediently transferred the money to Cheng Jun's account after listening to Cheng Jun's words.
Just when Tan Yan was looking forward to a better future and thinking that it would be better for the two to support each other together, a familiar phone call shattered all her fantasies.
Before Cheng Jun left, he told Tan Yan that he was going to go on a business trip to talk about cooperation and let Tan Yan take care of himself these days. The two have been together for several years, tan Yan is also used to Cheng Jun running east and west, so she also regards this departure as a normal business trip.
But what she didn't expect was that two days after Cheng Jun left, his good brothers called Tan Yan.
The person on the phone told Tan Yan that Cheng Jun was actually married and had a family, had a wife and children, and was not the only woman Tan Yan.
This phone call made Tan Yan's heart fall into an ice cave, she couldn't believe that the boyfriend she had loved for many years was a man with a family, and she couldn't believe that this man had children, but she had become his extramarital lover.
After Tan Yan contacted her boyfriend, she had a big fight with him, scolding him for cheating on himself for so many years and so on.
But after Cheng Jun returned, he still came to find Tan Yan, he promised Tan Yan that he would definitely divorce, and the woman in the family had no feelings for himself for a long time, and then coaxed Tan Yan to the sky with sweet words.
Tan Yan, who was overwhelmed by love, once again believed Cheng Jun, she forgave her boyfriend, and waited for Cheng Jun to marry her after divorcing her wife.
Cheng Jun (pseudonym) and children
Tan Yan was originally a victim of this relationship, she was deceived by her boyfriend Cheng Jun, thinking that Cheng Jun was a "single Wang Laowu", but when she learned that her boyfriend actually had a family, she still chose to forgive and continue, destroying other people's marriages is immoral behavior, and from here on she has been at a moral disadvantage.
Tan Yan said: "I also thought about leaving, but my money has been invested, and my feelings for so many years have also been invested, I believed that he promised me to divorce my wife and then marry me." ”
But Tan Yan had not yet waited for Cheng Jun to divorce and marry herself, and then another thing happened that made Tan Yan fall into despair again.
Because Tan Yan suddenly could not contact her boyfriend, she went to his company to find him, but she did not expect that the company door was locked, and there was no one inside.
At this time, Tan Yan panicked, and she could only keep calling her boyfriend, but found that his phone was also turned off. Later, Tan Yan found that the legal person of the boyfriend's company had changed, the amount of debt involved in the company was also very large, and the employees' salaries were not opened.
At this time, Tan Yan woke up and realized that she had been deceived by this man. But what to do with the money she put in, Tan Yan tried her best to finally contact her boyfriend.
On June 5, 2019, after the two talked, Cheng Jun issued an IOU to Tan Yan, which clearly stated that Tan Yan had borrowed a total of 728,300 yuan from Cheng Jun and would return the money to Tan Yan at 15,000 yuan per month.
A year after the incident, on July 8, 2020, Tan Yan took Cheng Jun and his wife Li Qiu to court to recover her money.
Why did Cheng Jun borrow money from Tan Yan, and Tan Yan still sue his wife in court?
Tan Yan believes that this is the combination of their husband and wife to cheat their own money, and she has come up with a key piece of evidence - telephone recordings.
This phone call recording is a contact between Tan Yan and Cheng Jun on June 30, 2020, in which Cheng Jun indicates that he paid 1.45 million yuan for the purchase of the house.
The time when Cheng Jun bought a house is the time to constantly borrow money from Tan Yan to invest in the company.
After Tan Yan learned this, he could prove that Cheng Jun borrowed money from himself to buy a house, a car, and also gave the car to his wife, and Cheng Jun was all deceiving himself.
This involves the knowledge of joint debts of husband and wife. The Marriage Law stipulates that debts incurred by both spouses who sign together or who are retroactively recognized by one of the spouses shall be deemed to be joint debts of the husband and wife.
Although in this triangular relationship, Cheng Jun's wife was a victim of emotion, his marriage relationship with Cheng Jun was not dissolved.
In 2013, Li Qiu knew that he was his husband's lover outside, but in the whole seven or eight years, Li Qiu neither fell out with her husband and divorced, nor did she go to Tan Yan for trouble
And Tan Yan also had dinner with Li Qiu, and at that time, Li Qiu was the company's finance, and the money he lent to her boyfriend for investment was directly transferred to Li Qiu's account, and now all the money is in Li Qiu's hands.
This man is really a scumbag, taking himself to dinner with his lover and wife, but he can coax two women to turn around, and he is still at ease.
But Cheng Jun disappeared after that, Tan Yan could not contact him and could only ask his wife for money, at this time, the court came to an unexpected thing.
On the day the court filed the case, Tan Yan got the news, and just five days before she took Cheng Jun and his wife to court and the court accepted her lawsuit, the two had gone through divorce procedures.
The divorce agreement between the two shows that all the debts in the two-year marriage are borne by Cheng Jun alone, and Cheng Jun is out of the house, and all the property is left to his wife Li Qiu.
This made Tan Yan have to suspect that they chose to divorce at this time in order to evade responsibility and deliberately transfer property.
The day after Tan Yan filed a lawsuit with the court, Li Qiu took the initiative to contact Tan Yan to post the account for basically a month.
Through the WeChat chat records of the two people, it can be clearly known that Li Qiu and Tan Yan have discussed the repayment of the loan, which means that Li Qiu approves of this loan.
The lawsuit lasted until May 24, 2021, when the first-instance judgment of the Chenghua District People's Court finally came down.
The result of the judgment was that Cheng Jun wanted to return Tan Yan's 686,710 yuan, but Li Qiu did not have to share this debt.
But Tan Yan was very unconvinced by the verdict, and in early June she filed another lawsuit with the Chengdu Intermediate People's Court, and in the process she did not give up looking for Cheng Jun.
After so many years of resentment, an economic dispute involved a deformed love triangle, I thought it was absurd enough, but I didn't expect that Cheng Jun's true face was even less human than imagined.
Tan Yan thought she had found a new love, but as a result, she had run out of money and debts after a few years. Feelings can no longer be recovered, but the money must be recovered.
She went directly to the door to find Li Qiu, and the two women quarreled as soon as they met, and then the two of them moved their hands! Tan Yan scolded Li Qiu for a fake divorce, that is, to transfer property, and Li Qiu was also a grievance.
Li Qiu said that although the account was transferred to her account, in fact, the cards were all in Cheng Jun's place, and she did not divorce herself because the child was too small to be willing to have children.
But why did they divorce at this point in time as the lawsuit?
Li Qiu said that because she found that her husband was still ambiguous with several women in Dujiangyan, and there were many photos and videos in her mobile phone, she could not bear to divorce.
In addition to the house on the divorce agreement, Cheng Jun also said that he would give more than 10,000 child support to his two children every month. But Li Qiu said that she had never seen this money, and her marriage had failed like this, and she knew that not only did she have no money, but there were different creditors who came to the door every day.
Tan Yan had not yet found Cheng Jun's person, but he had found another lover of his first!
And the next words that this lover told Tan Yan, and what Tan Yan saw with her own eyes, directly subverted her understanding of her warm and gentle boyfriend for so many years.
Another lover of Cheng Jun told Tan Yan that Cheng Jun had now been detained at the police station. And the reason why Cheng Jun entered the police station was to deliberately hurt and rape women!
What's going on here?
It turned out that this girl, like Tan Yan, was deceived by Cheng Jun's rhetoric and bachelors, and Cheng Jun deceived the girl hundreds of thousands in the same way.
When the girl knows the true face of Cheng Jun, she is determined to break up with Cheng Jun.
But the scum is the scum, the original "warm man" who pretended to be poor, gentle and understanding, but when the girl broke up with himself, he beat her up, and constantly dragged and beat the girl.
The most hateful thing is that Cheng Jun did not agree to break up, so he ran to the girl's home and raped her, after which the girl retained the evidence and directly called the police.
This scumbag with the beastly heart really subverts our three views. Regardless of men and women, when looking for love, we must not be so easily believed in each other's performance of the person, polishing the eyes to ensure their own safety.
An immoral extramarital affair has triggered a chaotic economic dispute between several families, and now the court's second instance trial has not yet come down, and Li Qiu also told Tan Yan that if the court decides that he should bear the part, he will absolutely be responsible.
At any time, if one party in a relationship continues to ask for money from the other party, then your heart should ring an alarm bell, can not be carried away by love, for yourself and the lover who is responsible for you, will not ask you for money again and again, the promise is just an empty word, and the innocence should also have a degree.
Although love is beautiful, the premise of love is innocence, to understand each other's bottom line, not to let their happiness be based on the pain of others, and not to lose the moral bottom line in their hearts.
Reference: Golden Thirty Column "Warm Man"