Author/Window Sill
During this time, when watching the blind date show, I noticed a high-quality uncle and was impressed.
I see that this uncle has a lot of blind dates, but he has not been successful, and every time he leaves a contact information and continues to go on the way to the next blind date.
The point is that he basically looks down on others. But despite this, the ladies who take the initiative to call and ask for a blind date with the uncle are still endless, and even the daughter-in-law takes the initiative to call to help the mother-in-law to introduce, and the daughter takes the initiative to help the mother introduce the situation, which can be said to be quite sought-after.
There are too many people who look at Uncle Lang, so that when the Red Lady introduces Uncle Lang, she has screened a batch, and many netizens have joked: "It is estimated that this is all eye-catching." ”
Uncle's peach blossom luck is so good, it is certainly impossible to go for no reason. 71-year-old uncle, named Lang Yongtao, first of all, his economic conditions are quite favorable, the annual income released by the program group is about 2 million, Hangzhou people, is a corporate executive, a legal person and shareholder of 3 companies, and there are two properties under his name.
Coupled with Uncle Lang's appearance conditions, it is also more outstanding, 180cm tall, thick hair, clear eyebrows, like fitness, body maintenance is also very good, yoga will also be the national standard, if you just look at the appearance, it is really 71 years old.
Such a grand uncle Lang is popular, and everyone can expect it. No matter from which aspect, he belongs to the high-quality uncle in the blind date market, and the elderly blind date has the same level as the ceiling, and there is basically no obvious shortcoming.
But looking at it, when the woman who called over and took the initiative to go on a blind date, from the time when Uncle Lang was in his teens, twenties, or even thirtys, I really realized the great charm of "banknote ability". Originally, Uncle Lang's own request was about 55 years old.
The deepest impression is a 33-year-old woman, called over, the red lady was shocked at the time, repeatedly determined her age, and then said that the other party's age and you are relatively different, the woman replied that she wants to find a bigger than herself, the red lady is not polite, directly replied: You are not afraid of people telling you, are you looking for a father?
Obviously, at this age, Uncle Lang himself was also frightened, and later Uncle Lang did not go to see him.
Because he replied that it was younger than his daughter.
Although this woman said that she did not mind being so much older, she was still willing to go on a blind date at such a different age, because the compromise was too obvious.
There was a woman in her 40s during the previous blind date, with a good appearance, and Uncle Lang felt that the age difference between the two people was relatively large, and he minded that he did not deserve it. Looking at it, I feel that Uncle Lang's standard is to find a type that is more than 50 years old, and the age difference between himself and himself is not so big, but the maintenance is better, and he can't see the actual age.
Uncle Lang's sought-after hand, although his appearance certainly occupies a certain advantage, but it can still explain some strange phenomena of mate selection in today's society. It is true that when looking for the other half, no matter what age a woman is, she must be able to find another half with better economic conditions, after all, living is chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, no matter what it is inseparable from money.
If the economy is more generous, the life of two people can really save a lot of basic trouble.
However, I think that despite this, when going on a blind date, you still can't put the cart before the horse, only put the economy first, see that this person has better conditions, and regardless of the desire to be with the other party, all conditions can be relaxed.
Because many people have forgotten one of the most important things: people have money, it's just people's money, not yours. It doesn't matter whether you have money or not, the important thing is that this person must have you in his heart, his character should be good, he must have a sense of family responsibility, two people must be really suitable, and he must be willing to spend money on you, which is the real core.
If not, the character is not good, or unwilling to spend money for you, you find a rich, but it is only the glory of the eyes of outsiders, how your life is, only you understand in your heart.
Not to mention, some people may make unlimited compromises for the sake of financial ability.
There is no free lunch in the world, and there is no pie that will fall, if you don't work hard and just want to enjoy it, in the end, it is easy to be destroyed by your own ideas.
No matter when it comes, what you want, what you have in your hands is the king's way, the organs are calculated, too shrewd, and in the end it is really easy to suffer losses.
Like Uncle Lang's case, to put it mildly, people have come over for so many years, with these achievements, it is certainly impossible to have no city government, this age to find a partner, at most it is free to eat, live and travel, and then some small gifts, people's important assets, houses and cars, people also have children, most of them will not give way to others.
When I wrote this, I suddenly remembered that two days ago I went to a commissary to buy fruit, because I often went, and the lady boss knew me. When I was picking fruit, the hostess and I chatted idly, saying that some of the girls now really did not love themselves enough.
She said that she has been doing this business for more than 30 years, and all kinds of people have seen a lot, there is a little girl who is still quite beautiful, tall, looks less than 30 years old, and the two boyfriends who came to buy fruit to bring to her should be older than her own father.
She was more sorry, did not understand how the little girl thought, and at the end of the sighed: "Such good personal conditions, so young, how can not understand self-esteem and self-love, have to think of taking shortcuts!" ”
Many times, the gift of fate has long been secretly marked with a price. This quote comes from Zweig's The Severed Queen.
Zweig also has this passage in her biography:
Fate had given her everything so easily, and it was precisely this undeserved gift of life that impoverished her heart. Fate had spoiled her too early and too much, and the noble origin and the more noble position had fallen on her, and she did not need to exert any effort; so she thought that there was no need to work hard, and that she could live as she wanted, and that everything seemed to be appropriate.
Whether you are doing things as a person or when facing a relationship, I advise you not to think about getting something for nothing, thinking that you can drop the pie in the sky, and don't be greedy, thinking that you can get the life you want through shortcuts.
Anything extraordinary comes at a price, and even if you don't see it now, it will most likely be returned later.
It is better to be down-to-earth, be serious and really good, take every step in front of you steadily, strive for what you should fight for, what you can fight for, what does not belong to you, and things that are not suitable for you do not want to be extravagant. Life will be more complete and beautiful.
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