Li Shuangjiang is a famous tenor singer who has appeared on the stage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala many times.
He has sung wonderful songs such as "Ode to Beijing", "I Love The Five Finger Mountain, I Love the Wanquan River", "The Sunshine of the Party Shines on the Motherland", "Pulling a Camel to Send Military Food" and other wonderful songs, and is the most respected performing artist by the public.
Li Shuangjiang's hard work and half a life's achievements were ruined by his younger son Li Tianyi, and he was also crowned with the title of "Famous Father".
Although the younger son he educated was a failure, the eldest son of his ex-wife made him proud, and the brothers were not killed by the same father.
Li Shuangjiang, born in 1939, to a rural family in Harbin.
His parents were farmers, they had no artistic cells, and there was a singer in the family.
Li Shuangjiang liked to sing since he was a child, and his family did not have money to cultivate his hobbies, so he studied with the sound of the radio.
He dreamed of going to music school, but his parents opposed him, who hoped that his son would study hard, get into a good university, and have an iron rice bowl.
That year, the Central Conservatory of Music went to Harbin to select people, and Li Shuangjiang secretly registered for the exam without his parents, but he did not expect to get the notice smoothly.
Back at home, he had a showdown with his parents, and the raw rice was cooked to maturity, and the parents had to agree.
In 1959, 20-year-old Li Shuangjiang took the hard-earned money of his parents and embarked on the road to Beijing.
What he didn't know was that he would become a good singer in the future and would also meet his first wife.
After graduation, he was assigned to the Xinjiang Song and Dance Troupe and became a colleague with Ding Ying. Ding Ying is a dancer, and the dance beauty is also beautiful.
Li Shuangjiang and Ding Ying became familiar with each other because of a cooperation, and later, the two often rehearsed together, ate, etc., and the two came together for a long time.
Since Xinjiang is far from Harbin, they simply held weddings in the group.
Not long after the marriage, Ding Ying became pregnant, Li Shuangjiang took on the responsibility of taking care of her, and rushed home after the performance.
On the day of his son's birth, Li Shuangjiang was ecstatic and named li he.
In order to take care of the children, Ding Ying temporarily gave up his career and turned his attention to the family, while Li Shuangjiang worked outside.
Outstanding in singing, he was valued by the troupe and was transferred to Beijing to work, not only holding solo concerts, but also becoming a professor at the Central Conservatory of Music.
Work is getting busier and busier, Li Shuangjiang and Ding Yingju are less and more separated, their feelings have weakened, and they have reached the point of divorce.
Li Shuangjiang was reluctant to give up his son and wanted to fight for custody, but he had very little care and care for his son and sentenced him to Ding Ying.
Ding Ying left Beijing with his son Li He and returned to Xinjiang. Except for the maintenance of the child with Li Shuangjiang every month, the two have no contact.
The divorce caused great harm to Ding Ying, who has been with Li Shuangjiang for decades, has always supported and trusted him, and has never thought of divorce.
She looked at her own child and felt sorry for her son for not giving him a complete family.
Ding Ying decided not to remarry and wait until his son reached adulthood to consider his life's events, while working and taking care of his children.
At first, Li He didn't understand why his father didn't live together. As he grew older, he gradually understood his parents.
As a man in the family, he has to take on the responsibility of taking care of his mother, and when he comes home from school, he will help his mother with housework.
Ding Ying looked at her son and felt very relieved that her son had grown up, but she still hoped that his son would focus on learning.
Li He does not need his mother to worry about learning at all, will take the initiative to learn, is the top student in the class, from childhood to adulthood is a bully.
Li He, the son of Ding Ying's education, is a child of someone else's family and is very good at what he does.
After Li He finished his studies, he did not enter the society, but chose to study abroad and wanted to be exposed to more knowledge.
Abroad, in order to reduce the pressure on his mother, he began to work and study half time.
However, as a father, Li Shuangjiang did not ask his own son after the divorce, and even concealed that he had a marriage and children.
In 1988, Li Shuangjiang taught at the Central Conservatory of Music and met his second wife, Mengge.
That year, the 22-year-old Dream Pigeon was finally admitted to the school of her choice, and in order to pursue her musical dream, she would definitely participate in a good open class.
One day, Li Shuangjiang held an open class at the college, and Mengge had long heard that the teacher was teaching well, and went to take a seat with his classmates early in the morning.
When Li Shuangjiang walked into the classroom, Mengge looked at him obsessively, revealing an appreciative look, thinking that he must seize this opportunity to ask the teacher for advice.
In class, Mengge was fascinated by it, and as soon as the bell rang after class, he immediately ran to Li Shuangjiang's side and stopped him and said: Teacher Li, I will sing you a song to listen to.
Li Shuangjiang gestured to please, and Dream Pigeon conquered the teacher with her singing, and decided on the spot to teach her to sing. Dream Pigeon is very excited and will definitely learn from the teacher.
During that time, Li Shuangjiang and Mengge often went in and out of pairs, and the feelings between them became ambiguous.
Once, when Li Shuangjiang was preparing for the Young Singers Television Grand Prix, he thought of his student Dream Pigeon and asked her to sign up for it.
Dream Pigeon listened to the teacher's words and did not expect to win the third prize. At the end of the competition, the winners and staff went to Jiuzhaigou for a day of fun.
Li Shuangjiang also accompanied as the initiator.
It was fine when I went to play, but when I went back it rained heavily, I had a mudslide and a group of people were trapped in the mountains.
As a veteran, Li Shuangjiang took the initiative to take on the responsibility of taking care of them, going to find food for them and cook.
As a college student, Mengge was very scared when he encountered such a situation, so Li Shuangjiang took the initiative to comfort her and gave her more food.
Later, when the weather improved and the way down the mountain was blocked by mudslides, Li Shuangjiang led them to find a way.
Because it was dark, he was afraid that the dream pigeon was afraid, and took the initiative to hold the dream pigeon's hand, and the dream pigeon felt very warm in his heart and felt very safe.
She thought to herself that even if she was trapped here, she would be happy and warm.
Li Shuangjiang's feelings for Mengge are getting stronger and stronger, but he is hesitant to confess, because he is 27 years older than Mengge and is still a teacher-student love.
Such relationships were not favored in those days.
Haunted by this problem all day, he was very distressed and did not know what to do next.
Li Shuangjiang called the old class leader and told him: Like your own students, you don't know what to do?
The old squad leader said: You can see it correctly!
With the words of the old squad leader, Li Shuangjiang understood in his heart and knew what he should do.
In 1989, Li Shuangjiang and Mengge went to Qingdao to participate in the singing competition, and after the end, Deng Dao organized everyone to climb the mountain.
Deng Dao took the lead in climbing the mountain, walking very fast, and the dream pigeon could not keep up with his physical strength, so he walked slowly and leisurely behind.
Li Shuangjiang was worried about her, deliberately walked slowly, and followed her. During this time, he had been protecting the dream pigeon, afraid that she would bump into it.
Everyone else walked to the top of the mountain, and Li Shuangjiang and Mengge were still hanging around the mountainside.
When Li Shuangjiang saw that there was no one around, he suddenly stopped, looked at the sky and said, "I want to marry a dream pigeon."
The dream pigeon walking in front of him was startled, stopped and looked back at him, thinking he was joking and said: Just like this, be serious.
Although Mengge said this, he was happy in his heart, thinking that Li Shuangjiang had finally opened his mind.
However, she did not take it seriously, and after going back, she and Li Shuangjiang still maintained the state of teacher and student.
Li Shuangjiang seriously told her: What he said at that time was serious, and Mengge was very moved, and they were together regardless of the eyes of others.
In 1990, after graduating from school, Mengge decided to marry Li Shuangjiang. Mengge took him back to Hubei to meet his parents.
Dream Pigeon's parents were very excited to learn that their daughter was going to take their boyfriend home and had been busy.
However, the moment they saw Li Shuangjiang, Mengge's parents were confused, and repeatedly confirmed to their daughter that they were boyfriends? She replied yes in the affirmative.
Dream Pigeon's parents did not agree to such a marriage, the difference of 27 years old and divorced, not worthy of their daughter. She took her parents' words as a sidekick and insisted on being with Li Shuangjiang.
Seeing that their daughter did not break up, Mengge's parents moved to Beijing to live with their daughter to prevent the two from meeting.
Although the parents tried all kinds of ways to keep their daughter at home, Mengge still had a way to go out and secretly meet Li Shuangjiang.
The stronger her parents discouraged her, the more she wanted to get married and secretly get a license from Li Shuangjiang. After the fact, I told my parents that I had to compromise.
They had their wedding at the Friendship Hotel, and Dream Pigeon's parents were stretched their faces the whole time. Fortunately, Li Shuangjiang was very good to Mengge, and his father-in-law and mother-in-law accepted him.
After marriage, Mengge entered the General Political Song and Dance Troupe, was a CCTV royal actor, and appeared on the stage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala with her husband Li Shuangjiang many times.
With a thriving career, Li Shuangjiang always felt that something was missing and wanted a child.
She hesitated when she spoke her mind to Dream Pigeon. Li Shuangjiang said: Only with children can our marriage be complete.
In 1995, 29-year-old Mengge and 56-year-old Li Shuangjiang stopped all their work and concentrated on preparing for pregnancy, but they did not expect to conceive a child.
Li Shuangjiang was very excited to take good care of his wife and let the child be born smoothly.
Throughout the pregnancy, Li Shuangjiang accompanied Mengge, afraid of accidents, and made nutritious meals for his wife.
The following year, the child was born. The day of delivery was relatively smooth, but the premature baby was in danger at any time, and Li Shuangjiang prayed outside that the child must be healthy.
After the child was born, the nurses did not show him, and the child was sent to the incubator.
Li Shuangjiang followed closely behind the nurse, looking at his son with a lot of threads inserted in his body, very distressed, and afraid that the nurse would not take good care of the problem.
He was watching the child outside the incubator, and his son was in the incubator for three days and three nights, and he didn't sleep for three days and three nights.
Fortunately, the child recovered well and soon returned to the general ward.
Li Shuangjiang looked at his son not easy, so he named him Li Tianyi, which means that everything is the first.
He loves Li Tianyi very much, and he is not willing to kill his son at all, and his son wants to eat, no matter what the weather, whenever he goes to buy.
Li Shuangjiang had high hopes for Li Tianyi and sent his son to an aristocratic school, hoping that his son would become an artist like himself.
When Li Tianyi was 4 years old, he was sent by Li Shuangjiang to learn piano, learn calligraphy at the age of 8, and learn ice hockey at the age of 10.
In 2011, when 15-year-old Li Tianyi liked to sing, Li Shuangjiang gave him a concert and invited friends to participate.
Although Li Tianyi followed his father's arrangement, the doting education was easy for adolescent children to rebel.
Li Tianyi didn't want to study, just wanted to play, and often caused trouble at school. Although Li Shuangjiang knows that it is not good to do this, his son himself spoils himself and will give him "wiping his ass".
As soon as Li Tian got into some small things, he gave some money or a connection and it was fine. This kind of handling makes Li Tianyi more and more arrogant and directly disobedient.
On that day, Li Tianyi asked his father Li Shuangjiang to buy a luxury car for himself.
Although the child was underage and could not drive, Li Shuangjiang bought it for the child and taught his son how to drive.
As a result, Li Tianyi secretly drove out and made a big mistake.
That day, Li Tianyi drove to play with friends, and when he returned home, he met a couple driving at the entrance of the community and blocked his way.
He was very angry, got out of the car and beat the couple, the head of the beating was broken and bleeding, and the onlookers quickly called the police.
After verification, the hit was Li Tianyi, the son of Li Shuangjiang, or a minor driving without a driver's license, and needed to be detained.
Li Tianyi had never suffered since he was a child, and Li Shuangjiang couldn't bear it, so he tried all kinds of ways to keep it, but the results were useless.
Fortunately, he was still young and was released after a year of detention.
During this year, Li Shuangjiang and his ex-wife's son Li He returned from studying abroad.
He did not go to Li Shuangjiang to arrange a job for himself, but entered the company for internship and became the backbone of the company.
Seeing that his brother had an accident, Li He also took the initiative to call his father to comfort him, asking his father to change the way of education, and he did not listen.
Even his friend Yang Hongji called Li Shuangjiang and asked him to change the way he taught his children.
Li Shuangjiang knew that the way to educate his children was not right, and he could not bear to see his son suffering, and tried his best to meet the requirements of his children.
After Li Tianyi was released from prison, Li Shuangjiang still doted on his children, suspecting that it was because of his name that his son had become like this, so he changed his name to Li Guanfeng.
Changing his name is not the same as changing his life, and Li Tianyi's arrogant personality cannot be changed.
In 2013, 17-year-old Li Tianyi had another accident, this time very seriously, and was sentenced to 10 years.
The 74-year-old Li Shuangjiang ran up and down for his son and gave his son a point, but as soon as the people around him saw what was happening, they ignored him.
Li Shuangjiang and Mengge watched their son go to prison for the second time, and the feeling of powerlessness made him shed tears.
He missed his son and was not in the mood to do all kinds of things, and after the eldest son Li He knew, he quickly put down his work and came to his father.
Li He accompanied his father regardless of his previous suspicions, handled his brother's affairs with him, and lived with his father to accompany him, so that he could get out of the pain early.
The day when Li Tianyi was released from prison was getting closer and closer, which became Li Shuangjiang's hope for survival.
He was afraid that after his son was released from prison, he would have no money, so he would start to take on various commercial performances, and as long as he could make money, he would participate.
Now Li Shuangjiang is 82 years old, and he can still be seen in small business performances.
Li Shuangjiang had two sons, one of which made him proud and one of which made him ashamed.
All this is because of the problem of the way of education, the error of the way of education, resulting in the development of the two children is different.
To spoil a child is to harm a child. Although the starting point of coddling is love, the end point of excessive coddling is hate.