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Recently, the famous artist Li Shuangjiang and his wife Mengge sparked heated discussions at a luxurious banquet held for their son Li Tianyi. The 69-year-old couple, who have been the focus of public attention, have once again focused their attention on the family with their high-profile extravagance. The magnificence of the banquet undoubtedly reflects the hosts' pursuit of luxury and material life, but this blind flaunting of wealth inevitably raises questions about their family education philosophy.
For the luxury of the banquet, the food and music on the scene are the best footnotes. The sumptuous banquet and dazzling decorations all show the organizer's pursuit of material enjoyment. And such pomp, how could you ever think about whether it is in line with the main theme of the current society? Does it reflect the concept of frugality? The extravagance and waste in front of them just exposes their blind obedience to luxury life.
A family's attitude towards material life often directly affects the values of its children. If parents only pay attention to material enjoyment and ignore the cultivation of inner morality, their children will be easily assimilated by this "shortcutism", resulting in the bad habits of opportunism and vanity to show off their wealth. What's worse is that when they can't pursue such a luxurious life, they may choose to break the law and commit crimes, and degenerate into marginal figures in society. The child's life is to establish values in the words and deeds of his parents, which shows that the words and deeds of Li Shuangjiang and his wife are indeed worthy of reflection in this regard.
When a child makes a mistake, the parent's reaction determines the child's future trajectory. However, in this family, what we see is that Li Tianyi has received "privileged treatment". Although he was imprisoned for a major mistake, when he was freed, his parents not only did not give him the criticism and education he deserved, but instead threw a lavish banquet for him. This inevitably raises the question: do they, as parents, have a thorough understanding of their children's wrongdoing? For what reason, would you rather be extravagant and wasteful, but so indulgent and accommodating your children?
It is conceivable that this practice is really a typical manifestation of doting on children. As parents, we should give our children love and tolerance, but appropriate guidance and discipline are also a key part of helping children grow up healthily. If these principles and measures are lacking, children will gradually slide to the edge of morality and law, and eventually degenerate into "criminals" in society. The harm caused by "spoiling children" is by no means only a potential risk of breaking the law and committing crimes. At a deeper level, it destroys the inner qualities of children, inhibiting their ability to think independently and self-restraint. In the long run, they will inevitably develop habitual passive dependence, lack of sense of responsibility, and even breed their own sense of centrality and vanity. Once faced with real-world setbacks and pressures, and lacking the inner strength to deal with them, it is easy to go astray and ultimately achieve nothing.
The phrase "strict teachers produce high apprentices" is not empty words. Proper restraint and guidance are more about helping children grow up healthily and cultivate tenacity and independence. It can be said that doting on children is never a kind of "love", but a kind of indulgence like covering up the ears and stealing the bell, which is destined to bury the child's future. As parents, we should cherish this opportunity to guide our children, and we should not turn a blind eye and miss the opportunity.
It is not difficult to see from the video materials that the couple, who are 27 years apart, have a sharp contrast in their life style. The 83-year-old Li Shuangjiang is full of black hair and full of energy, which is no different from the vigor of the past. The dream pigeon is a different scene: dressed in a simple 100-yuan dress, looking haggard and old, forming a sense of contradiction with the 56-year-old age. With such a big difference between the two, it inevitably makes people wonder: as partners, do they have enough understanding of each other's life philosophies? Did Dream Pigeon choose such a simple life out of his own will, or was he suppressed and constrained by a certain way of life? On the contrary, when Li Shuangjiang pursued luxurious material comforts, did he also try to understand and tolerate his wife's thoughts?
Everyone's yearning and pursuit of life is different, and this individual difference is a problem that couples must face. If the two parties have serious differences in life philosophy and lack effective communication and exchange, it will inevitably produce contradictions and imbalances in life, and even affect feelings.
Take this couple as an example, if the two parties have differences in their attitudes and values towards life, but rarely understand, tolerate and compromise with each other, then the long-term estrangement and misunderstanding will inevitably make the relationship alienated and lose the intimate tacit understanding. Worse still, this kind of antagonism of lifestyles may also indirectly affect children, causing them to have a conflicting perception of the family, resulting in wrong values and lifestyles. It can be said that effective communication between husband and wife is the cornerstone of building a harmonious family. Only through patient communication, mutual understanding and compromise can couples remain united in the midst of differences and work together to guide their children to establish a correct outlook on life and values. Otherwise, the lack of communication will lead to the accumulation of family conflicts, which in turn will affect the growth of children. As parents, we should cherish this family bond, not take it for granted.
The family is the cell of society, the first and most important place of education in life. From the family life of Li Shuangjiang Mengge, it is not difficult for us to find some educational issues worthy of reflection.
Parents should be cautious in pursuing material life and avoid blindly flaunting their wealth. An excessively extravagant and wasteful lifestyle not only tends to nurture children's vanity and speculation, but once they stumble, they may even lead to the road of no return to breaking the law and committing crimes. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to the cultivation of good moral character in addition to material life, and use the power of their own words and deeds to implant correct values in the hearts of their children.
Parents should give their children appropriate restraint and guidance to avoid "spoiling" education methods. Connivance and accommodation are not true "love", but will hinder the cultivation of children's independent and self-disciplined ability, so that they lack a sense of responsibility and basic ability of self-management. On the contrary, moderate discipline can help children grow up healthily and build a resilient character. Parents should grasp the balance in a timely manner and implement the necessary restraints in a timely manner in the name of love, rather than doing whatever they want.
The cornerstone of family harmony is mutual understanding and tolerance between husband and wife. The difference in life concepts caused by age difference is normal, the key is that the husband and wife should reach a consensus through patient communication and mutual compromise, and there should be no estrangement and prejudice that affects the family atmosphere. Only by working together and sincerely can parents create a good environment for their children to grow up and guide them to establish a correct outlook on life and values.
In short, family education is related to the development of children's life, and we should attach great importance to this link, and guide children correctly with wisdom and patience, rather than educational deviations and deficiencies. A harmonious family is everyone's dream to aspire to, let us work together and fight for it.
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