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6 years ago, a large-scale blind date show "Blind Date Will Win" went viral.
Among them, a female guest, Zhou Lanjun, with her unique blind date concept, frequently appeared on hot searches.
She has no prominent family lineage, outstanding appearance, or sophomore, but threatens not to marry the rich second generation who is not 50 million assets.
Speaking of which, at that time, the host did not waste less effort in order to help her find Ruyi Langjun.
Now that 6 years have passed, has Zhou Lanjun married the second generation of the rich as he wished?
Zhou Lanjun 6 years ago:
A mind to marry a tycoon
In the end, he was angered by the second generation of the rich
At that time, Zhou Lanjun was still a college student in his early 20s, did not understand the cruelty of society, and did not see the sinister nature of human nature.
However, she is so simple, but she is very confident in herself.
So Zhou Lanjun began to register various blind date websites, attracting the attention of a large wave of people with "its own advantages".
After that, she was selected as a female guest by the "Blind Date To Win" program group.
In fact, there are too many unworldly little girls like her in the show, but she is really the only one who has to marry the second generation of the 50 million rich.
When the host asked Zhou Lanjun why she must marry the second generation of the rich, she confidently said: "If I don't marry the second generation of the rich, my appearance and figure, my social and etiquette, my good character and character, and even my soul will be ruined." ”
This phrase also once became an Internet buzzword.
In her view, youth is capital, and rich people are not good for young girls?
Changing youth for a carefree life, this deal, simply can not be more cost-effective.
Zhou Lanjun's family is very ordinary, his father is an engineer in a large enterprise, and his mother is a university housekeeper.
She grew up in a not-so-friendly environment, but she also grew up in the favor of her parents.
Therefore, Zhou Lanjun, who had not suffered much, always thought that she was a princess in the castle.
Many people suspect that she is hyping herself, but as early as when she did not participate in the show, she had already clarified the direction of the "50 million rich second generation".
At the beginning, the red bride of the dating website told Zhou Lanjun: "Your condition can marry a rich second generation worth 20 million." ”
To tell the truth, the 20 million worth of men has exceeded many people, but Zhou Lanjun seems to have an excessive attachment to 50 million.
Even the host of the program once advised her: "If a person really has so much family property, then the parents' requirements for their children's mate selection are also very high." ”
In fact, the subtext of this sentence is very clear:
You want to marry the 50 million rich second generation, do people want to marry you?
Unfortunately, the ignorant Zhou Lanjun could not listen to it at all, and she firmly believed that she deserved 50 million.
In desperation, the host had to find 3 men who met the requirements according to her mate selection criteria.
The first man is a proper rich second generation, and there is also a company of his own, worth far more than 50 million.
However, hearing Zhou Lanjun's conditions, the other party directly declined.
The second man, Xiao Lu, although willing to meet her, directly dismissed the idea of communication after learning about Zhou Lanjun's family and values.
Even during the recording of the program, Xiao Lu also mocked her.
He said: "To marry the rich second generation, the girl herself must also have capital, and she must be able to go to the hall and the kitchen." It is better to play the piano, write and draw. ”
The implication is that under Zhou Lanjun's conditions, it is simply impossible to marry into a rich family.
The third man, whose value does not reach the standard of 50 million, is also a high-quality man.
Two years after graduation, he became the financial manager of a chamber of commerce, and in the eyes of the program group, he was fully worthy of Last Week's Lanjun.
But this time, Zhou Lanjun directly rejected the other party, on the grounds that he could not give himself the life he wanted, like a little.
When the program was broadcast here, many viewers could not watch it anymore and directly shouted that the "gold worshipper" would quit.
Some netizens even attacked her: "You don't look in the mirror to see what you look like." ”
Finally, the host told Zhou Lanjun that if she did not change this strange concept of marriage, then she would have no chance to marry the second generation of the rich.
Maybe she suffered a setback in the show, or maybe the words of the host and netizens woke her up.
Now Zhou Lanjun is really different.
Zhou Lanjun after 6 years:
No longer obsessed with marrying into the rich
Because I'm a big man myself
After leaving the show, Zhou Lanjun was no longer obsessed with finding the 50 million rich second generation who was willing to marry her, but honestly returned to her own life trajectory.
When she was still a sophomore, she experienced such ups and downs, which can also be regarded as a help for her life.
After graduation, Zhou Lanjun has been working hard with his own hands.
It has been 6 years since the show was broadcast, and although she did not marry a tycoon, she became a female boss herself.
Talking about the past, Zhou Lanjun did not feel ashamed, but laughed at himself on his social account.
She confessed that she was indeed too ignorant at that time.
But it was also the ignorant self and embarrassing experience that created the later Zhou Lanjun.
At that time, although the road of blind date was a detour, it was also the only way to go through life, and after walking through, you will know which road is a smooth road.
She is sober, and it is better to change her fate by marrying a tycoon than to work hard herself.
In other words, instead of trying to squeeze into the giants, it is better to become a giant yourself.
As a result, Zhou Lanjun has been accumulating strength, and now at the age of 29, she has opened her own network company in Xiamen.
In the past few years, she has taken the Mandarin exam and learned to draw, bake, tea and make cakes, but Zhou Lanjun knows very well that these are no longer for marrying a rich family, but for the purpose of completing self-transformation.
Even if she is not married to the second generation of the 50 million rich, it is not a regret for her.
So you see, happiness is never something that reaches out to others, but is in your own hands.
Maybe the former Zhou Lanjun has not been able to get out of the cognitive dilemma, but seriously, as long as he can sober himself up, what is the embarrassing, awkward, and unspeakable past?
Feelings are not about conditions
It's about attraction
As the show "Blind Date Wins" said, there are too many girls who want to marry the rich.
But what you need to know is that the more powerful the richest people with strong backgrounds and solid family backgrounds, the higher the requirements for the next generation of mates.
Even if you use all your means to get the rich second generation, can you get his parents?
Not to mention that the daughter-in-law of the rich needs to be proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and the class gap alone will make it difficult for you to look up in the days to come.
Moreover, the risk of ordinary girls marrying a rich family is too high.
After Wu Peici and her boyfriend Ji Xiaobo, who is worth 10 billion, got him 4 children in 5 years, and thought that his mother was expensive and sat firmly in the position of a rich wife.
But whoever thought, the other party never gave her a name.
At that time, some netizens joked that what is the use of being born more, is it not even possible to get a paper certificate?
Yes, she was wrong from the beginning, using the child as a chip to exchange the identity of the rich wife, but she lost herself in the process.
If she has the courage to become a tycoon and make herself more excellent, does she still need to rely on her children to get to the top?
In other words, you trade beauty, youth, and children for a ticket to the giants.
But do you know how many women also have these conditions?
Once a woman who is more suitable than you to be a daughter-in-law of a rich man appears, are you eliminated by the last place?
With the passage of time, the external conditions of women are increasingly unable to be regarded as advantages.
What really makes you permanently exude charm is your inner cultivation and your excellence.
Just like Zhou Lanjun now, I believe that at this time, she must be surrounded by all kinds of high-quality men.
After all, feelings are not about conditions, but about attraction.
There is a saying that goes like this: If you bloom, the butterflies will come.
That's what love is.
When you are good enough, the partner you attract will certainly be excellent.
You know, which floor you stand on, you will see the scenery that can be seen on this floor.
Instead of stepping on your feet and looking up, you should walk up the stairs yourself and climb to the top floor.
Finally, I would like to say that the so-called successful women are by no means relying on means to fight into the giants, but let the giants chase and run.
Click "Watching", forward it, let more girls on the road to choosing a mate, take more smooth roads, less detours.
Author's profile: This article is reproduced from Binbin Reason (ID: bbylclub), author: Big Mushroom, a public account that makes women strong and warm, focuses on women's self-growth, and interprets emotional confusion for girlfriends.