I think many parents will have a headache about this problem, my child gets up and rubs, eats and rubs, brushes his teeth and rubs, goes out to rub, sleeps, and even more grinds and rubs!
Why do children have such severe procrastination?
Sometimes these grinding things really make parents angry.
But on closer inspection, it seems that everyone has procrastination, please ask your parents to ask yourself, do you really not procrastinate in everything at work, in life?
Rubbing is actually an instinct of people's looseness and life, so where is the root cause of procrastination?
We will find a very strange thing, no one will delay or rub it on what interests us.
Rubbing is actually a behavioral reaction when people move from one thing they like to another thing they don't like but are considered important by others.
To give an example, a child loves to play with blocks, so he is concentrating on playing with blocks, which is something he likes.
But when it's time for the child to wash up, the child has to wash up and go to sleep, and this thing is something she doesn't like.
Therefore, we will find that when guiding the baby from playing with building blocks to toys to washing and sleeping, there will naturally be a phenomenon of grinding and rubbing.
On the contrary, if you move from something you don't like to something you like, I believe that no child will have a grinding phenomenon.
For example, if a child is doing homework at the moment, and he moves from homework to playing games, I don't believe there will be any children rubbing.
So how to solve these frictions of the baby? Next, I will teach you a few small methods.
1. Give your child plenty of time to transition.
It takes time for people to transition from something they like to another. Educating children is not about training troops, and it is difficult for us to restrain children by assembling in three minutes. For children, I think this transition time is best around 10 to 15 minutes.
2. Set a time reminder for your child and count down
We told the kids there were still a few minutes left. Generally for children before the age of 6, we may have to remind them twice or so.
For example, children like to play in the playground, but need to eat lunch, parents can tell the child fifteen minutes in advance, you can also play for another 15 minutes, and every 5 minutes to remind the child, so that the child has an expectation that he will leave soon. At 15 minutes, whether the child is crying or not, it is necessary to decisively take the child away.
3. Other reminder gadgets
Such as timers, hourglasses and so on. Let children develop the habit of controlling their own time in a fun environment.
4. As a parent
Closing your mouth and keeping urging is the root of procrastination. It will give the child a negative reinforcement effect, as well as the effect of rebellion and rebellion. Therefore, turn urging, blaming, and accusation into reminders, prompts, and invitations. The phenomenon of rubbing will be greatly reduced or even disappeared.