In 2009, Yu Mingjia received a call from his mother: "You are 27, hurry up and find a partner to marry." ”
Yu Mingjia said with a dissatisfied skimmer: "I am only 27, I am still young, I am not in a hurry, I said, many actresses have not married at the age of thirty-seven or eight. ”
The other end of the phone said disapprovingly: "I can't control other girls, you must get married early, my father and I have found you a blind date, find a time to meet." ”
Yu Mingjia also wanted to refute a few words, and her mother hurriedly hung up the phone, and the intention of the call was obvious, that is, to ask her to marry as soon as possible.
When they first met, Yu Mingjia did not look at the blind date at all, thinking that he was too pompous.
Unexpectedly, in the end, the two unexpectedly married, married and had children.
As a well-known actor, she has been filming conscientiously for nearly ten years since her debut, and has never had an emotional scandal.
When he was young, he married a blind date under the arrangement of his parents and lived a pure and happy life.
Nourished by happiness, she has appeared more than once and said: "I am really lucky to have a pure love and a happy marriage." ”
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In the early 1980s, Yu Mingjia was born in a middle-class family in Changchun, Jilin Province, her father was a civil servant, and her mother was from Shuxiang Mendi.
Everything must strive for the first, whether it is academic performance or artistic activities, we must be the best one.
Under the careful teachings of his parents, Yu Mingjia is particularly excellent in all aspects, and is a typical child of other people's families.
In high school, under the influence of the diplomat's aunt, her parents hoped that she could apply for the China Foreign Affairs Academy, and it happened that she had particularly good grades, and the school also intended to guarantee her to the China Foreign Affairs College.
The parents were particularly happy and felt that their daughter Chengfeng had finally returned.
At the critical moment, Yu Mingjia flinched, she did not like the fierce diplomatic work, and wanted to apply for the Central Academy of Drama and become an actor.
Time back to three years ago, once Yu Mingjia followed her mother to the art academy to observe, watching the performance on the stage, she developed a strong interest in acting, determined to become an actor, and made up her mind to apply for the Central Academy of Drama.
When she protested to her parents, they quickly united their fronts, analyzing the pros and cons of her word for word in an attempt to subvert her decision.
Whatever the parents say? Yu Mingjia just refused to let up and change his decision.
When her parents saw the situation, they moved in and settled abroad to persuade her, but Yu Mingjia was determined to become an actor and could not listen to the persuasion at all.
Seeing that she was stubborn and refused to admit defeat, her uncle helped Yu Mingjia persuade Yu's parents to support her dreams.
For this reason, Yu Dad scolded and grinned for a long time, and then reluctantly agreed.
After convincing the woman, she secretly made up her mind to be admitted to the Central Academy of Drama.
On the day of the exam, the parents did not have the usual nervousness, but sat calmly on the sofa and read the newspaper.
After Yu Mingjia returned home after the exam, his father pushed the reading glasses and asked, "How?" Do you have the confidence to pass the test? ”
Not to be outdone, Yu Mingjia replied, "I will definitely be able to pass the exam." ”
Turning around and going back to the room, the parents beside them laughed out loud, thinking that Yu Mingjia had no chance to play.
Who knows after the results come out? To their surprise, Yu Mingjia was actually admitted, and although the old couple was not willing, they did not dare to gamble on their daughter's future, and could only compromise.
In 2000, Yu Mingjia was successfully admitted to the Acting Department of the Central Academy of Drama and became a classmate of the well-known actor Gao Lu.
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During the school period, Yu Mingjia, known as the "school flower", only knew how to nibble on books all day, and when other students were busy going out to shoot dramas or fall in love, only she stayed in school and studied performances down-to-earth.
It was not until her senior year, with superb acting skills and good looks, that she participated in film and television dramas such as "Sun Dripping Blood" and "Brothers Like Brothers and Sisters".
More than ten years after his debut, the number of works produced is not much, and each one can be regarded as a high-quality drama.
After graduating from university, she stood out from more than 100 competitors, and after passing a series of selection examinations, she joined the Beijing People's Art Theater.
While completing the unit performance, she also starred in many film and television dramas such as "Marrying with Children" and "Mobile Phone".
In 2005, he cooperated with Zhang Guoli and Jiang Wenli in "Golden Marriage", playing the wayward and rebellious Tong Duoduo in the play, and became famous in one fell swoop.
After the broadcast of this drama, it quickly became the ratings champion of the year, and several of the main actors in the play also ushered in the peak of their careers again, and Yu Mingjia, who had just arrived, was also recognized by many directors, and his career could be described as bright.
Just as she was about to make a big show, a forced marriage phone call from her parents disrupted her peaceful life.
At first, Yu Mingjia would argue with her mother, but her parents did not listen to her at all, and only wanted to marry her 27-year-old.
Finally, under the persecution of his father and mother, Yu Mingjia took the initiative to surrender his weapons and hurried back to his hometown with his luggage.
When she arrived home, she found that the blind date she had introduced was an executive of a mature and stable eight-year-old car sales company. The parents saw that the man was old and heavy, and his income was stable, so he couldn't wait to match the two.
Although his parents praised the boys on the side, Yu Mingjia was very tired of this blind date from the bottom of his heart, and in order not to worry his parents, he had to participate hard.
With the help of the gods of their parents, the two had their first meeting.
As a result, when she arrived at the agreed place, she found that the promising young man in her father's mouth was a boy with curly punk hair, wearing ripped jeans, and a flowing look.
This kind of bold and overly dashing boy is not Yu Mingjia's ideal type at all, and when the two chat, she seems extremely impatient.
On the contrary, Hu Jun took a fancy to her, thinking that she was gentle and bright, tall and well-proportioned, and polite and Sven.
At the dinner table, he tried his best to show her his strengths and wanted to develop further.
But Yu Mingjia said directly: "We are not suitable." ”
After the blind date, Yu Mingjia said bitterly in order to let his father stop this.
"This man can't do it, you can introduce me to a better one"
Father promised one after another: "You first observe and observe him, and if you are not satisfied, we will pick and choose." ”
He thought that the two of them would be gone, but Yu's parents recognized him and supported him in pursuing his daughter.
More than once, he said good things about him in front of his daughter, revealing her whereabouts and suggesting that he had a chance encounter.
With the support of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Hu Jun cut first and then played and ran to Beijing.
Later, the two met several times, and gradually Yu Mingjia found that Hu Jun still had a lot of shining points on his body.
He was kind and generous, gentle but patient.
What is even more valuable is that he has special respect for Mingjiang's parents, and often runs to his home with gifts to visit the two elderly people.
In his spare time, he will accompany Yu Dad to play chess and chat and talk about life.
I will also personally accompany my mother to go shopping and help her carry things.
What Hu Jun did was seen in the eyes of his parents and happy in his heart.
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Coincidentally, once Yu Mingjia got drunk after attending a friend's cocktail party.
Just out of the banquet hall, I met Hu Jun.
Hu Jun saw that she was drunk and unconscious, and he was very uneasy, so he sent her home.
When she got home, she found her kitchen exceptionally clean and there was nothing to eat in the fridge.
This made Hu Jun look very distressed, afraid that if she did not eat on time, she would get stomach problems.
In order to take better care of her, he quit his stable and high-paying job in Shanghai and accompanied her to Beijing to re-establish his career.
Yu Mingjia was touched by what he had done, and his heart was full of sweetness.
A man who is willing to give up years of hard work for love, choosing to start from scratch requires great courage.
After arriving in Beijing, Yu Mingjia found that the two were like-minded, their habits and hobbies were particularly similar, and sometimes, the two would coincide in their ideas.
Gradually, Yu Mingjia no longer rejected Hu Jun, and was touched by his sincerity, and the two slowly came together.
After the two are together, Yu Mingjia will also be like a little girl in love, asking her boyfriend how much she loves herself.
She had anticipated many answers in her mind, thinking that there would be a unique answer to romance.
As a result, Hu Jun will not be skilled in love words, and will say bluntly"I love you too." ”
Gradually, the relationship between the two became more and more stable, and Yu Mingjia's career also developed better and better.
Once, the night before Yu Mingjia's birthday, Hu Jun solemnly said to Mingjia: "I want to propose to you, will you agree?" ”
Yu Mingjia asked solemnly, "Then are you ready for the ring?" ”
Hu Jun scratched his head and said embarrassedly, "I forgot to prepare the ring." ”
Then, to ease his embarrassment, he hid in the bathroom.
In order to give Yu Mingjia a memorable memory for a lifetime, he carefully prepared a marriage proposal ceremony.
So, on her birthday, in the presence of her parents and friends.
He knelt down on one knee with the ring and asked her with affection, "Will you marry me?" ”
Yu Mingjia nodded reservedly and stuck his finger out.
After that, the two held a low-key wedding, and many media prejudged the marriage at the time that "this unequal marriage will not last long."
However, the two have proved with ten years of consistent actions that marriages that are not equal in the eyes of outsiders can still be happy and long-lasting.
Yu Mingjia, who originally had a good future, did not lose more because of "marriage", on the contrary, in this marriage, under the care and support of her husband, she had a lot of happiness and warmth.
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On a show, Yu Mingjia shared her way of getting along with her husband.
Before getting married, Yu Mingjia confessed to her husband:
"Actually, I don't know how to cook, will you blame me?"
Hu Junyun said lightly:
"I'll marry you and I won't need you to cook, just hire a babysitter."
At first, Yu Mingjia's words were used by her husband to comfort him, and he did not take them to heart.
As a result, after the two got married, he really did not let her into the kitchen, every day dinner was prepared by his aunt, and when he came home from work, he would occasionally show his hand and prepare dinner for his wife.
He is not good at words, but he has given his wife a sense of security in life and has taken care of everything in the family.
When Yu Mingjia was stationed in the crew for a long time, in order to save her worries, he would transform into a super dad and carefully take care of the two children.
Like other wives, she will also prepare small surprises for her husband, take care of his food and clothing, and carefully prepare luggage when traveling abroad.
When he came home from a business trip, he would pick out a bunch of gifts and sneak them to his wife.
On their wedding anniversaries, he prepares gifts and roses for his wife.
After getting married, she temporarily retired from show business and died for the sake of her family.
After giving birth to two daughters, she became a housewife.
In order to facilitate the pick-up and drop-off of the children, she rested at home for four years.
After the child went to school, he lay on the sofa all day, either watching TV or sleeping, and lived a very decadent life.
Gradually, Yu Mingjia felt that the days at home were too boring, afraid that after a long time, he would become a wasted person who ate and waited to die out of touch with society.
Yu Mingjia made up his mind to return to the show business circle to continue acting and do what he was good at, on the one hand, in order to set a good example for his children, on the other hand, he did not want to live under the protection of her husband.
After Hu Jun learned the news that she wanted to return to filming, he understood and supported her very much.
At the peak of her career, she chose to retire for love, and at this time, the new and old changes in the showbiz circle too quickly, and there is no place for her, and the audience has long forgotten her.
After recognizing the reality, Yu Mingjia went to multiple crews to participate in auditions, and as long as there was a role, he would strive for it.
Fortunately, with the blessing of acting skills, she received invitations for several plays as she wished.
She played the villain Chang Guifei who was both beautiful and wise in "Tiansheng Long Song", and played in the hit drama "Journey of No Confusion".
Qiao Qingqian, who has a powerful aura.
Friend Zhang Yao said with particular pity: "If you shoot a few more scenes, you may have already become popular." ”
Yu Mingjia, on the other hand, does not think so, in her opinion, as long as there are high-quality and high-quality works broadcast, it is not in vain as an actor.
The most important thing for an actor is his acting skills and works, and he doesn't care if he can become popular? Or how much is the film paid?
She still goes her own way, insisting on shooting one work a year, and spending the rest of the time at home with her husband and children.
After each time they return home, the family has a rare reunion time.
The happiest thing in her life is to have a happy family and a pair of lovely daughters.
Married for more than ten years, Yu Mingjia and her husband have always been as loving as ever, and their two daughters are also well-behaved and cute, although she is not the hottest actress in the show business, she is indeed an enviable winner in life.
For more than 20 years since her debut, she has always been a zero scandal, low-key person, continuous output of high-quality works, and carefully guarding her small family.
For a woman, the greatest happiness in life is to marry a good husband.
It is said that the marriage obtained by blind date will not be happy, but Yu Mingjia has proved with reality that as long as the two love each other enough and the three views fit, the marriage will be happy and happy.
May in this life, you and I be regarded as treasures, ordinary and ordinary, pampered for a lifetime.