Really smart women don't eat grass, why do you say that? In fact, the answer is very simple, because when a man looks back for you, he feels that after he has gone around, he has not been able to meet anyone better than himself, so he will choose to turn back.
Many women will choose to turn back when facing men's sweet words, but as everyone knows, such an approach will not be exchanged for a man's gratitude to you, and your love brain will only make men feel that you are good at cheating.
Love is a double-edged sword for a woman, and you can get happiness from it with the right person, but if you meet someone unladylike, in the end your life will become a kind of suffering.
When a woman does not leave a way back for herself in love, life will naturally become torturous.
A truly intelligent woman would not fall twice in the same man's place.
When a woman is hurt in a relationship, it is more necessary to keep a clear head, in this world, the only one who really loves you is yourself.
If a man really cares about you, then she won't hurt you, and when a man embarrasses you again and again, you should understand that such a man is not worth your time.
A man who has hurt you will not bring you happiness, because such a man will always be selfish, and in real life, she will always think of herself, not you.
Therefore, I hope that every woman can polish her eyes when facing feelings, do not be deceived by a man, and love herself well, so that she will not suffer from gains and losses because of a man.
Wenjun is a student of a prestigious university, and after graduating from college, she successfully came to a company for internship, which also made many of her classmates around her envious. In the process of internship, he met Zhang Jie, a boy who was equally excellent as him.
When I first saw this boy, Wenjun was still very shy, and then because of the relationship between work, the two gradually became acquainted, and later because of work, the two backs were divided into the same group, facing the problems at work, the two people will actively communicate.
Every time when Wenjun encountered difficulties, this man would actively help her, and over time, Wenjun also had a good feeling for this boy with heart, and later the two also formally established a romantic relationship, and after the two were together, they became more and more hardworking.
In their spare time, the two of them will discuss hobbies and interests together, and in many ways will also actively communicate, which also makes the relationship between the two heat up rapidly, and later, both of them have successfully passed the company's assessment and become a regular employee of the company.
In fact, through this story, what I want to say is that in real life, a good relationship can often make you a better person.
A bad relationship will only make you worse and worse, if the other party can not bring you positive energy, then the relationship is a failure for you.
In real life, we always have to believe in a sentence, that is, who you are, you will meet who, if you want to harvest happiness in real life, then you must first learn to make yourself excellent, in order to meet a better other.
Wanting a man to cherish you, doing these things well is a prerequisite.
01.
self-discipline
Never underestimate a self-disciplined woman, because such a woman knows how to love herself, and when facing life, they know how to improve their sense of security.
Because they don't pin their hopes on others, such women, no matter what they do, will be particularly organized, and when dealing with problems, they will also have their own set of ways.
Self-discipline is the foundation of a person's success, and a self-disciplined woman will be more successful whenever she does anything.
02.
independent
An independent woman who never forgets to elevate herself.
There is a saying that goes, live to be old, learn to be old, in daily life, no matter at any time, we must maintain a state of learning, because only when you continue to improve yourself, you can shine.
Independent women know how to run their own lives, so that women will have more opportunities to choose.
3. Don't be humble
When a person loves too lowly, then his life will also lose its light.
Love is beautiful, but true love is not about destroying a person, but about making you better.
In real life, many people's love is cheap, because the reason why many people choose to love each other is not because they like it, but because of a moment of loneliness.
Love is indeed sweet and beautiful, but in life, many people have destroyed themselves because of love.
When you lower yourself in front of a person, you have already lost, because love is never a compromise, but mutual respect.
People don't like a woman because of what she says, but they like what she says because they love her. - Moroa
Learn to take care of yourself, but also learn how to love yourself.
When your emotions come, you don't rush to suppress emotions, to let the problem be solved, in the process of our growth, each of us will make mistakes, when we do not know how to solve the problem, our hearts will also become anxious, in fact, think about it, such a practice is completely unnecessary.
Because we always have to let go of the past and face a new life, with the change of time, we will slowly become mature, so do not complain about the past self, we must learn to accept, in order to be able to gradually change ourselves.