Master's mother complained that her son is a scum: his father was angry 2 times heart attack How should children teach?

Recently, a video of a Beijing mother sharing her parenting experience has attracted the attention and discussion of many netizens. The mother said that she and her husband are 985 masters, after graduation through the introduction of talents into Beijing, and her son from the first grade of primary school, her husband basically accompanied him every day to do homework, homework, the result is now in the third year of high school, she accidentally became a scumbag mother.

The mother said that her son is very tired of school, Beijing is such a good educational resources, the Dongcheng District where her son is located has a 70% promotion rate, and her son does not say one, three books can not be passed, can be mixed with a high school graduation is not bad.

And this mother helplessly said that the son did not study well, even if it was not good, he still loved to raise the bar with himself, disobeyed, everything had to be managed, and his father was angry twice and had a heart attack, in the end, the mother had given up on her son, there was no expectation, he just wanted to be safe, healthy and happy.

How should children educate today?

First of all, according to the specific situation of different children, specific teaching should be carried out according to their aptitudes. This is very critical, especially to discover what kind of interests, hobbies, and strengths your children have, and then keep playing to their children's strengths, actively encouraging children, and guiding children to work hard.

Secondly, we must actively cultivate children's interests and hobbies, such as cultivating children to like to read and complete homework on time. You can take your child to learn to play the piano, draw, or take your child to run, swim, and do sports, which are all good educational methods.

Finally, children should also be given more communication and exchange, especially so that children learn to express their own ideas. When children express and communicate proactively, they should be more patient and have more opportunities for children to express themselves, so that children can establish a good relationship with themselves.