Once in the dream of the Red Chamber, when Wang Xifeng talked to Ping'er about these princes and ladies in Jia Province, his evaluation of Jia Huan was that he was a little frozen cat with burning hair. Words are full of disdain.
In fact, Sister Feng couldn't look at Jia Huan, not just for a day. Jia Huan pushed the wax hot Baoyu once, and Sister Feng also said to him: The third elder is still so panicked like a chicken, I said you can't go up to the high table.
Maybe Sister Feng doesn't have much malice towards Jia Huan, the little uncle, but she is spicy and capable, and she can't look at this little frozen cat who is full of malice and hatred in her heart, which is also a reasonable thing.
Even his biological father, Jia Zheng, looked at Jia Huan and felt that his character was trivial and his behavior was absurd. Lady Wang even scolded Jia Huan for being "black heart does not know how to rationalize the inferior seeds." ”
Speaking of this, I can't help but feel a little sad that this seriously marginalized third master, his life is almost dark, he has never received real warmth and love. In fact, not only Sister Feng, Jia Zheng, Madame Wang, but even the servants such as Ying'er and Fangguan looked down on Jia Huan, playing cards saying that he was playing Lai and asking Rose Nitrate to deliberately replace it with jasmine powder.
It can be said that Jia Huan is in Jia Province, facing unprecedented life difficulties, he does not please everywhere he goes, and everyone dislikes him. Although he was shu out, he was also the third master of the ring of Jia Province, why did he receive such a cold treatment? Who should pay for his life's predicament?
As the saying goes, it is not the fault of the godfather. Jia Huan's life dilemma should first be paid by his father Jia Zheng. Jia Zheng is a person who is not accustomed to customary affairs, rarely cares about family affairs, and often talks about learning behind closed doors with a group of cleaners, which is why many people call it a fake canon.
Jia Zheng has a wife and two concubines, and there are many children, but in addition to Bao Yu's studies, he often asks questions, we can't see him asking about Jia Huan's studies and life. Although he seemed to spoil Aunt Zhao very much, he seemed to have neglected the education of Shuzi Jia Huan.
Probably because of Jia Zheng's neglect of discipline, the absence of his father led to the barbaric growth of Jia Huan, and the existence of his mother, Aunt Zhao, seemed to have become Jia Huan's only dependence, but it was also the biggest stumbling block on his way to growth, because he almost ruined Jia Huan's entire life because he saw the despicable Aunt Zhao.
Therefore, Jia Huan's life dilemma, in addition to his father Jia Zheng, should be paid by his birth mother Aunt Zhao. You see how Wang Xifeng scolded Jia Huan, "You don't listen to me, but instead call these people's crooked intentions and evil intentions, and the foxes are domineering." They don't respect themselves, they have to go down, they have a bad heart, and they just complain about the eccentricity of others. ”
It is said that parents are the child's first teacher, but also the child's initial learning and imitation of the object, and Aunt Zhao is what kind of person, I believe that people who have read the Dream of the Red Chamber know that Jia Huan grew up under her tutelage, do you think you can learn well?
In other words, Aunt Zhao was not at all able to call Jia Huan a tune-up, and it was almost the same as instigating. A mother, do not think about how to educate her children, but always think about how to use him, no wonder That Aunt Zhao, who has nothing to do, is also an unpopular role in Jia Province, and even her own daughter Tanchun is disgusted.
As the old saying goes, people are inherently good in nature, and I don't believe that Jia Huan was born as a bad boy, nor do I believe that he harbored hatred for no reason since he was a child, but the dereliction of duty and selfishness of Aunt Zhao's mother led Jia Huan to the evil road and planted the seeds of hatred in his heart.
It is precisely because Jia Huan has become the muzzle of his mother's troubles and helped his mother to do bad things many times, that he has become a little frozen cat that everyone in Jia Province dislikes, which has also caused his survival dilemma in Jia Province.
Jia Mu never paid attention to this little grandson, Jia Zheng and his wife also ignored his existence, the sister herself was still unable to take care of herself, naturally there was no time to take care of him, the birth mother was always with him, but almost destroyed his life, not to mention those rich and noble hearts and two decent slaves in Jia Province.
Of course, Jia Huan's life dilemma also has the factors of the times, in the era of the Dream of the Red Chamber, the children of Shu out were originally dwarfs, and the shrewd and ambitious people such as Tanchun, although they trained themselves into a thorny rose, but the birth mother made a fuss from time to time, which made her lose face.
For Tanchun, birth is the biggest dilemma, for Jia Huan, why not? When Ying'er said that he was playing cards, he said, "What do I take compared to Baoyu?" You are afraid that he is good with him, and you all bully me that I am not raised by my wife. "Jia Huan's living space in Jia Fu is not optimistic.
We don't see Jia Huan going to find his sister to play in the spring, but he often goes to his cousin To play with the spring. Yingchun is also a lady out of the house, and in Jia Province was bullied by the lady of the house, her life must be almost the same as Jia Huan, they are all powerless people, naturally feel sorry for each other.
If you analyze it in depth, Jia Huan's life dilemma, Lady Wang also has part of the responsibility, in ancient times, most of the children born of concubines could not be raised by their own side, to recognize the right wife as a mother-in-law, but Lady Wang will be Tanchun to raise, but left Jia Huan to let Aunt Zhao raise herself, can not help but say that there is her selfish heart.
Because Tanchun is a daughter's family, no matter how good it is, it will eventually marry out, and it will not compete for family property in the future, and the more excellent it is, the more beneficial it is to the family. And Jia Huan as a son is different, if you raise him around, it is difficult to protect that it is not a tiger to be a disease, if you fight with your own son Baoyu in the future, then is it not to lift a stone and drop it on your own feet?
It may even be the meaning of Jia Mu, so Jia Huan grew up around Aunt Zhao, who was inverted, and what kind of person he will become in the future can be imagined. Or it can be said that from the very beginning, Jia Huan's life was doomed.
Author: Xi Si Shao, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.