In "Dream of the Red Chamber", Madame Wang set the position of attacker and instructed Wang Xifeng to arrange all the treatment that her aunt and wife should receive.
In addition to the official name on the surface, everything is available, from salary and salary to bonus benefits.
It is worth noting that when Madame Wang instructed Wang Xifeng to do this, there were also Aunt Xue present.
First, the boundary between housekeeping and domestic affairs.
Logically, this is a family affair of the Jia family and belongs to the internal affairs of the Jia family.
Although Madame Wang and Wang Xifeng are blood relatives of the mother's family, at this moment, the two are talking about attacking people and Baoyu as the steward wife of Jia Fu and the young grandmother of the executioner.
From this point of view, Aunt Xue is actually an "outsider".
Is Madame Wang a "confused" who does not distinguish between internal and external relatives and mixes up the affairs of her mother's family and husband' family affairs? Of course not.
Misunderstanding that the spring sac picked up by the stupid big sister was Wang Xifeng's thing, Madame Wang was angry and rushed to ask for the guilt, and Even Ping'er was still driven out of the room, and she knew the importance of blocking the news.
Therefore, now That Madame Wang has informed the "outsiders" of the Baoyu side room family affairs that she does not officially have a name, is it a manifestation that she does not understand the rules and is close to her mother's family?
The answer is probably no, the identity of Aunt Xue here is obviously dual.
Second, the hidden identity of the future family.
From the perspective of blood, Aunt Xue and Lady Wang are sisters, and They are Wang Xifeng's aunts, and they are naturally "family";
But when Madame Wang and Wang Xifeng talked about the Jia Fu affair, she was very delicately an "outsider".
But to say that it is completely "outsider" is probably not accurate.
In Madame Wang's mind, Xue Baochao is a well-set future daughter-in-law, who is close to her family and family, and Xue Baochao's personality and thoughts are also suitable.
Therefore, at this moment, Madame Wang decided to attack someone to be the future aunt and let Aunt Xue know, not so much to let her mother-in-law sister know, but to inform and inform the future family.
Although this layer of relationship has not been completely clarified, whether it is Madame Wang or Aunt Xue, she naturally knows it.
From this point of view, Lady Wang arranged a "side room" before setting a formal affair for Baoyu, so naturally she wanted the future family to know.
Even if you don't have to go through the process of "getting your future relatives to agree", you should also give respect to the other party.
And Madame Wang's "compromise" may be that people arrange to be around Baoyu, but the name is not given first.
In this way, when Xue Baochao officially marries Jia Baoyu in the future, it is said that Baochao is respected and the attacker is inferior, and from the timeline of having a name, it is also Baochao who is in front and attacks people in the back.
In addition, it is more noteworthy that Madame Wang tearfully confided in her intentions of "letting the attackers see Baoyu and don't be weird".
According to the atmosphere of Jia Fu at that time and the unequal environment at that time, Jia Baoyu had more concubines, and the future Xue Baochao could not be scrupulous and could not interfere;
However, people have the same heart and the same reason, and Madame Wang naturally wants to give her sister Aunt Xue and aunt niece Xue Baochao a "more self-made" explanation: All these things are for the purpose of controlling and persuading Jia Baoyu, and that's all.
Both sides understand and do not break it, and such a "future family talks in advance" link can be described as watertight.