Author | Inspector (total 1715 words, about 4 minutes to read)
Only after becoming a parent and bringing it yourself, do you know how difficult it is to take care of your children.
The child's every move will always attract the attention of the parents, and when taking care of the child, even a completely relaxed rest is a luxury. Because sometimes even in sleep, you have to endure drowsiness to give your child urine or feeding, changing diapers, etc., and the younger the parents, the more they can't bear the pain of being woken up in the middle of the night. In the long run, taking care of children is a kind of "mental torture".
I believe that many parents will hope that their children can do their own things, even if they will not do it themselves, as long as they are well-behaved and well-taken care of, then parents will feel very relaxed. Usually such children are always "other people's babies", but when such things really happen in their own families, parents will still feel very incredible.
★The 2-year-old baby woke up in the middle of the night to change her own diaper, and her movements were skilled not to disturb her parents
In this video, a pair of parents were surprised to find that their children, in order not to disturb their parents, actually got up in the middle of the night to change their diapers.
In the video, the parents are sleeping soundly, at this time the baby found that the urine was full, but he did not cry, watching his parents sleep, but sat up by himself, skillfully changed the diaper, looked for the bottle, and then quietly ate and lay down again to fall asleep.
Parents did not hear the child's movements, still slept very deeply, such a well-behaved child is still very rare.
If parents hadn't seen it with their own eyes, they really didn't expect their children to be so well-behaved, and netizens saw that such sensible children were envious:
"It seems that the good children are all from someone else's house!" My family woke up in the middle of the night, either crying or pulling my hair, and the top of my head was almost bald! ”
"What an angel baby!" My child yells when he is slightly uncomfortable, drinks night milk twice in the middle of the night, and cries when he is hungry, it is a demon baby! ”
★ Feeding children night milk is also a very "difficult" memory for new parents
When you have children, the night can be said to be the most difficult period of time, because not only to pay attention to the safety of the child, but also to get up to feed the night milk.
Night milk in the strict sense is not only at night, but to be precise, it refers to the time period between 12 am and 6 am, so in such a period of time, feeding a child can be called night milk.
● On the one hand, because everyone is sleepy at night to sleep, young people sleep more deeply, and sometimes they will be in danger because they can't hear the movement of their children;
● On the other hand, because although the child sleeps at night, due to the small stomach capacity, he still has to get up in the middle of the night to drink milk, so feeding the child night milk has become a very difficult thing.
Children drink night milk, is indeed the most headache for many parents when taking care of their children, so how can we help the baby quit night milk?
Fathers are indispensable
Many people mistakenly think that quitting breastfeeding is just a matter for mothers, but this is not the case. Scientists point out that if fathers can participate in such a process, it is very helpful for children to quit night milk.
When preparing to give the child night milk but the child gets up in the middle of the night to drink night milk, the father can coax the child to soothe the child's anxious emotions. This will not only greatly shorten the entire time of abstinence, but also establish a more intimate connection with the child in the process.
So parents can help their children quit night milk together, which is an important thing and a process that requires patience.
Eat enough before going to bed
Babies wake up in the middle of the night in large part because they haven't eaten enough before they go to bed and are hungry in the middle of the night. So when you start to let your child quit night milk, be sure to let them eat enough, and the baby can go to sleep after taking a "burp".
But you can't let them drink too much water, otherwise they will still get up in the middle of the night to go to the toilet, and once the child wakes up and feels hungry, then he will still think of drinking night milk.
Therefore, parents try to create a quiet sleeping environment for their children, avoid children being woken up, let them form the habit of sleeping, then slowly they can quit night milk.
★ The time to quit night milk varies from person to person
● Generally speaking, when the child is about 4 months old, you can start to prepare to quit night milk.
But the specific time depends on how often the child sleeps and how much milk his stomach can hold.
Generally speaking, when the baby is 3 months old, the sleep time at night can reach about 6 hours, so at this time, parents can be ready to give the baby night milk.
During the day, how long the baby can drink milk or drink enough, and it is more appropriate to judge how much milk the baby drinks before going to bed.
The time to quit night milk is only a vague concept, or it should be decided according to the child's development. For children, if they cannot ensure adequate sleep, it will also affect their growth and development. Therefore, parents must choose at the right time to help them quit night milk is also more conducive to the baby's physical development.
Spicy Mom Quotes:
If there is a more well-behaved child, this is of course a very easy thing for parents, but regardless of whether their children are well-behaved and well-cared for, parents' love for their children will not be reduced.
Instead of envying other people's well-behaved babies, it is better to take the initiative and make them a more independent and healthier child.
Parents, who cares for your baby at night? How did you help your child quit night milk?
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