In love, we all face the same problem, that is, how to keep each other's hearts. In order to achieve this goal, we are constantly working hard, and we are constantly trying to understand each other's minds, trying to find the most effective and cheapest way.
Stevenson said: "Because love has entered the heart of a person, since the scolding does not go to you, it will possess everything from you." Since you've fallen in love with things, the only way to do that is to think of the cheapest way to get it. ”
When we encounter love, we can't refuse, we can't ignore it, the only way is to face it, to get it in the best way, and to keep it.
Women's minds are more delicate, and they often think about this problem in love. In order to solve the problem, women often use many ways to achieve this goal.
The biggest difference between whether a woman is smart or stupid is that smart women tend to quietly tie a man's heart, while a stupid woman will only touch a man with pay and sacrifice, trying to make men reluctant to leave in this way.
For a man, if the woman he meets is worthy of his love, and can constantly make himself more excellent and more attractive, even if the man wants to leave, he is ultimately reluctant to leave.
On the contrary, if women only know how to move men with sacrifice and sacrifice, after men get used to such a way of getting along, it is estimated that they will not even be moved in the end.
The best way for a woman to make a man love you deeply and not want to leave you is actually only two words: conquest.
01 In front of him, try to show the most beautiful you, conquer his eyes.
Although we often say that love has nothing to do with appearance. But in fact, even if love does not happen because of a person's appearance, after love occurs, appearance can also deepen this love.
Women in love need to understand that although men often say that they don't care about your appearance, it is not because of your appearance that they are in love with you. But who wouldn't want their significant other to have a charming appearance and a charm that appeals to them?
Shakespeare also said, "Women fall in love with their ears, but men, if they have love, love with their eyes." ”
In love, women like to listen to men's sweet words, and men also want the woman they love to have a charming appearance.
So, women need to know that when a man falls in love with you, don't slack off, thinking that no matter what you look like, he will not leave you.
If you want him to love you more and can't do without you, don't forget to dress yourself up and show your most beautiful side in front of him, so that you can completely conquer his eyes and disturb his heart.
02 No matter how good love is, don't forget to improve your ability, so that you can conquer the man and let him appreciate you.
La Rochefoucco said: "Love, like fire, cannot continue to exist without constant movement, and once it stops hoping and fearing, its life stops." ”
In a man's heart, no matter how much he loves a woman, he will also hope that this woman can be better and more attractive than he thinks. If women have been stagnant, even indulged in this love, unwilling to improve themselves, when men fully understand women, they will only look down on women, and thus tired of this love.
If a woman wants a firm love, she must know how to introspect. If men are with you and there is no hope, sooner or later the love for you will stop.
Women want to keep a man's heart, don't always think about giving and sacrificing for a man. Instead of pinning your hopes on men, learn to make yourself better and more attractive. In this way, women don't have to worry about men leaving you.
When you become more and more excellent, he will naturally see your efforts and see you constantly improving your ability. In this way, you will be able to truly conquer him, let him appreciate you, and is not willing to leave you.
03 Don't lose yourself for love, maintain your independence and self-confidence, and completely conquer the heart of men.
Balzac said: "Unfortunate love, often like a reliable debtor's unpaid debit ticket, will add your private money." ”
When women lose themselves for love and completely fall into this love, women want to get the man's true heart, but in the end, this love will only become more and more unfortunate. After such misfortune, all the sadness and pain can only be borne by the woman alone.
Women know that no man would want his other half to be a humble person who is always looked down upon by himself for love. To get a man's heart, a woman must let a man see that you are an independent person with your own thoughts and judgments, not the person who only has love in his heart, and only wants to sacrifice himself for love.
No matter what things are in front of, women can only solve all problems and get what you want, including love, including men's sincerity.
Zhao Xinshan also said: "People can only be satisfied in continuous pursuit." Like love, the true spirit of poetry, philosophy, and science is precisely the continuous pursuit, always standing on the starting line. ”
No matter how much you love a man, no matter how much he loves you, remember that this is just love at this stage. If you want this love to continue to develop as always, you must not only learn to observe the bumps of love, but also remember to always stand at the starting point and do not ignore the fickleness of the human heart.
Maybe now you are loved by men. But if you don't know how to guard this love and just want to enjoy it, one day, you will be disappointed and sad.
If you want a man to love you more deeply and is not willing to leave you, you have to do these two words well, that is, conquest. Conquer not only the man's eyes, but also his heart completely.