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How beautiful it is to be happy with each other.
Everyone longs that the person they love can also come in their own direction.
However, life is not an idol drama. Not all pursuits have a perfect ending, just like the happiness of a good full moon, not always visible.
If a person does not have you in his heart, in the beginning, you can try to fight for it to see if you can catch him. When he has done everything that should be done, but the result is still ignored by him, then it is appropriate to stop.
Don't bother a person who doesn't have you in his heart at all, it will only increase sadness.
01. People who don't have you in their hearts are useless to bother them frequently
Love is the attraction of the soul and the fit of the three views. No matter how much you do, no matter how humble your posture is, you will not be able to completely turn your soul and three views into what he likes.
No one can force a happy love affair with their ideal object.
If a door you knock on for a long time and nothing responds. This shows that the people inside are not not hearing a knock on the door, but they don't like you and don't want to come out and meet you.
Don't always feel that your affection and your perseverance can impress the other party. Whether he can fall in love with you or not depends not on how deep your feelings for him are, but on whether your inner and spiritual spirit is whether he is the way he is moved.
If yes, you don't have to take the initiative, he will come close to you; if not, no matter how much you disturb, he will only feel irritable.
When your efforts are ignored again and again by indifference, remember these two sentences: the person who truly loves you, even if you just glance at him casually, he will be happy; the person who does not love you, you pour all your eyes on him, he still will not pay attention to you.
In people who don't love you, all your efforts are wasteful. The time, energy, and money you spend on him are nothing more than a bamboo basket to draw water.
Don't bother a person who doesn't have you in his heart, the world is so big, there will always be better people and be sincere to you.
02. Hopeless pursuit is the source of all suffering
As the saying goes: the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment. Love, especially.
What an affectionate and humble process it is to go to great lengths to please someone who doesn't love you at all. In this process, it is often accompanied by all kinds of negative emotions: loss, jealousy, pain...
These feelings will come to you like a tidal wave in the silent night, occupying your mind, making you toss and turn, unable to sleep.
If you always put the person you can't get in your heart, not only can't bring new hope to your feelings, but it will also make you fall into a depressed state and can't fully appreciate the beauty of life.
A hopeless chase will make you lose a lot of happiness and miss a lot of opportunities. When you realize the problem, what you lost never comes back, and what you miss can never have again.
Disappointment, regret, pain, these negative emotions, not only affect the mood, but also quietly affect your physical health. Once the body and mind are sick, the work career will also be greatly affected, and the quality of life will become worse and worse.
In front of the people you like, excessive attachment and humility make you lose your dignity and dignity. Is this really good? Don't you feel embarrassed?
Hopeless pursuit is the source of all suffering. If you want to live an easy, happy, and happy life, you must not love someone unilaterally.
The person who doesn't love you, all your concerns and greetings, are disturbing to him.
Be a person, you can't lose your self-esteem, and at any time, don't bother a person who doesn't love you at all.
03. Learn to "break away" from feelings, and the more you live, the better
When you meet someone you like, some people chase after it for a while, feel hopeless, and will give up decisively. And some people, especially persistent, three months, half a year, one year, two years...
Is it really worth it for those who refuse to give up, to use the good years to entangle a person who does not have himself in his heart?
People still have to learn to "break away" from feelings.
When you find that the person you like does not have you in his heart, you should "break away".
As people grow, they have more and more things, and some things will only drag you down. At this time, you should seriously do a "subtraction" and throw away everything that makes you bad, including hopeless love.
When you throw away hopeless love, you can streamline the packing of thoughts, live easily and freely in the present, and rush to a better future without burden.
Just like the more household utensils are bought, every New Year's Day, the family will do a big cleaning and put the items that are no longer used into the garbage bag. Once cleaned up, the whole home will be refreshed, comfortable and tidy.
When you don't catch up with someone you like, don't be discouraged, and don't deny yourself. Love is not the norm in life, and many people have the same experience. It's just that some people choose to move forward, and some people choose to sink in pain.
Love is not the whole of life, we must be able to take it and put it down. Don't bother a person who doesn't have you in your heart, do "break away", and the more you live, the better.
If a person really doesn't have you in his heart, don't bother anymore.
People who don't have you in your heart, no matter how hard you try, it will be useless, but it will make the other party hate you, and you will be more sad because of it.
In the face of a hopeless love, the best gesture is to say goodbye generously and then start a new and better life.
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