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After the baby is born, the baby's state is related to the emotions of the whole family.
If the baby eats well, sleeps well, and rarely cries, the whole family is at ease.
If the baby is always crying, the whole family is pulled and cannot be at peace.
The baby is always crying, possibly colic
The uncle's family added a grandson in August this year, and the whole family fell into the joy of "Tim Ding".
However, after the baby was 2 months old, the whole family fell into a great uneasiness.
The big fat boy grew up very well, but he often cried, and he cried for a long time, listening to the child's cracked lungs crying, and the whole family panicked.
Because it is not occasional crying, but often crying for no reason, especially when waking up in the middle of the night and quieting in the middle of the night, crying is even more heart-wrenching.
The family took the child around to the doctor, and the results of the examination were: the baby was very healthy and there was no problem.
Since there is no problem with the body, why cry?
Under the guidance of the local elderly, he began to take the baby around to burn incense and worship the Buddha and find a tall person.
The result was the same, completely to no avail, and the baby continued to cry.
Later, when the mother mentioned this matter, an experienced aunt reminded a sentence: Since the doctor said that the child is no problem, the body is no problem, but the child is always crying, indicating that there is still a problem. Don't burn incense and worship the Buddha to find a door, what age is this, and I still believe in these things. The child is probably colic, the mother should pay attention to the light diet, give the child's abdomen massage.
Later, under the guidance of this aunt, the baby's crying was greatly alleviated, and the whole family was relieved.
The baby is always crying after 2 months, and it is time to think in this direction
Babies' emotions are like summer weather, cloudy and uncertain, but the little ones don't cry for no reason.
When they are in good health and have enough to eat and drink, they will have fun for a long time, and at this time they are like little angels.
Baby crying usually has several possible situations, such as thirst, hunger, pulling, urine, hot, when the baby has these feelings, will use the most direct emotions to express, that is, crying.
There are also two more hidden causes, namely flatulence and intestinal colic.
The phenomenon of flatulence in the baby is too normal, the baby drinks the milk powder with bubbles, eats the air when eating breast milk, or the mother eats flatulence food, and the baby who eats breast milk will also have flatulence.
When the baby has flatulence, the small belly will often be more bulging, and after these gases are discharged in the form of "farts", the baby will stop crying.
Similar to flatulence, but the difference is that babies have intestinal colic.
The degree of intestinal colic will be deeper, the baby's performance is more intense, crying with legs together, lips are white, etc., and crying for a longer time.
If the baby has such a reaction and cries for a long time, parents can think about it.
Take your baby for a professional examination to further rule out other diseases.
Daily to the child to carry out more "plane hugs", help to alleviate the baby's intestinal colic, more to the baby's abdomen massage, massage method is along the clockwise gently rubbing, the technique must be gentle.
How can we try to avoid flatulence and colic in your baby?
For babies within 6 months, if it is breastfeeding, we must pay attention to scientific feeding methods, so that the baby's small mouth contains the entire "areola", to avoid air entering the baby's mouth, causing the baby's gastrointestinal discomfort.
If it is milk powder feeding, when brewing milk powder, pay attention to gently shaking along one direction, not shaking violently up and down, gently shaking along one direction, will not produce bubbles, and shake violently up and down, and a large number of bubbles will be generated in the milk powder.
In addition, you can not add complementary foods to the baby too early, and add complementary foods to the baby according to the doctor's advice.
The baby's gastrointestinal development is still extremely imperfect, and adding complementary foods too early will cause the baby's gastrointestinal discomfort.
Your baby's first complementary food option is also important, and it's best to add rice flour to your baby.
According to the baby's age to add complementary food correctly, when the baby is 6 months to 7 months old, be sure to add a mud diet, can not add a block diet to the baby.
The reason is simple, the baby's stomach is very fragile, and he is not yet able to digest lumpy food.
After the baby is 8 months old, you can add granular complementary foods to the baby, but also choose foods that are easy to digest.
In addition, if the baby has been drinking breast milk, the mother's diet is also very critical, and the mother should try to avoid unhealthy diets, otherwise it will also have a series of effects on the baby.
In addition to paying attention to diet, you can also alleviate the baby's flatulence and intestinal colic from these aspects: after drinking milk, burp the baby, always adhere to the scientific method of brewing milk powder, to avoid the baby's intake of too much air, causing flatulence.
You can give the child more "airplane hugs" to help the child stretch his body and discharge the gas in the body.
As long as parents remember this sentence "the baby will not cry for no reason", starting from the actual situation, find the real reason for the baby's crying, rather than taking the baby around to "ask for immortals", and finally delay the child and affect the child's growth and development.