Second Sister You is the younger sister of you of ningguo province, but she is not related to you by blood. Since her father died when she was a child, her mother took her and her sister to marry You's father, and her surname was also changed, and the three mothers and daughters who appeared in the dream of the Red Chamber were You Lao Niang, You Er Jie, and You San Jie.
You Erjie's life is related to her three men
You Erjie is as beautiful as a flower, and she has not escaped the tragedy of a red face and a thin life, and there have been three men in her life who have affected her life trajectory, namely Zhang Hua, who has been married to her since childhood, Jia Zhen, who is ambiguous with her and her sister You Sanjie, and Jia Lian, who secretly married her as the second room.
Zhang Hua, since childhood and You Erjie married as a doll, originally born in a rich family, but the family fell in the middle, he did not want to make progress and mixed days, and gradually degenerated into the city of the skin, extremely unsuccessful. Thrown out of the family by his father, unable to marry You Erjie, when Jia Lian took a fancy to You Erjie, he gave him 20 taels of silver, and he happily withdrew from You Erjie, which is an angry and sac-type role. Later, Wang Xifeng gave him 100 taels of silver and asked him to sue Jia Lian, saying that he wanted to return to Second Sister You, and he went to file a complaint again. An ordinary little person, involved in the lawsuit of the giants, almost lost his life. But any man who is a little bloody and a little brainy will not deal with this kind of thing in this way.
Jia Zhen, the head of the Ningguo Mansion, was the head of the Shaozhuang Sect. Leng Zixing said that he was "blindly happy", living a poor and extravagant life, and indulging in his private life. After his daughter-in-law's death, he wept into tears, such as mourning, and was so sad that he could walk normally on crutches. He even gave everything he could to handle the funeral of his daughter-in-law. His strange behavior reveals the extraordinary relationship between the two, belonging to the role of heaven destroying heaven and no humanity. During his father's hot filial piety, he played ambiguously with You Erjie, You Sanjie, who came to Ningguo Mansion to help take care of the family. After the freshness of Sister You, he gave it to Jia Lian.
Jia Lian, like Jia Zhen, is a person who pursues sensual pleasures with "skin abuse", because she covets the beauty of You Erjie, and does not hesitate to risk the double danger of filial piety and filial piety in the family, secretly marrying You Erjie and arranging to live in Huazhi Lane in the courtyard. After the matter was revealed, Second Sister You was taken to live in Jia Mansion by Wang Xifeng, and Jia Lian allowed Wang Xifeng to bully her, but she and Xinna's concubine Qiutong had a hot fight. The pregnant Second Sister You was unwell, so he asked Dr. Tiger Wolf to see Second Sister You, and beat down a formed baby boy. In the bullying, You Erjie desperately swallowed gold and committed suicide.
There are good people and bad people in the world, and the people you second sister meets are not good people. Although we feel that fate is unfair to You Erjie, but carefully think about the analysis, You Erjie can not meet good people and she herself and her family also have a great relationship, to sum up, there are the following three reasons.
Wrong values
Her original family with confused values gave her the wrong indoctrination. The encounter of Second Sister You could not spare her mother, Old Lady You. First of all, You Lao Niang is not old, and when she marries You's father, it should be the time when the charm still exists. During the Ming and Qing dynasties, there were still requirements for women to observe the festival, and Jia Zhu's widow Li Feng's costumes when she appeared were plain. Perhaps for the sake of livelihood, You Lao Niang married the second sister and third sister to the You family, whose conditions were superior to her ex-husband.
After the death of her second husband, she often led her two daughters to Jia Fu to eat and drink and fight the autumn wind. She has no charm herself, she also has a pair of flower-like daughters, and beauty can be exchanged for financial benefits is her experience. Under the guidance of such values, Jia Zhen Jia Lian included Jia Zhen's son Jia Rong flirted with the second sister and three sisters under her eyes, she turned a blind eye, and she often dozed off in the book. Is she old enough to say she's that old? No, just pretending to sleep.
In a slightly cultured family, the men outside came, and the girls had to avoid it, but You Lao Niang openly allowed those men to come and go. You Erjie, who grew up in such an environment, has the same values as her mother. Coveting the wealth of Jia Fu, he and Jia Zhen are ambiguous, yearning for a comfortable life after marrying Jia Lian, and secretly agreeing to accept the practice of secretly marrying the past.
Trust others easily and lack basic judgment
Jia Lian belongs to what "dirty and smelly people are pulled into the house", women who were previously associated with Jia Lian, Bao Er's family, and many girls Jia Lian are not picky, compared with them, It is definitely a special thing in the world, Jia Lian naturally likes it very much. In the head of the xing will say a lot of sweet words, You Erjie does not analyze, mistakenly love his sweet words, thinking that in the future he can really be corrected, a lifetime of food and clothing.
Don't you know that she is only the one who accompanies Jia Lian for a while? After Qiu Tong became a new lover, she could only drink tears alone every day in Jia Province, and when she was bullied, where did Jia Lian go? Easily believe in Jia Lian, have no basic judgment, regard Jia Lian as a lifelong reliance, and mistakenly entrust his life.
She not only trusted Jia Lian, but also trusted Wang Xifeng. She thought that as long as she married Jia Lian well, she could get everything done, but she forgot Xing'er's words that "it is best not to see Wang Xifeng in her lifetime", and her sister You Sanjie once advised her that "Jia Fu is absolutely impossible to enter" But she was thrown out of the cloud of nine clouds, easily trusting others, lacking basic judgment, and it was also a reason for You Erjie's tragedy, such a person, even if he did not meet Jia Zhen Jia Lian in Jia Fu, would meet similar people elsewhere. For You Erjie's IQ, her beauty can sometimes become a shortcoming, making her lose the shortcomings of correctly understanding people and things.
Weak and kind, but ambitious
You Erjie's personality is undoubtedly weak, and You Sanjie, who grew up in the same family environment, is much stronger than her. By virtue of their own life, by Jia Zhen and Jia Rong father and son to pinch, play tired of transferring hands to Jia Lian, not for the future "two horses in the same groove", for them to play conveniently. But she left herself to them, at the mercy of others.
In her cognition, she and Jia Zhen have an affair, can get Jia Lian's favor, has belonged to the high climbing, so after knowing Jia Lian, often blame themselves for their past, think that it is impossible to find a better home than Jia Lian, weakness hidden under the guilt of their own lack of morality, its background is kindness.
Kind and weak, she has ambitions that are not commensurate with her abilities. She hopes to live a good life, she hopes that her life can be attached, so she and Zhang Hua withdrew from the marriage contract and accepted Jia Lian. Moreover, she still dreamed of being the second grandmother of Lian Er, but she did not know that ambition and ability appeared in pairs. Without ability and wisdom, she fought with Jia Lian's wives and concubines, but she entered the Jia Mansion, and Jia Lian could not rely on it, and what awaited her could only be tragedy.