Life really can't be compared, some people are born in Rome, some people can't reach Rome in their lifetime.
Recently, Zhejiang Hengdian "woman with child wandering incident" has been concerned by many people, she gave birth to a daughter in the public toilet next to Wansheng Street, did not sit in confinement, did not have family visits, and even for the child's biological father, she could not say clearly, holding the child in the park to sleep, many well-meaning people came forward to visit her and nutritional products.
Passers-by sighed that a child born a month ago would suffer with his mother, and you can imagine how difficult his future life should be.
"Public toilet delivery girl" recognizes "daddy" everywhere
Differences in family environment and material resources doom some people to have a difficult life, and it takes unimaginable efforts to have the life they want.
As the old saying goes, for the mother, the power of maternal love is infinite, even if they do not have enough to eat and wear, they do not want their children to be hungry, but not all women can have such a consciousness.
Poor child, to follow the mother to the topsy-turvy, living a life without a fixed place.
A lamentable past
According to the homeless woman herself, there are three children, the eldest son is 15 years old, the second daughter is three years old, and the younger daughter is born one month ago. There has been a history of cohabitation, but there is no experience of marriage and marriage, and now the eldest son lives with his predecessor, and the wandering woman claims that her mother is in a bad mental state, and when she comes home, she will scold her, so she is afraid to go back.
Although she gave birth to a child, she did not see a sense of responsibility and responsibility in her, and she went around the park to recognize her father and brother to her children, and in order to play at night, she did not mind letting strangers take care of her children, and sometimes she could even play until 11 o'clock at night before going back to rest.
Through many contacts and communication, it was found that the wandering woman talked and behaved as a lively and cheerful healthy woman, but in-depth understanding could feel that her logical thinking was not clear, and even sometimes gibberish, and her mental state was not good, but from the appearance, she was no different from ordinary mothers.
We don't know where the father of the child is, maybe he is mixed in the crowd, is one of the people who came to watch the shooting, maybe he has not appeared, or even does not know that he has a child, but it is certain that he is not responsible for his approach, eat dry and wipe clean and pat his ass and leave, not the big husband.
The matter of feelings is a willing to fight, a willing to be beaten, outsiders have no right to intervene, but the mental state of the wandering woman is not good, who can be sure whether she is voluntary or unintentional?
Picked up by his family, he ran away again
As the homeless woman received more and more attention, insiders said that her family had taken her away some time ago, and a few days later, the woman took her child to the streets, asked the reason only to say that she did not like the life at home, felt very depressed, and complained about her family to passers-by.
The weather was getting colder, but her clothes were very thin, the baby was held in her arms and cried, and passers-by felt sad. There is food and drink outside, from time to time there are strangers to transfer hundreds of money to her, the day is simple and comfortable, how can she be willing to go home?
The speed of network dissemination is too wide, how many netizens come to visit, so she does not have food and clothing around her, and may wait until the heat gradually dissipates, and she will really feel bitter about the days of wandering and wandering outside.
Wandering is not a person's destination after all, a person to eat the whole family is not hungry, she can not consider herself, but can not not consider the child in her arms, and so the baby gradually grows up and understands, will understand the gap between themselves and peers, can not get a healthy education, can not feel the love of parents, it is difficult to cultivate an independent and healthy personality.
Life is only once for a child, and once it is born, it is a lifetime. As a woman, she should be cautious in choosing a lover, and she should be more cautious in having children. Raising a child is never a simple slogan, not to mention that she can't even guarantee the most basic material conditions.
Through the words and deeds of the wandering woman, you can feel that her original family is not happy, and she has not met a man who really loves her, but since the family is willing to take it back, don't suffer the child, you can't just try to be happy.
A person who can't even support herself, "going home" is the best destination, the bell must also be tied to the bell, may the companionship of relatives and friends can gradually dispel the haze in her heart and return to normal life.