Audiences who have watched "Xiao MinJia" can't help but sigh: "Jin Jiajun really understands things!" After the incident of buying clothes at a price, netizens spontaneously formed a hot topic of discussion: "Xiaomin's family Jin Jiajun understands things and is distressing." ”
Even Zhou Yiran, the actor who plays Jin Jiajun, did not hesitate to say "sensible" when asked to describe Jin Jiajun in three words.
Determined to take the Qinghua exam and know that it is not easy for parents to make money, these seem to be sensible places, but is Jin Jiajun really sensible?
Wu Yue still had to draw a question mark.
Back to the audience's first impression that Jin Jiajun was sensible: Jin Jiajun followed his grandmother to Beijing to find his mother, saying that he wanted to go to a repeat study class and wanted to take the Tsinghua exam again.
Seriously, having such ambitions is rare for a high school junior. However, the "condition" for Jin Jiajun to aspire to tsinghua is to ask for success (educational institutions), and it is necessary to succeed at any cost, no matter what difficulties there are.
What is the price of a high-quality educational institution in Beijing, it is estimated that parents are very clear, can become a "rocket class" is difficult to find, can imagine, how much it costs.
Moreover, not only money, when the family accompanied Jin Jiajun to Nengcheng Consulting, the rocket class was already full. The family members all advised Jiajun to look for other institutions, but Jiajun just pulled his face and had to be able to succeed. Even when she heard that my mother was a little embarrassed, she bit her lip and got angry.
Afterwards, Liu Xiaomin and Jiajun talked, and Jiajun confessed that he had distrust of his mother. The requirement of "must be able to succeed" has to a large extent an element of gambling with the mother.
Once again, netizens said that they "understand things", it was Jin Bo who came to Beijing and had to live in Xiao Min's house. Jin Jiajun knows that his parents have been divorced for a long time, and without his own existence, the two people will not intersect.
Therefore, Jia Jun always carefully communicates and gets along with Liu Xiaomin. For example, Liu Xiaomin paid for the hotel for Jin Bo, and Jia Jun said that he would return the money to his mother after earning money.
The sense of alienation between him and his mother has created the illusion that Jin Jiajun "has to bear something to get maternal love". He thought that he was defending his mother in this way, but in fact, he also hurt Liu Xiaomin's heart.
On the surface, Jia Jun turned to Liu Xiaomin and looked down on Jin Bo. In action, Jin Jiajun always unconditionally compromised with Jin Bo, retreated step by step, and always kept a distance from Liu Xiaomin.
In order not to increase the burden on Liu Xiaomin, Jiajun chose to go to work on his own. Fifty thousand yuan in two weeks is like a fantasy for ordinary people, let alone a student who is studying and preparing for the college entrance examination.
Some people say that the children of the poor have long been in charge, Jin Jiajun, and have ambitions.
But Wu Yue wanted to say that Jin Jiajun's ambition was used in the wrong place, he desperately gave people as sparring partners, whether he could get the money was another matter, even if he got the money, his body collapsed.
Ten thousand steps back, Jin Jiajun has a good foundation, but sparring at night, sleeping in class during the day, homework? Is it true that 100% will not fall?
This kind of understanding of Jin Jiajun, in a sense, can only be regarded as a possible way. Those children who work while studying hard really have no other choice, and Jin Jiajun obviously has many choices.
For example, write an IOU to Liu Xiaomin, and then work to pay back the money after the college entrance examination. If you are afraid that Jin Bo will rely on Liu Xiaomin and increase liu Xiaomin's trouble, you can also ask the public security organs for help, repay the money in a reasonable and legal way, and let Jin Bo have time to find a job.
Gambling, alienation, and arrogance have all created the illusion that Jin Jiajun is sensible, in other words, it can also be called "pseudo-understanding": covering up the real heart with the cloak of understanding, and there is no ability to match it.
Before the three views have been fully established and have not really set foot in society, "pseudo-understanding" will often make things worse.
I don't know when it started, dependency became a derogatory term, and more and more people began to emphasize "independence". But in fact, moderate dependence, for the 20-year-old Jin Jiajun, is the most important.
Being able to open up to express ideas, share feelings, be able to ask for help from your family when you are vulnerable and confused, and don't "understand things" too much, this is the mode of getting along with each other that really makes your family very comfortable with each other.
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