When you are young, most people think of the greatest happiness in this life, which is nothing more than finding a reliable person to live a lifetime, having children, and waiting until old age can not move to be able to rely on old age. However, as they get older, many people find it difficult for marriage to be their own security. Partners know cold and know heat, and they help each other to understand each other is good, if you can't meet the most basic needs, life tastes the same as chewing wax, it is not as comfortable as a person's life. Children will one day grow wings, get out of their arms, pursue the life they want on their life path, and will also have their marriage and family. Therefore, many times, it is always unreliable to pin your hopes on others. In fact, when people reach middle age, the biggest backer is not their children or partners, but themselves
Uncle Xia is 61 years old, has just retired from his post, and his life is very unaccustomed. Every morning, I was still used to getting up early, as usual to work, turning on the music at home, and for the first few days everyone was at peace, and within a week, my daughter-in-law and grandchildren began to cry bitterly. The daughter-in-law said that she worked late at night, which was not in line with the old man's time; the grandson said that it was not easy to take a vacation without going to school, and she could not even sleep lazily. The son was sandwiched in the middle and talked to Uncle Xia, hoping that he could change his habits of life and obey the majority, otherwise, it would cause family conflicts. However, Uncle Xia, who had been working all his life, did not have any hobbies, could not sleep at all in the morning, went outside for a walk, and could not play with other old people, and he seemed alone. He thought it would be nice if he could have a house of his own. However, he bought a house for his son for the first two years of his savings. I can only spend my retirement expenses every month. The roof leaked during the overnight rain. When Uncle Xia was cooking at home, he accidentally spilled the oil, and all the thighs and calves were burned, but fortunately, he only needed good care to slowly recover without the need for other surgical repairs. However, it costs money to live in the hospital every day, and someone has to be arranged to take care of him.
Sons and daughters-in-law have to work, ordinary working class, and no savings, the old man's body, is not a major illness that needs to be nursed for many years, but it also makes the son and daughter-in-law feel the pressure. Uncle Xia knew that although his son was not a great filial piety, he would not leave his old father alone, but he already had his own small family, and his wife and children still needed him to weigh it. At this time, Uncle Xia realized that when people are old, relying on their children is just an empty word. Even if the child has a heart, he is usually powerless. In this life, people still have to have money in their own hands. After having money, when you are sick, you can choose what kind of hospital you choose, and when there is no one to take care of it, you can also ask for a nurse, so as not to affect the work and life of your children. You raise me small, I raise you old. It sounds like the warmth of human affection. However, in specific life, it takes a minute and a second to spend, and no matter how deep the emotion, it is difficult to defeat the cruel reality.
For an old man, having money has happiness, because when a person is old, we will find that many people feel that there is not much life, and we must cherish the life in front of us, so many people will enjoy life well. For example, some people attend various parties, some people go to travel, and some people experience life and enjoy life. And all of this requires money, and when you have money, you can enjoy it, and when you don't have money, not only can you not do anything, but you will also be disliked by your children. So, no matter how old you are this year, remember to leave yourself some money and use it in old age, whether it is just in case, or to give yourself a pension, or to help your children, is what we should do. The important thing is that after we leave some money for ourselves, our lives will be guaranteed, and our lives will be happier.