Truly beautiful love, like a flame burning in a winter night, can dispel the darkness and warm the cold body and mind.
If you don't feel any love and warmth from a person, but are replaced by endless indifference and rudeness, you don't have to be deeply affectionate with him anymore.
Whether a relationship can last depends on how much you value and cherish each other.
If a person does not care about you, he is full of disgust and contempt for you, and he does not even bother to look at you in the right eye, you should die early, instead of stalking him.
As the saying goes, love, like coughing, can't be hidden.
For women, if a man really loves you, no matter how introverted or shy he usually is, he can't help but confess to you, or express his full love for you through various details.
Actually, whether a man really loves you, you know better than anyone.
If he really likes you, he will not deliberately snub you, but will try to narrow and shorten the distance between two people, and you will have more emotional integration and collision.
Generally speaking, men who truly love you will have these more obvious signs.
1, will be full of deep thoughts and concerns for you
Love and thought coexist.
When a man really loves you, he may not be able to help but be concerned about you.
As long as he is a little far away from you, he will be full of deep thoughts and concerns about you.
If he never takes the initiative to contact you after he is separated from you, but ignores you and is extremely indifferent, it means that he may not love you so much, and he does not really care about you.
The more men who truly love you, the more they will silently care for and help you.
When you need him, he will stand up.
When you miss him, he misses you just as deeply.
A man's thoughts and concerns about you are reflected in the details of life, for example, he will prepare small gifts for you every time he travels home, every time he is separated from you, he will take the initiative to call and message you, he will not easily leave you alone, and so on.
When you find that he is getting farther and farther away from you, and you will never go back to the good times of love and intimacy between you, it is likely that he will no longer love you.
2, will become a beacon on your way forward
The man who truly loves you will silently shine for you, and he will help you at a critical moment.
To judge whether a man truly loves you, it depends on whether he has responsibility and shoulders in his feelings, and whether he can become a beacon on your way forward.
Although some men say they love you, they are never willing to give time and energy to you, and they are never willing to do their best to help you.
Even if you're in the woods and you're eager for his help, he's still blind to you.
Our life cannot be smooth and smooth forever, and it is inevitable that we will encounter ups and downs and valleys.
Men who truly love you won't leave you when you're facing a difficult situation or be indifferent to you when you're lonely.
The more he loves you, the more he longs to be the pride in your heart, and he will try to satisfy your various visions and imaginations of feelings.
Because he really likes and cares about you, he will always silently shield you from the wind and rain, and smooth out all the difficulties and obstacles for you.
When a man is willing to guide you with his heart, can clear the fog for you, and guide you to a happier distance, then it is obvious that he really loves you.
3, will continue to motivate you to become a better version of yourself
High-quality feelings are two people who can draw nutrients and energy from each other and transform into a better version of themselves.
You have become stronger and better because of each other's existence, rather than becoming an appendage to each other, or even becoming a burden and burden to each other.
If a man really loves you, he will motivate you to become a better version of yourself and be willing to spend his life helping you achieve your dreams.
Because he really loves you, he will fully respect your personal wishes and ideas, listen to your heart, and accompany you in the pursuit of happiness and light.
If he doesn't really love you, he probably won't really wish you a happy life.
On the contrary, once you have a happy life, he may not be able to help but be jealous of you.
Both men and women should maintain the necessary sobriety and rationality in the face of feelings, do not blindly impulsive, and do not rely too much on their partners.
In the relationship, if a man can constantly motivate you to move forward, no matter what kind of difficulties or setbacks you encounter, he will do his best to help you and become a strong pillar and backing behind you, then there is a good chance that he really loves you.
Because he really loves you, he will prioritize your feelings in everything, be considerate of you and respect you everywhere, and will not force you to do anything you don't like or don't want to do.
He will be proud and proud of your achievements, and will give you the necessary encouragement and praise.
You will become more confident, more free, more courageous because of his presence.
On the contrary, if a man does not love you, he will not only not look forward to you, but will continue to drag and drag you down, so that your life into boundless darkness.
In short, men who truly love you will have some more or less obvious characteristics or performances.
For example, he will be warm and caring to you, will also be generous and open-minded to you, and will also be kind and friendly to you, gentle and tolerant.
Because he really loves you, he is reluctant to be separated from you for a long time, and even if he is separated, he will be full of deep thoughts and concerns for you.
Because he really loves you, no matter how late you come home, he will light a light for you so that you can eat a hot meal.
Because he really loves you, he will sincerely want you to get better and better, as long as you live happily, no matter what you let him do he has no complaints.
The more he truly loves your man, the more he will keep a low profile, and the love will be incomparably deep and full.
His love for you is like a full ear of rice, not ostentatious, but thick, protecting you for a lifetime.
If his love for you only stays on the lips, never willing to implement it into concrete actions and lives, his love cannot stand the test of time and the baptism of time, and disappears without a trace with a gentle blow, then there is no doubt that he does not really love you, and he may abandon you at any time.
Since you want to find someone to spend the rest of your life with, please be sure to polish your eyes and find a partner who truly loves you.
Only when you truly love each other will the relationship be stronger and longer-lasting.