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There are two major events in a person's life:
1: Marriage
2: Investment
Successful marriages are all very similar
Failed marriages have their own reasons
The same goes for investing...
These two big things
It has the same logic of success
In fact, you only need to do two things
The ending will be beautiful
How delicate is life?
After reading this article, you will definitely have a sudden understanding!
■ Successful marriages
There are only two things to do
The last course at a university was "Marriage Management and Creativity", and the main teacher was a professor specially hired by the school to study marriage issues.
He walked into the classroom and hung a stack of charts he had brought on the chalkboard, and then he lifted the flip chart, which was a line written with a brush, and the success of the marriage depended on two things:
First, find a good person.
Second, be a good person.
"It's that simple." The professor said.
There was a buzz in the audience because many of the students below were married. After a while, a woman in her 30s stood up and said, "What if these two things are not done?" ”
The professor opened the second wallchart and said, "That's four." ”
First, tolerate, help, help bad still tolerate.
Second, make tolerance a habit.
Third, develop the character of a fool in habits.
Fourth, be a fool and do it forever.
Before the professor could finish reading these 4 points, there was a clamor in the audience, some saying no, some saying that it could not be done at all.
When everyone calmed down, the professor said, "If you can't do these 4 things, and you want to have a solid marriage, then you have to do the following 16." ”
Then the professor opened the third wall chart:
First, do not lose your temper at the same time.
Second, do not yell unless there is an emergency.
Third, when arguing, let the other party win.
4. The dispute of the day is resolved on the same day.
Fifth, the time to return to the mother's house or go out after the quarrel should not exceed 8 hours.
Sixth, when criticizing, words should be said out of love.
Seventh, be ready to admit mistakes and apologize at any time.
When rumors come, treat them as a joke.
Give him or her one free night a month.
10. Don't go to bed with gas.
When he or she comes home, you must be at home.
Xii. When the other party does not let you disturb, insist on not disturbing.
Thirteen, when the phone rings, let the other party answer.
Fourteen, how much money in the pocket should be reported at any time.
Fifteen, resolutely eliminate the days without money.
Sixteen, the money given to your parents must be less than the money given to the other parents.
When the professor finished reading, some laughed and some sighed.
The professor listened for a while and said, "If you are disappointed in these 16 points, then you only have to do the following 256 points." In short, the theory of two people getting along is a theory of geometric series, which always makes a quadratic basis on the previous number. ”
Then the professor turned to the fourth page of the wallchart, which was no longer written with a brush, but with a pen, 256 strips, densely packed.
The professor said: "Marriage is already dangerous at this point. At this time, there was a stronger noise from the audience.
However, when the professor announced the end of the class, some people sat there without moving, and there seemed to be tears in the corners of their eyes.
■ Successful investment
Just do two things
How similar is the rationale behind successful "investment" and successful "marriage"?
A successful investment depends on two things:
First: find a few good stocks (projects)
Second: Be a patient person
It's that simple.
One might ask, "What if these two things don't work out?" ”
He came to the stream for the third time, and the water was as clear as it had been, the sediment had flowed away, the dead leaves had disappeared, and the water had become pure again.
Then Ananda smiled, and he came back with a dance of water, bowed at the feet of the Buddha, and said: The method you taught is miraculous, and you have taught me a great lesson: nothing is eternal, only patience.
Do you understand this story?