It's 4:50 a.m., and there's still more than 3 hours to go into the exam room and take an exam for 10 hours straight. Some of them need to be memorized, but they have not yet begun to review, not because they are confident, but because they are dismissive of such an exam, even if the difficulty of the exam is increased, it is low-level and not challenging.
In fact, life experiences examinations every day, both big and small, both to test wisdom and to test human nature. The reason why I sat down to write an article at this time is because of an incident that happened yesterday and I am grumpy about my bad temper and can't let go of my irrationality, the specific plot is no longer described, but the cause of the problem is that there is a problem with the control of my emotions, it is that my heart has not withstood the test, and my ugly humanity has been exposed.
The growth of the soul is very long, the maturity of the mind is very difficult, I once thought that with the growth of age and insight, the enrichment of experience and knowledge, I will be more rational and rational, in fact, it is not, the ugliness and evil in human nature are what we have to face and overcome, otherwise, growth and maturity will be empty talk. The following summary of ugly human nature is completely a reflection on oneself, and there is no need for anyone to sit in the seat, but it can be changed if there is one, and no one can be encouraged.
One is hypocrisy, likes to be flattered, even if it's fake; doesn't like to be blamed, even if it's true. People who are flattered and sneaky have always had in life, and some of them have gone smoothly and fast in the workplace, because they see through human nature and cater to the psychology of most people who are recognized, that is, Maslow needs self-realization in the hierarchy theory. I am neither good at nor disdainful of doing such things, but I long to be recognized and praised, which is human nature and extremely ugly. It took me more than 3 months last year to pass the judicial examination and obtain legal qualifications. I know it all too well that the reason why I can pass the exam is because of the favor of luck, there is nothing else, but the compliments of others such as strong learning ability and high understanding are also complacent and complacent, and the ugly, other self in my heart is eager to jump out, pat the other person's shoulder, and say: "You praise two more sentences", how hypocritical and vain, but happy to do it. However, it is very easy to be unhappy and dissatisfied with the reminder of good intentions and the right criticism, and even be provoked by unintentional words and unintentional actions, and then mess things up in the emotional control and confusion of thinking. A few days ago, I wrote a post-reading feeling of "Key Dialogue", but soon I lost my way in the "Key Dialogue", and it is really ridiculous and ironic to think about. Perhaps, there is always a weak corner in people's hearts that hurts when it is poked, in fact, it is hypocritical self-esteem, but it is not difficult to make your heart strong, and you must firmly believe how ignorant you are, let alone perfect, and it is still far from perfect.
The second is the self, always overestimating one's own abilities and roles, ignoring the strength and participation of others. Sociality is the most essential attribute of human beings, the most direct embodiment is that we can not escape the family friendship, classmates and colleagues, as well as social division of labor, synergy and cooperation, even if Robinson successfully survives on a desert island, the initial tools are also the creation and product of society. But human nature places itself at the center of the world, and the problems of self-righteousness, solipsism, and selfishness arise, and so do I. There is a sentence in "University", "Good and know its evil, evil and know its good, the world is rare", to the effect that for those who like can still see the deficiencies, for those who do not like can also see the advantages, such people are very few. I will magnify the shortcomings of others and ignore the strengths of others, but I am very tolerant of myself, "strict with myself, lenient with others" is only said to others. As long as you live in society and in groups, your role is limited, which is both a finite decision of human beings and because human abilities have boundaries, and even great people cannot do anything. "Gentlemen ask for everything, villains ask for people", I am certainly not a gentleman, and the difference is still far away.
The third is laziness, anxiety when encountering difficulties, idleness and confusion. All human inventions and creations are reducing pain and increasing happiness, which is human need and human nature, reflecting the pursuit of ease and ease, reflecting the laziness of people. In fact, when people come to this world, the most important growth is to experience tempering and overcoming difficulties, and there will be no challenges and no gains in a smooth life. I am also very lazy, both physical, but also mental, as well as psychological, encounter troublesome work tasks, my heart will be restless, do not want to face, even reject, but when there is nothing to do, but feel that life is too uneventful, more or less confused, but not willing to take the initiative to unlock so many unknowns in this world, so that they become full and powerful. "The Catcher in the Rye" has this passage: the sign of an immature man is that he is willing to die heroically for a certain cause; the sign of a mature man is that he is willing to live humbly for some cause. In fact, this is a kind of pessimism and impatience for life, I think, dare not face, unwilling to sacrifice, in fact, is also a kind of laziness, the root is afraid of loss, afraid of failure, so it will neglect to hone the temperament of the heart, sluggish to strengthen the character of the will. If the so-called edges and corners are smoothed out, they are all deceiving themselves, they are all vain snakes, and if cowardice is regarded as reason and forbearance is regarded as reason, it is not really rational reason, but making excuses for laziness and evasion. I think that if you overcome the lazy nature and find the best combination of rationality and personality, perhaps, you will be invincible in the world, after all, IQ and emotional intelligence hand in hand, fight all over the world invincible, because, insight into human nature, close to wisdom. I myself am an animal with a low IQ and low emotional intelligence, far from intelligence.
The farthest distance in life is the distance between knowing and doing; the greatest pain in life is the inability to cross the gap between knowing and doing. The only thing you can do is to strive to make yourself one with knowledge and action, and let yourself go further on the road of growth and maturity.
It's 6:30 a.m., closing the pen and memorizing the question.