A few days ago, after the love affair between the famous actor Ma Sichun and a male star surnamed Zhang was suspected of being exposed, it caused many people to sigh. Everyone is not talking about how the relationship is, most of them are wondering how the beautiful woman's vision is so bad?
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It is true that Ma Sichun may not be a great beauty in the eyes of some people, but at least he is also a good facial feature and a clear eyebrow. Look at her gossip boyfriend, who looks really hard to say, and it is inevitable that netizens hate iron and steel, and they have issued "respect and blessing" sighs.
In fact, throughout the ancient and modern China and abroad, it is not difficult for us to find that whether it is the entertainment industry, the Internet celebrity circle, or the world of ordinary people, there are many examples of beautiful women with "ugly men". Even if it is our friends, there are always a few typical examples. Obviously, in the hearts of outsiders, they are all "goddesses" and "little fairies", but the final destination of the circle is not a "male god" who matches it, and is often a man with a beer belly, untrimmed edges, and sloppy.
This is really a kind of metaphysics, is the vision of beautiful women so bad? We interviewed friends and some netizens around us, and summarized the following reasons from them.
Speaking of the typical beauty with the beast, I have to mention the school flower Jia Ting in our high school period. At that age when the teacher explicitly ordered that no makeup, no long hair, and only school uniforms were allowed, everyone was a student head, wearing a long and unsuitable school uniform, carrying a heavy school bag and wearing glasses.
On the campus at that time, Jia Ting was the most beautiful girl I had ever seen. The skin is very white, there are no blemishes at all, smooth and delicate like a goose egg. Big eyes, eyelashes flickering. He is also very tall, because he has been dancing since elementary school and has slender limbs, and he walks lightly and elegantly. Even the school uniform with an ugly color scheme has a different flavor on her, looking more pure and lovely.
Jia Ting also has a very good personality, and whoever talks to is smiling. Whenever she watched a basketball game on the playground, she heard that the boys were all scrambling to catch the ball. Not to mention the love letters I received from childhood to adulthood, there are more than a dozen that I know. But they were all rejected by Jia Ting one by one, and she didn't see anyone she was with in the whole high school.
That is to say, there was no current network development, otherwise I dare to say that Jia Ting must be a new generation of Internet celebrities.
But it is such a sweet and pure girl, and the marriage partners after graduation make us stunned.
The husband she was looking for was seven years older than him, not to mention, his appearance could only barely be decent, and he was not as tall as Jia Ting. We all felt sorry for Jia Ting, we didn't expect that the final destination of the goddess was so casual, and we were secretly speculating whether this man was very rich, otherwise why could she hold a beautiful person.
In order to verify today's topic, I decided to go to her house and interview her in person.
As soon as I entered her home, I was attracted by the beautiful decoration and clean and tidy arrangement. There are many green plants and flowers on the balcony, which look like they have been carefully groomed, and the soft decorations of the sofa curtains are also very tasteful.
Jia Ting poured me a glass of water, and we finally cut to the point after a while of greeting.
"After all these years, I really don't know why you chose someone like your husband?" I asked.
Jia Ting smiled and asked me, "Do you all think I should be with a rich and handsome man, this is the match?" ”
I nodded, and that was indeed what I had in mind.
Jia Ting said: "In fact, at the beginning, I also dated handsome men, but after getting along for a long time, I found that they were all fast-food love, often only for a moment of freshness and beauty." And these men think they are handsome and often make trouble outside. Such a person, it is difficult to imagine how to get along with him one day if I am no longer beautiful and no longer so young. ”
Referring to her current husband, Jia Ting's face can't help but be sweet, "and my husband, although the appearance looks very general, he will carefully help me rub my waist when I have painful menstruation, help me prepare a pair of flat shoes in the car when I am tired of walking on high heels, always make meals waiting for me after work, even if my face is allergic to a lot of acne, it will only hurt me to rub medicine every day, did not say that I was not good-looking, and always advised me not to wear makeup, plain face is the most beautiful." ”
Jia Ting asked me again, "If there is such a man, do you think looks are still important?" ”
I thought about it, and Jia Ting really convinced me.
Although a good-looking person gives a good first impression, the real life depends on the person's mentality, conduct, and three views, which is the key factor that determines whether two people can hold hands for a lifetime. Love is blind, true love comes, may not care about the other party's looks.
Have you ever found that overall, women generally have a higher appearance than men? Whether on campus or out of society, it seems that women are more willing to pamper themselves on appearance.
This is not surprising, after all, everyone has a heart for beauty, especially women. The cosmetics and skin care products advertised every day in the advertisement are all selling to women. Most of the men are grinning, do not pay attention to appearance care, with the increase of age, coupled with the increase in stress, smoking and drinking and other bad habits, the natural appearance of the decline is severe.
There will often be a difference in the comparison of skin care products between men and women on the Internet, you will find that often women have a variety of skin care products, cosmetics, just on the face, there are water, milk, essence, cream, mask, etc., not to mention body milk, hair mask, essential oils and so on to care for every part of the body products. And men, at most there is a big treasure is already very good.
Previously, some netizens commented that "my girlfriend is willing to give me her essence sample is already the biggest skin care for me", which has resonated with many men.
So in this case, at the right age, women will find that the appearance of men around them generally declines, so it is not surprising that most of the objects found look unremarkable.
Without beauty, filters and plastic surgery, everyone is actually an ordinary person. There are many golden boys and jade girls and talented women in film and television dramas, and we must accept this when we return to reality.
Their husbands still have to be distressed, female compatriots can also dress up for their boyfriends and husbands, and men should not relax, keep their appearance clean and generous, clean themselves in time, proper maintenance, is also a good choice.
There is a saying that goes, "The good-looking skin bag is the same, and the interesting soul is one of the best".
With the development of society, people's concept of mate selection is becoming more and more mature. Just looking at the face can not be the only criterion for choosing a mate, in the fast-paced life, who does not want to have a caring person who knows the cold and knows the heat, and can talk to each other?
As soon as the good news of The announcement of the marriage between Yui Niigaki and Hoshino Gen was released, it made the straight man in China and Japan cry out in pain. Yui Niigaki is a recognized goddess with a sweet and lovely appearance, while Hoshino's appearance is still unnoticed by passers-by.
Everyone only saw the appearance of the two, but ignored hoshino's strength. He is a well-known Japanese musician and has been on the list of Japan's hottest music for many consecutive years. He is also an actor, writer, philanthropist, etc., and has published countless works.
Overwork led to excessive body load, and he almost retreated from the circle due to subarachnoid hemorrhage. But dedication and strong willpower supported him to come out. His works are full of yearning for a new life and the courage to overcome difficulties and dangers.
How can a person who has achieved the ultimate in his field, is serious and dedicated, and loves life not like it?
Love is blind, sometimes love happens for no reason at all, it may be a help when you are in trouble, it may be the way you laugh, or even the sun is shining well that day, you wear a white shirt that I like. Love is so unreasonable, such as people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge. Don't lose the true meaning of life in pursuit of superficial brilliance.