Note: This article is based on the original novel of "Xiao Min Jia", and the picture is derived from the "Xiao Min Jia" TV series.
After Li Ping and Chen Zhuo divorced, her daughter Chen Jiajia lived with Chen Zhuo, and Li Ping remarried Hong Wei without stopping, becoming a rich wife as she wished.
However, behind Li Ping's scenery, there is an unspeakable hidden pain, she is more than forty years old, want to have a child with Hong Health, helplessly has not been able to conceive.
Hong Wei holds several companies in his hands, and his financial resources should not be underestimated, and his biggest regret is that although people have successful careers in middle age, they do not have their own bloodline, and there is no successor to the "Jiangshan" that they have fought for half a lifetime.
Li Ping was not easy to get pregnant, but due to physical and emotional problems, she accidentally flowed away, and watching her hopes be shattered, Hong Wei and his wife were very unhappy in their hearts.
In order to have a child, Li Ping tried various means, suffered a lot, and secretly ran to the United States to seek medical treatment, but because she was too old, she was told that there was no possibility of childbearing, and Li Ping had to give up the "long road of seeking children".
Looking at Li Ping in her forties and desperately trying to give birth to children for the rich, sad and humble, many people say that Li Ping is bright on the surface, and marrying into the rich looks very happy, but in fact it is just a sad fertility tool.
But is this really the case?
After reading the original work of "Xiao Minjia", I know that Li Ping's happiness cannot be imagined by ordinary people at all. Abandoning Chen Zhuo and tearing Hong Wei apart, Li Ping is the real "big heroine".
Hong Wei truly loved Li Ping
Hong Wei married Li Ping in order to let her continue the incense?
If Hong Wei really cared so much about passing on the lineage, he would not marry Li Ping, who was divorced and had children who were older, and with Hong Wei's conditions, he could marry a young and healthy girl.
The reason why Hong Wei chose Li Ping is because Li Ping and he are the same person.
In the original work of "Xiao Minjia", it is written: "In Li Ping's view, men are to have ambitions. And she can catch Hong Wei precisely because she is also an ambitious person. ”
When Li Ping was young, her career was already very successful, she and Chen Zhuo divorced, because Chen Zhuo could not keep up with Li Ping in all aspects, the two were not in step, the women were strong and the men were weak, resulting in more and more contradictions in the marriage, Li Ping decisively abandoned Chen Zhuo.
Divorced from Chen Zhuo, Li Ping voluntarily left the house, and her crispness and neatness made Chen Zhuo quite resentful.
Chen Zhuo said, "Li Ping is selfish and only takes care of herself in everything. ”
The reality of the heart is that a "selfish" person like Li Ping is more likely to live happily. Because this kind of person does not have to care about the feelings of others, can act with their own hearts, find that the marriage can not continue to divorce, let go of each other, but also let go of themselves, not necessarily a bad thing.
Chen Zhuo and Li Ping are not people in the world, this point Li Ping sees more thoroughly than Chen Zhuo, Chen Zhuo thinks that Li Ping left him, is disgusted that he is not successful enough, in fact, Li Ping has long seen the essence of the two, the personality difference is too big, the pursuit of life is not consistent, and are not willing to change for each other, divorce is "let each other have a way to live.".
It turns out that it is wise for Li Ping and Chen Zhuo to separate, and after the divorce, the two met the right person and learned how incompatible the previous marriage was.
Li Ping and Hong Wei together are the real equal opponents, and the spiritual door is right.
The two appreciate each other and forge ahead together, and What Hong Wei brings to Li Ping is not only a rich life, but also an excellent business vision.
In the original work of "Xiao Min Family", Hong Wei was a prodigal son when he was young, married and had an affair behind his wife's back, his wife could not stand the blow, committed suicide, Xiao Sanmi broke into the disaster, and ran without a trace.
This incident left a deep psychological shadow on Hong Wei, and from then on, he accepted his heart and decided to live a solid life, and what Li Ping encountered was Hong Wei who had gone through vicissitudes and turned back to the shore.
Hong Wei identified Li Ping, and he ran to the white head and grew old.
Li Ping and Hong Wei are the right time to meet the right people.
Li Ping's confidence
The original work of "Xiao MinJia" mentioned that after marrying Hong Wei, Li Ping had a vacant post in a pseudonym and did not have to fight in the workplace, but Li Ping was not really idle.
Li Ping knew everything about Hong Wei's career, she had The handle of Hong Wei, and she also held a large amount of property, and these two "sharp weapons" alone were enough for Li Ping to be proud for the rest of her life.
Li Ping, who dares to love and dare to hate, will not live as a humble poor worm.
She desperately wants to have a child, not only because Hong Wei wants to add Ding, she herself also wants to have a child of her own, her daughter Chen Jiajia is closer to Chen Zhuo, Li Ping is soft and hard to Chen Jiajia, and still can't get her daughter's heart, which makes Li Ping helpless and powerless to Chen Jiajia.
Her divorce from Chen Zhuo doomed Chen Jiajia to be difficult to integrate into her and HongWei's new home, and Hongwei did not invest much in this stepdaughter, although he said that he would "treat Chen Jiajia as his daughter", but after all, there was no blood relationship, after all, there was a gap.
If there are new children, her marriage to Hong Wei can add icing on the cake, and there is more than one Hong Wei who dreams of having offspring.
In the original novel of "Xiao Minjia", it is mentioned that after checking out that there is no hope of childbearing, Hong Wei did not dislike Li Ping, let alone divorce her, which shows that Hong Wei loves Li Ping as a woman herself, not her fertility.
Hong Wei was not reconciled, secretly did a test tube abroad, and had a son, who could only be raised outside, and did not dare to let Li Ping know.
Hong Wei cares about Li Ping's attitude and is afraid that she will be angry, so he will always hide it, but it turns out that this kind of behavior of sneaking and giving birth to a child behind his wife's back is playing with fire and self-immolation.
After Li Ping learned the truth, she did not hesitate to mention divorce, preferring to be single rather than want a man like Hong Wei, Li Ping endured a period of loneliness, but she had money that she could not spend for the rest of her life, a decent big house, no love, and the happiness that money could buy.
After the divorce, Li Ping did beauty treatment without anything, cared about her daughter, listened to the gossip of her ex-husband Chen Zhuo's family, mixed and mixed with her cousin's love, had money and leisure, and she was never a poor person who was willing to be a fertility tool.
Then Hong Wei was locked up for several years because of commercial problems, Li Ping out of humanitarianism, helped Hong Wei raise a child, she saw bamboo planted at the door, she casually named the child "Li Zhu", raising Li Zhu, also like naming him so casually.
The child has a nanny to take care of, but Li Zhu and Li Ping are very close, calling Li Ping a mother, Li Ping's heart is soft, and she is gradually inseparable from Li Zhu.
After Hong Wei came out, he insisted on remarrying Li Ping, if Li Ping did not agree, Hong Wei would sue to regain the custody of the child, Hong Wei knew that Li Ping was reluctant to have the child, and looking at the child's face, Li Ping also had to agree to remarry.
Hong Wei's stalking is exactly the evidence that he can't do without Li Ping.
But Hong Wei underestimated Li Ping's "fierceness", Li Ping's last fear is "hard and hard", in order to deal with Hong Wei and leave the child, Li Ping's backhand is a report, exploding his business material, and directly sending Hong Wei in.
This woman, too not simple.
To clean up Hongwei, she had a hundred ways.
Hong Wei is the humble side
After reading the original work of "Xiao Min's Family", I understood that Li Ping, who worked hard to give birth to a child, was not the weaker party in the marriage, and Hong Wei was the man who loved humblely.
Knowing that Li Ping reported him, Hong Wei was not angry, but still willing to grow old with her, eager to spend the rest of his life with her, and also handled the adoption of the child, Li Ping became the nominal mother of the child.
Hong Wei was in love with Li Ping with his life.
In fact, under HongWei's conditions, there is no need to accommodate Li Ping everywhere, even if he has children, there are still many women who are willing to marry him as a stepmother for his children, and Hong Wei dies Li Ping because beautiful young women often exist, and Li Ping, who is intelligent and ambitious, is unique.
Hong Wei volunteered to raise the child with Li Ping, which melted Li Ping's heart, although Li Zhu was not her own child, but she had already paid maternal love for this lovely child, and Li Ping was completely touched by Hong Wei.
Li Ping felt that she was too stupid to report the matter, and in order to "fish" Hong Wei, Li Ping did not hesitate to ruin her family and sold the mansion.
If you betray me and deceive me, I will have the power to send you to hell; you respect me, you understand me, and I am willing to give everything to repay you.
Li Ping's fierceness and sassyness are what ordinary women do not have.
What Hong Wei loves is exactly what she has.
Some people say that Li Ping failed to have another child of her own, her husband still had a son behind her back, the family was broken, and her life fell by leaps and bounds, she was the woman with the most tragic ending in "Xiao Min's Family".
I don't think so.
Li Ping's "misery" is only temporary, not to mention, the skinny camel is bigger than Ma, Li Ping is not really poor, she still has private money in her hands, bankruptcy is not terrible for her.
Hong Wei said, "Please believe me, I will definitely make a comeback." ”
Hong Wei, who once had assets of more than 100 million, it is only a matter of time before he made a comeback, although he has paid out tens of millions, Hong Wei's connections and resources are still there, his experience in the shopping mall is a fortune, and the life of Hong Wei and Li Ping will sooner or later return to the brilliant level.
Write at the end
Li Ping in the original work of "Xiao Minjia" is strong, tricky, spicy, vain, unreasonable, often maliciously speculating on others, and loves gossip, sensitive and suspicious, and has many shortcomings.
But she is the most authentic woman in the whole book, and her sobriety in marriage is the weight of her destined happiness.
Not attached to men, always retaining the ability to withdraw and leave, Li Ping is not anyone's vassal, she has always been herself.
A woman's greatest confidence does not come from the love of men, but from her ability to survive independently. A person can also live well so that they are not afraid to end the relationship between two people.
Because of the fertility problem, Li Ping was also anxious, there are vivid examples around, men have illegitimate children outside, they abandoned their wives, Li Ping was also uneasy about this.
But when things really fell on her head, Li Ping knew that she was far more powerful than she imagined.
Hong Wei had a child, although it was obtained by test tube, Li Ping still felt that she had suffered betrayal, she did not forgive Hong Wei, and decisively divorced Hong Wei.
Li Ping's boldness made Hong Wei realize that he was wronged outrageously; Li Ping, who never wronged herself, did not give men the opportunity to hurt her.
Holding the handle of her husband Hong's health intentions, and holding the financial power, Li Ping has not only ambition, but also scheming, and a woman like Li Ping is the real cruel role.
After tasting Li Ping's strength, Hong Wei knew better that only Li Ping could mentally pass him, and Hong Wei, who "turned back from the prodigal son", chose Li Ping the moment he chose Li Ping, which was the rest of his life, which shows how much Li Ping's charm is.