Catch weeks of children growing up

When the child is one year old, we will let them grasp the week, at that time, if the child can grab a pen, a book, the adults will be happy, thinking that the child's future will be infinitely bright. If the child grabs a meat bag and a piece of jewelry, the adults will be a little frustrated in their hearts, as if the child grabs these foods, luxury goods, will become foodies, become fetishists, and the future is in danger.

In fact, when they were young, most of the children were unconscious, and they relied on shape and color to grasp what they could see most, and they could not decide what future fate. But the parents were so serious and so devoid of emotion that the tradition of catching weeks was passed down from generation to generation. It becomes an expression of parents' high hopes for their children's future, a ritual.

Children grow up, have self-awareness, have value judgments, and their choices are truly decisive for their destiny.

Today, an adult boy, if he has a little money, chooses to play mahjong, play games, drink and smoke, and open a room, which is a natural expression of his preference for himself. Now, this preference will determine his personality, pursuit, and destiny. Everyone is more or less worried about the boy's future.

Similarly, an adult girl, if she has money, chooses to buy luxury bags, designer clothes, medical beauty, clubbing star chasing, we will also feel a little worried.

In fact, men are good at gambling and love wine, and women are good at luxury and love jewelry, which is a hobby. Men drink and gamble money, women are afraid to take it; women are so extravagant that they love to spend money, men should also retreat, not to take chances. Because. Such men and women, they will pit themselves, but also pit the people around them, there is a good chance that they will not bring happiness and happiness.

When the child goes to college, the adults reward her with some money, which is the encouragement of the elders to the child, and it is also full of their ardent expectations. Children should use this money to buy school supplies, books, and even nutritional supplements for reading, and should not divert it to a luxury bag. This is both a disgrace to the elders and a wrong way to open up her own future path, which parents should pay attention to and guide correctly.

If the child really likes bags, then parents can encourage her to earn money to buy bags through her own legal part-time work when she has spare energy in school, rather than using the rewards of the elders.

In fact, most girls are often very meticulous when spending their hard-earned money, which not only cultivates her social practice ability, but also allows them to understand the difficulty of making money, and thus establish a correct view of money.

If it was my daughter, I would tell her that if there is spare money, it should be donated to the people who need it most, which is much more valuable than buying a bag. This helps others materially and improves oneself spiritually.