Late at night, an ambulance, speeding down the street, broke the silence of the night.
A pregnant woman in the car, who was unconscious at the moment, made a harsh noise from the detection instrument.
Upon arrival at the hospital, doctors learned that the patient had drunk paraquat.
Paraquat is so toxic that it makes people talk about it and has no specific antidotes.
And this medicine, as early as 2016, China has banned the use of paraquat water agent.
Why do patients drink it? The doctor had a bad premonition in his heart and immediately began to rescue him.
But it is very regrettable that after rescue, the patient and the 7-month-old fetus could not be saved, and one corpse and two lives were killed.
At this time, the patient's mother rushed to the hospital, learned of this result, and cried bitterly, and muttered in her mouth:
"I hurt you, they all blame me, they all blame me..."
According to the family:
The patient, Li Li (pseudonym), 31 years old, talked about a boyfriend after graduating from college.
However, Li Li's mother did not agree, thinking that he had no money, and forced 1 million dowry money to split the two people apart.
In the following years, Li Li did not talk about friends again, and seeing that she was older, Li Li's mother began to be anxious.
Therefore, he began to arrange various blind dates for Li Li, and Li Li had no opinion and obeyed her mother's arrangement.
Later, Li Li's mother introduced Wang Mou, the department leader of a listed company, with good economic conditions.
Li Li's mother was very satisfied, and the other party was satisfied with Li Li's appearance, and the two soon got married.
Li Li had a boyfriend before, but did not mention a word, so Wang has always thought that Li Li has not been an object.
But on the night of the wedding, Wang Knew that he had been deceived, felt that Li Li was cheating on the marriage, and joined forces with her mother to cheat on his family property.
Since then, Li Li has not been happy, because Wang always finds various reasons to quarrel and has beaten Li Li.
Li Li once told her mother about this and wanted to divorce, but her mother disagreed, saying that Li Li was in a blessing and did not know the blessing, let her endure it, and then have a child, it will be good.
Later, Li Li became pregnant, and Wang Mou did improve li li.
I thought that life would develop in a good direction, but unexpectedly, when Li Li was 4 months pregnant, her mother-in-law moved over.
It is said that the mother-in-law is a natural enemy, which is not wrong at all, lili who raises a fetus at home and her mother-in-law have a lot of contradictions.
Wang Mou, who has always been foolish and filial, obeyed his mother's words, coupled with past events, naturally did not have a good face for Li Li.
Li Li was disappointed again, and even fell into despair, suffered from depression, and was mentally ill every day, very low.
But Wang Mou did not care, felt that it was pregnant, and did not pay attention to it.
But unexpectedly, when Li Li was 7 months pregnant, she took advantage of her husband's outing to drink, her mother-in-law went to play mahjong, and drank the whole bottle of paraquat, just like that, one corpse and two lives.
The following few abnormalities, more than 3 appear, be careful of depression
1. Long-term depressed mood
Depression in the early stages, often manifested as a short period of emotional decline, not interested in anything.
With the development of the disease, there will be persistent depression and pessimism, long-term feeling of sullenness and psychological stress.
2, thinking more and more slowly
Depression can also cause unresponsiveness, memory, and attention loss.
Whether it is work or study, they are not interested, and they will hesitate to face problems.
I used to be able to work and study fully, but now I feel powerless to cope.
3, self-evaluation is getting lower and lower
Blame all your mistakes on yourself, think that you are a useless person, feel that life has lost hope, and your own existence is worthless, and it is better to be liberated by death.
Even if you make a small mistake, you will think that you have made a big mistake and are about to be punished.
4. Cognitive impairment
This includes memory ability, decreased reaction ability, etc., and some people's alertness will increase.
Some patients will suspect that there are people everywhere who are following them and trying to harm themselves.
At the same time, there will also be social dysfunction, unable to learn and communicate normally in language.
5, the activity is getting slower and slower
It is obvious that your hands and feet are out of control, the gestures are gradually reduced, and the movement is becoming more and more slow. There are also some people with severe depression who may even develop a state of silence and bed rest.
Pregnant women need to be extra vigilant for depression
In recent years, maternal depression has been experiencing an increasing number of cases.
Compared to postpartum depression, prenatal depression, few people talk about it.
Prenatal depression is depression that occurs during pregnancy, before and during childbirth, and its impact is even more profound than that of postpartum depression.
Due to the sudden and large increase in pregnancy hormones during pregnancy, the secretion and transmission of many neurotransmitters in the brain are affected, resulting in depression, anxiety and other conditions.
Common manifestations are: low mood, anxiety, eating disorders, moodiness, insomnia and dreams, suspiciousness, fatigue, insecurity and so on.
Severe prenatal depression in pregnant women will not only affect the mood of pregnant women, but also cause negative effects such as slow fetal development, lip distortion, placental abruption, and even lead to premature birth and miscarriage.
Therefore, pregnant women need to be extra vigilant to prevent depression.
Maternity, anti-depression, do these points:
1. Nutritional supplementation
Nutritional supplementation for pregnant women is critical.
Among them, α-linolenic acid, indispensable, especially pay attention to supplementation.
In a paper published by Harvard University in the United States, more than 50,000 women were used as experimental subjects, and it was found that after the experimenters ingested α-linolenic acid, the depression was effectively alleviated.
α-linolenic acid is a necessary fatty acid for the human body, which cannot be synthesized by the human body itself and needs to be ingested from food.
α-linolenic acid can block nerve conduction pathways and improve the secretion of serotonin, which is a substance that can bring happy emotions to the human body.
During brain development, the fetus desperately absorbs the α-linolenic acid in the mother.
If the pregnant woman does not pay attention to supplementation, the fetus can not get enough linolenic acid from the nutrition ingested by the mother, then it can only rob the mother of linolenic acid stored in the brain and body tissues.
The content of linolenic acid in the blood of women generally drops below half of the normal value, resulting in pregnant women who are very susceptible to postpartum depression and mental disorders after giving birth to a child.
Therefore, in life, we should pay attention to supplementing α- linolenic acid, food sources are mainly vegetable oil, perilla vegetable oil, autumn hemp seed oil, walnut oil and so on.
Among them, perilla vegetable oil has the highest content, known as "deep sea fish oil on land", and is a good source of supplementary α-linolenic acid.
2. Relax your mindset
From the decision to have children, even if they are still in the pregnancy stage, women must learn to adjust their emotions and face life with a positive and optimistic attitude.
During the pregnancy preparation, maintain a relaxed and pleasant mood, participate in more outdoor activities, and try to reduce the pressure on work and life.
Expecting your baby from the start with the most positive, optimistic and relaxed mood will make it easier and more comfortable during pregnancy.
3. Husband and wife communicate more
To avoid postpartum depression, the role of the husband is very important.
Because, the child's father is the first communication object of baoma.
As a husband, you must be able to "observe the color", if the new mother is obviously depressed, then ask what is wrong, so that the new mother knows that you are still concerned about her.
And, as a mother, you must learn to take the initiative to communicate, speak out, solve problems, and don't hold it in your heart alone.
Some things, it is much simpler to say it, everyone guesses and guesses, not only for the mother itself is not conducive to relieving the mood, Bao Dad's mood will not be good.
4. Outings
Out of the confinement, you can go outside for a walk, chat with your girlfriends, participate in some activities, make more friends, chat, and feel good.
You can also do yoga, do meditation, etc., so that your body can recover, so that your mind is at peace, which is conducive to the recovery of the production.
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