From pregnancy to the birth of a child is a natural process, and young people nowadays rarely care about when the child is born. For the elderly, special attention is paid to the birth date and time of the child, even accurate to a few minutes and seconds.
Because the word "eight characters" of the child's birthday still occupies more weight in the hearts of the elderly, even in order not to miss the good eight characters, and let the child be born early.
Kojima's friend Jingjing is more than 6 months pregnant, from pregnancy to know that her due date is the end of November, the mother-in-law began to do work for Jingjing, hoping to give birth to the child in september by early caesarean section, the mother-in-law has always stressed that the child born in September will be more successful in the future.
Jingjing has not agreed with her mother-in-law's opinion, two months in advance, there is still a great threat to the child's health. Seeing that September was about to end, Jingjing did not have the intention of going to the hospital, the mother-in-law finally could not sit still, and began to theorize with Jingjing, in the process of theory, Jingjing accidentally hit the stomach by the table, resulting in premature birth and early admission to the hospital.
Because of the premature birth time, he was sent to the incubator after birth, and after 2 rescues, he finally protected the child's life. Seeing this result, the mother-in-law was also frightened and no longer dared to mention the time of the child's birth.
Born in September
According to a large number of follow-up surveys, children born in this month are relatively introverted and cannot take the initiative in interpersonal communication, so many people will feel that their personality is more stuffy and there will not be much development in the future.
However, in the eyes of the elderly, it is believed that the children born in this month are honest and hard-working characters, and such a steady and stable future will definitely be rewarding. And September is the season of harvest, and children can eat new grain at birth, which means that they will eat and drink for a lifetime.
Born in May
Born in this month has the enthusiasm of summer, the bones are lively and active personality, there is a strong curiosity and curiosity, like to ask why, if well guided, indeed can have a certain harvest in learning.
No matter which month the child is born, the personality characteristics are not exactly the same, and more often it is an expectation of the parents for the child.
1) Family aspect
Personality education: Half of a child's personality is inherited from the genes of the parents, and the other part is formed by the guidance and education of the day after tomorrow. When the child is young, the parents accompany more, especially the father's company is more important, which is conducive to establishing the child's sense of security, under the guidance of the father's tenacious and strong character, the child's personality will be more confident and optimistic, which will have a great impact on the future development.
Independent ability: Most families are four elderly people corresponding to a child, taking care of children to do all aspects, only need a child's eyes or a finger, the elderly will immediately do it for the child.
Such an approach is not advocated, to cultivate the child's ability to be independent, parents can not follow the child for a lifetime, even if the genius child can not take care of themselves because of life is not able to develop. Therefore, from an early age, children are trained to dress themselves, pack up toys, etc., and develop an independent consciousness.
Character education: Whether a person can develop for a long time, the most important thing is to rely on character, and it is the most basic to cultivate children to be honest, responsible, and responsible.
2) School education
Knowledge learning: from literacy to counting are the content that children need to learn, but also the future development of the society must function, the rapid development of society, no culture can be said to be difficult to move, with the country's emphasis on education, the quality and cultural level of the people are also constantly improving, so children's knowledge learning is the inevitable way.
Learn to live collectively: School, society are a collective, when children can learn to live in the collective, get along well with classmates, the future will develop better in society, although everyone is an independent individual, but can not be separated from the collective life and existence.
The future development of the child has little to do with the birth month, and the guidance and education of the day after tomorrow are more critical. Rather than parents taking the birth time of their children as so important, it is better to focus on cultivating their children, so that children can become more talented.