Will male celebrities not be able to marry wives? Maybe it really will.
Zhu Yuchen has participated in many TV series over the years, not a first-line male star, but also an "old actor", handsome in appearance and humble personality. Unfortunately, when the entertainment industry mentions him, it will shake its head and sigh, "Old Mother Treasure Boy".
42-year-old Zhu Yuchen, in the eyes of her mother, is still a baby who needs to be taken care of at all times, not only controlling her life, but also interfering in Zhu Yuchen's marriage.
Even her sister, in the shadow of her mother, was full of fear of marriage.
In February 1979, Zhu Yuchen was born in Shanghai in a typical "strong woman and weak male" family, his father was an ordinary clerk, honest and generous, his mother had a strong personality, and everything in the family was grasped. Zhu Yuchen also has an older sister who is a few years older than him, named Zhu Beibei.
Zhu Yuchen's mother did not like girls, after Zhu Yuchen was born, this situation was even more serious, Zhu Yuchen almost all her attention was on her son, and she paid little attention to her daughter, who was her eyeball.
Mother Zhu once said, "I am treating my son with my whole life, I can stand up to two Filipino maids alone, and the meaning of my life is to take care of my children."
Zhu Yuchen grew up and almost did almost no housework, and Zhu Yuchen took care of everything he had. When Zhu Yuchen went to college, he had to live on campus, so Zhu Yuchen's mother specifically asked Zhu Yuchen's roommate whether he would snore when he slept at night.
Because there are climbing tigers under the dormitory, Zhu Mu is worried that the climbing tiger will soon grow along the wall to the outside of the bedroom, which will attract mosquitoes, so she wants to burn the climbing tiger to death with boiling water. The posture was too big, causing her classmates and roommates to look at it with strange eyes, and Zhu Yuchen persuaded her for a long time before she stopped.
This suffocating maternal love has not diminished because Zhu Yuchen graduated from college.
Zhu Yuchen signed a contract with an entertainment company after graduation, and at the beginning he did not receive any roles, did not need to travel, and his mother could take care of her at any time at close range. Later, Zhu Yuchen was on fire, and he needed to go all over the country to shoot dramas.
Worried that Zhu Yuchen's work was too hard to meet the fire, Zhu Mu got up at 4 a.m. every day to boil pear juice, to boil more than an hour and a half, insisting on ten years.
Stars generally have special nutritionists, or have customized recipes, but Zhu Mu believes that her care is the best, and Zhu Yuchen, who loves her mother, will also listen to her mother's words and insist on drinking pear juice. Because the sugar content is too high, Zhu Yuchen has many acne marks on his face and his weight has increased a lot.
With such a mother, Zhu Yuchen's marriage was destined to be more difficult than ordinary people.
Mother Zhu's thinking is very traditional, she believes that women should abide by the three virtues and four virtues, be a good wife and mother, and take good care of Zhu Yuchen like her.
"A woman should be a good wife and mother, and since she married you into the door, you should be able to shoulder this responsibility."
The mother who loved her son so much broke up Zhu Yuchen's many fates.
Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei are each other's first love, the two originally met in the examination of the Chinese drama, the first exam fell off the list, the second exam Zhu Yuchen was admitted, Tang Wei was not admitted, and only the third time was admitted. The two were together for a total of three years, and were finally separated by Zhu Mu.
Mother Zhu saw Tang Wei, and she felt that Tang Wei was not worthy of her son, and obviously did not meet the ideal daughter-in-law standards.
Zhu Yuchen later became acquainted with another female star, Jiang Yan, who once showed good cooking skills in the show, and was also beautiful and generous, and had a good relationship with Zhu Yuchen. Later, Zhu Yuchen took Jiang Yan home to see her parents.
Zhu Mu once again played her "mean" love, first criticizing Jiang Yan for being too revealing, and then saying that Jiang Yan sat on the sofa when she came, not virtuous, not humble enough, did not hold Zhu Yuchen, and let Zhu Yuchen break up with her.
Zhu Yuchen loved Jiang Yan very much at that time, but in the end she chose to listen to her mother's words. Obviously, it was Miss Jiang Yan who escaped the disaster.
Among the female stars in the entertainment industry, the ideal daughter-in-law that Zhu Mu once favored was Huo Siyan, but Huo Siyan directly refused, and said that she "did not want to be a man's mother".
Because of Zhu Mu's series of operations, female stars in the entertainment industry did not dare to rub sparks with Zhu Yuchen.
On the variety show "My Family's That Kid", Zhu Yuchen was very lonely, "Why is no one willing to be around me?" ”
Zhu Yuchen actually knows the reason for the mother, he also advised the mother, but "Ma Bao Male" in addition to a mother, there is also a treasure, Zhu Yuchen has become a qualified baby boy under the cultivation of Zhu Mother.
The authorities are obsessed with the onlooker Qing, and he is more willing to obey his mother than to rebel against his mother.
Mother Zhu has only a son in her heart and rarely cares about her daughter, but her daughter Zhu Beibei has been married by the fear of her influence.
Zhu's mother herself has said: "The reason why she is single is because she sees my attitude towards my son from childhood to adulthood, she said that she can't take on this responsibility, and my family knows it."
Fortunately, Zhu Yuchen's personality is still relatively good, but from the bones to agree with what her mother said, she and her sister still have a very good relationship, and the two will often play together.
Now Zhu Yuchen's news is very little, and the designer Du Nuo is suspected of being in love, and I don't know if Zhu Yuchen will agree this time.
Zhu Yuchen was actually very painful and suffocating under his mother's control, and he was also worried that he would collapse one day, and even wrote a suicide note, but he just didn't want to hurt his mother.
A big man who handles things improperly, reads so many scripts, and interprets too many different lives, how can he be confused in family affairs?
Mother Zhu also knew that she had too much control, which had caused a lot of impact on Zhu Yuchen's life, but she was used to her son as the sky. This kind of person can't change.
As a parent, reflect more on yourself, whether you have the same behavior as Mother Zhu, whether you control your children too much, and don't have the next Zhu Yuchen.