The movie "What Happened to Kevin" tells the story of Kevin's mother, who was originally a travel writer and lived a free life, but Kevin's sudden arrival overwhelmed her mother, who was not ready to accept this new life, but forced to give birth to Kevin. Kevin is rebellious and disobedient like he was born against him, but he is well-behaved and quiet in the face of his father, and his mother blames all these faults on Kevin, and Kevin becomes more and more rebellious until Kevin finally commits an unforgivable sin. A lot of people think kevin has a psychological problem with himself. And the author believes that the mother's unpreparedness and the child's rebellion eventually led to tragedy.
It was because his mother was not prepared, and Kevin and his mother were incompatible in life. Kevin's mother was originally a traveler and lived a carefree life, and she did not want to be bound by Kevin, but after giving birth to Kevin, she had to accompany Kevin every day. Kevin cried when he was a child, how can not be coaxed, so his mother let him fool around, Kevin's mother did not know how to educate Kevin, it was by his temperament, Kevin would mess things up at home every day, against his mother, but when he was with his father, he was very well-behaved and sensible. But after the mother gave birth to a sister, the mother gave all the love that Kevin did not accept to her sister, and Kevin also had a serious illness. When Kevin was exercising with his mom, he needed to get his mom's affirmation and praise, but mom just said, fine, you win. It can be seen that it is because the mother is not prepared, he and Kevin are incompatible in life, the love Kevin given by the mother cannot be accepted, and Kevin's behavior, the mother can not guide and educate her in time, so it is because the mother is not prepared, they are incompatible in life.
It was also because of Kevin's rebellion that he ended up in prison. In the film, Kevin vented his emotions to his mother, he disrupted everything, and he also threw his sister's hamster into the sewer, put chemicals where his sister could get it, causing his sister to lose sight in his left eye, he also destroyed his mother's dreams, insulted his mother, his mother told him stories every day, after he recovered, he began a rebellious life, when he grew up, his mother also chatted with him, and when his parents quarreled over Kevin's problems and divorced, he actually closed the gymnasium directly with a lock. He shot all the people inside, and finally killed his father and sister. It is not difficult to see that Kevin is a particularly rebellious person, he wants others to follow his ideas, regardless of family affection, disregard for the lives of others, young people can be killed. So it was because of Kevin's rebellion that he ended up in jail.
Overall, it was because the mother was unprepared, and Kevin's rebellion caused the final tragedy. The mother is not prepared to take care of Kevin because of his natural rebellious personality and his mother's confrontation, and he loses both.
Many times, the child's personality also depends on family education, but also on the love of parents and the living environment in which he lives. But some children are also born rebellious and need more love and companionship from mothers and fathers.