If you ask Ming Chengzu Zhu Di, are you going to kill that fat man? He nodded affirmatively, who is that fat man? It was Zhu Di's eldest son, Zhu Gaozi.
Did Zhu Di actually want to kill his fat son? When Ming Chengzu Zhu Di heard this, he was expected to nod his head violently in his heart. Fortunately, his fat prince Zhu Gaozi conquered and cracked the fat man crisis, leaving us with a tragic and happy life story of a fat emperor to entertain.
Although Ming Chengzu Zhu Di did not explicitly say it, in the years when he was emperor, he really wanted to kill the fat prince Zhu Gaozi of his family.
Zhu Di greatly disliked his eldest son, Zhu Gaozi, the eldest son, mainly because he hated Zhu Gaozi as a big fat man, disliked his kind personality and slow work, and was not at all like Zhu Di.
Therefore, Zhu Di always tried to torture his eldest son, not only sending all the capable people who assisted his fat prince to squat in prison, but also repeatedly reprimanding Zhu Gaozi in public for being unfavorable to the royal family, and the subtext was to tell the world that he was fat prince incompetent.
Zhu Di was once bent on torturing the eldest son to death, freeing up the position of crown prince for the second son who resembled zhu Di.
Zhu Gaozi certainly didn't want to be a big fat man who made his father hate. He certainly didn't want to pretend to be a grandson in front of his own father's eyes, and he couldn't bear to be a prince for more than 20 years.
I don't want to be fat either.
Because my father also hated me for being a fat man, he criticized me for three days and could not even control my mouth and body.
Because people will think I'm funny, the world will laugh mercilessly at us fat people.
I'd rather be thin, and I'm happy to try to be a skinny guy.
It's not just me who has facial anxiety.
The "2021 Chinese Young People's Appearance Anxiety Report" mentioned that 81% of girls and 64% of boys want to lose weight. Nearly 10% of young people have severe appearance anxiety. Moreover, the younger the person, the lower the evaluation of his appearance, and the higher the anxiety index.
After all, we live in an era where looks are justice, and not being beautiful and fat seems to be an original sin.
However, in real life, you think that everyone hates fat people, but in fact, it is not so serious. In fact, not all of them, but some people laugh at us fat people. This phenomenon is called the "love gap" in psychology, which means that although some people don't like you, there are also people who like you, and even like you more than you think.
Don't forget, although Ming Chengzu Zhu Di did not like his fat prince, Ming Taizu Zhu Yuanzhang liked Zhu Gaozi, a big fat grandson. Where does he like Zhu Gaozi?
When Zhu Gaozi was a child, once his grandfather Zhu Yuanzhang asked him to review the army and come back to make a report.
As a result, Zhu Gaozi not only got up late that day, but also slowly inspected the army, dragging it out again and again, and when he returned to report to his grandfather Zhu Yuanzhang, it was not too early.
His grandfather Zhu Yuanzhang was originally a little angry, but let the big fat grandson Zhu Gaozi say a word to relieve his anger.
Zhu Gaozi said that because it was too cold, he let the soldiers warm up after breakfast before accepting the inspection, so he delayed.
After listening, Zhu Yuanzhang directly praised Zhu Gaozi as a benevolent gentleman.
You see, Zhu Gaozi's fatness, in the eyes of different people, is a completely different interpretation.
In the eyes of Zhu Gaozi and his father Zhu Di, Zhu Gaozi was too fat and annoying.
In the eyes of Zhu Gaozi and his grandfather Zhu Yuanzhang, Zhu Gaozi was cute and benevolent.
Later, Zhu Gaozi won the favor of the Ming Dynasty's civilian official clique, allowing him to finally smoothly move from the crown prince to the emperor's throne. Zhu Gaozi was in danger of being the crown prince because of his fatness, and in the end, he relied on his own benevolence and the love of the civil officials to break through and become the fourth emperor of the Ming Dynasty, Ming Renzong.
When Zhu Gaozi was this fat emperor, what benefits could he bring to our contemporary fat people?
If you think about it, Zhu Gaozi pointed out a way for our fat man to live. He was a fat emperor who overcame his facial anxiety.
To overcome appearance anxiety, you can't just lose weight. After all, not everyone who loses weight can look as good as Di Lieba.
Not everyone can lose weight successfully, and the failure rate of weight loss is high. Scientific data shows that on the road to weight loss, 99% of people will rebound, and only 1% of people can maintain weight loss results.
So, we have to overcome the anxiety of appearance like Akihito Zhu Gaozi, go to those who like you to play with, and do what we want to do together. Not everyone hates us fat people, you always have a chance to find a little friend who likes you and move forward with you. Remember the existence of the phenomenon of the "love gap" in psychology. In fact, you are not as unbeautiful as you think, and others like you more than you think.