The Spring Festival is coming soon, and the children are smiling and looking forward to the New Year, because there will be many relatives in the New Year, friends will give money, and parents will also give. However, there is also a question that there is any special emphasis on giving children money, and what kind of time should be given more appropriate and reasonable?
1, can not give too much pressure money
Pressing the old age money was originally just a custom, a happy atmosphere for the New Year. If you give your children too much money, it will destroy the original good meaning, and the children may not know how to spend this money when they are young, and it will also increase the worries of parents.
2, the comparison phenomenon caused by giving pressure on the old money
There are many parents, relatives and friends between friends and relatives there may be some phenomenon of pressure on the old money comparison. If the other party gives his child 100 yuan of pressure money, in the case of face, he may give back the other child 200 yuan of pressure money, and the comparison phenomenon grows arbitrarily in this atmosphere.
3, to give in person
If you give the other party's children money, and when you give it in front of them, you seem to be very faceful and thoughtful, at least the other party is informed; if you give it in the absence of the other party, the other party may be very unhappy.
4. Say a blessing when giving
If you give your child money, you can't just give it to him, but when you give it, you must say some New Year greetings to the children, such as: growing up fast, learning and progressing, happy every day and so on.
5、. Generally speaking, girls are represented by the pressure of the old age money
In fact, when we observe others giving money to the old age, we can find that it is generally girls who give more, because girls are more cordial and gentle, easy to approach, and easy to please children.
6, the pressure of the money emission position is different
In some places, the older generation will put the money for the children under the pillow, because it is too late in the morning, the children are already asleep, and they will be surprised when they find out the next day, of course, some are given in person.
1, give the right time to press the old money
The money is generally given to the children at midnight on the first day of the New Year, that is, at twelve o'clock in the evening of the Chinese New Year's Eve, and some parents will also give it on the next day or when they go to someone else's house to visit the New Year during the Spring Festival.
2, how old should the children be given the money?
Usually, the time to press the children is different in each place, but most of them give the children the old age money before the age of 18, and they rarely give it again after the age of 18.
Although many people know that the New Year will give children money, but if the emphasis on giving money to the age is not clear, it is likely to make jokes or form a bad atmosphere, such as: give too much money to children, children may spend randomly, is not conducive to the formation of a good concept of money.
In order to better understand the exquisiteness of giving children money and the time to press the age money for children, they can learn the details through the Internet or experienced elderly people at home, and they can also ask their experience from classmates and friends.
From the above content, we can know that the emphasis on the child's old age money is quite interesting, each place is different, and the time given is different.
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