The Qing Yang of the Son, the Yan of Yang and the Face, the Man of Zhan Ru, and the Yuan of the Bang.
This sentence in the Book of Poetry describes the beauty of Xuanjiang, and uses her beauty to set off her unchasteness, she was originally a beautiful woman, both gorgeous in clothing and beautiful countenance, but she was a watery Yanghua woman, and had intimate relations with several men in Weiguo, including her father-in-law Xuangong and the eldest son Zhaobo.
Similar to Xuanjiang in the Book of Poetry, it is Zhang Zongchang's wife Yuan Shu'e, and she also communicates with the ugly and lame "Jia Lame Son".
This can not all be blamed on Yuan Shu'e's watery Yang Hua, mainly because her husband married his own sister Yuan Zhong'e, which triggered her revenge on her husband's for tat, which can be described as humiliating herself to give back to her husband and sister for their betrayal.
Therefore, after that, Zhang Zongchang especially liked women, and the number of his concubines was also counted among the warlords of the Republic of China, according to research, there were as many as 23 with names, but it was not the beginning of him, the reason may be because of the retaliatory behavior caused by the cheating of his wife Yuan Shu'e.
Long before Zhang Zongchang broke into the Guandong, he had already married a wife, that is, the original Jia family, but he and Jia shi followed the orders of their parents and the words of the matchmaker.
And Jia Shi is three years younger than Zhang Zongchang, it is also a beautiful appearance, at this time with the handsome Zhang Zongchang of one meter and eighty-five can also be regarded as a talented woman, but when Zhang Zongchang was assassinated in 1916, he himself was fine, and the original Jia Clan gave him his life, and he was only thirty-two years old when he died.
Only at this time, Zhang Zongchang still had his aunt and wife by his side, so he helped his eldest aunt Yuan Shu'e to be corrected and became a wife. Yuan Shu'e is also a beautiful woman, not only with a height of one meter and seven five, but also with a beautiful and delicate appearance.
Yuan Shu'e was only fourteen years old when she met Zhang Zongchang, although there was an original Jia family in the family, Zhang Zongchang was also very spoiled for this aunt who was as tall as a model and had a decent appearance, so the two were very affectionate after marriage.
According to records, every time Zhang Zongchang returned home, he first had to hug his aunt Yuan Shu'e. In today's era, hugging is not a big deal, but in the Republic of China, where "men and women are not intimate", this kind of intimate behavior is also a modern act, which is also known as "meeting and hugging three hugs".
Since the relationship between the two is so good, it is said that there should be no drama of others, and at this time, Yuan Shu'e is really pitied and loved by her husband, and she should be quiet with her husband and be stable in the world.
However, just when Yuan Shu'e was immersed in happiness and longing, thinking that her marriage would be sweeter than honey, her sister Yuan Zhong'e appeared.
Every marriage, in the most chaotic time, will always encounter unexpected disasters, and Yuan Shu'e is no exception, but what she did not expect was that her happy marriage was buried by her sister herself.
When Yuan Shu'e married Zhang Zongchang a few years ago, her sister was still a lively little girl, but with the "eighteen years of female college", Yuan Zhong'e also grew into a big girl a few years later.
And Yuan Zhong'e also likes to go to her sister's house, on the one hand, to see her sister Yuan Shu'e, on the other hand, she admires her handsome and rich brother-in-law. But Yuan Shu'e was completely unguarded about her sister, and in her eyes, her sister was just a little girl who had not grown up.
However, it is her "undefended" for her sister that causes her sister Yuan Zhong'e not to know when she has become intimate with Zhang Zongchang, although Yuan Zhong'e's appearance is not as good as her sister's, but she is young, and Zhang Zongchang does not refuse to "throw her arms and give hugs".
And when Yuan Shu'e found out that her sister and her husband were "wrong", she no longer let her sister come to the door, and Zhang Zongchang was also a little ashamed of his wife, always feeling that "rabbits eat nest grass" is a bit immoral, so she also thought about it.
It's just that Yuan Zhong'e is also a martyr, swearing that "non-brother-in-law will not marry", and finally forced by hunger strike, not eating for seven consecutive days, just drinking water to maintain life.
In the face of Yuan Zhong'e's fierceness, her sister Yuan Shu'e was no longer able to strongly oppose it, and Zhang Zongchang was greatly moved, so he decided to accept Yuan Zhong'e as a concubine. And Yuan Shu'e and Yuan Zhong'e's fierceness have a fight, but she did not choose to burn the jade, but chose to find an ugly and obscene man to "retaliate" against her husband.
This is quite a bit like Zhang Ailing's novel "Red Rose and White Rose", Zhenbao's wife White Rose's emotional experience of finding a lewd little tailor is also a revenge psychology that breeds because of love and hatred, and asks for and cannot be husband's love and love.
It's just that Yuan Shu'e did more excessively, not only intimate with the ugly man "Jia Lame", but also gave birth to a daughter Zhang Chunmei. If his wife is looking for a man, Zhang Zongchang can still forgive, after all, he himself is wrong first, but watching his wife have children with others, this matter finally makes him intolerable.
So Zhang Zongchang designed to catch the two and pretended to give Jia Lame Zi a shot, but only to scare him, did not hit, but from then on Jia Lame Zi and Yuan Shu'e were completely cut off.
However, even if his wife is so "excessive", Zhang Zongchang did not pursue the responsibility of his wife Yuan Shu'e, but since then Yuan Shu'e and Zhang Zongchang have become a "nominal" couple, she still enjoys the honor of the wife, and the aunts and wives at the bottom are also very respectful to her, but Yuan Shu'e has been disheartened since then.
For Yuan Shu'e, she should have had a beautiful and sweet marriage with Zhang Zongchang, but with the intervention of her sister Yuan Zhong'e, the husband and wife not only had an emotional rift, but also tore a beautiful marriage to pieces.
And Yuan Shu'e's nightmare probably began with the frequent appearance of her sister Yuan Zhong'e, if it were not for her sister's refusal to eat for seven days, if it were not for her sister's insistence on marrying, her life would have been happy and quiet.
Until she finally ate only one meal a day after Zhang Zongchang's death, she loudly complained: Zongchang, why do you want to do this? You look at what kind of day we're having today.
There is deep love, there are complaints, there are regrets, and more depressed and depressed, but the reality is so helpless, if the years can still look back, will she refuse at the beginning of her sister's frequent visits?
There are bandits, such as cutting like a knife, such as grinding.
Every woman is willing to find such a talented and virtuous Ruyi Langjun, such a married life can be described as happy, but every romantic dream will eventually be broken by reality.
It's just that everyone's sense of existence and value can't find the bearer from each other, and if there is too much hope, it will become disappointment and eventual despair.
For women, perhaps the most should pin their hopes on themselves, because everyone has two selves, one is physical, the other is the spiritual self, only by doing a good job of being alone can we find the answer to happiness.
As Socrates said: Man, know yourself.
Only by knowing yourself can you see both sides of the relationship, do yourself well, have spiritual satisfaction, and live a meaningful life, rather than treating feelings as the only belonging.
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