Jin Yong's housework: his father was killed at the age of 54, his son committed suicide at the age of 19, and he died with the waitress! Jin Yong's three marriages: the first betrayed him, the second resented him, and the third was sterilized for him!
Mr. Jin Yong, a famous writer known as a martial artist, his family life, like many of his protagonists, is also full of twists and turns - he married three wives in his life, the first betrayed because of loneliness, the second because of abandonment and resentment, the third was sterilized for reasons; in addition, his father was shot at the age of 54 because of the suspicion of banditry, and his son committed suicide at the age of 19 due to emotional exhaustion...
Mr. Jin Yong, who has created countless chivalrous beauties, and the three wives he has experienced in his life, are all beautiful as flowers, but their relationship is full of helplessness.
Jin Yong and his first wife, Du Zhifen, met in Hangzhou in 1947, when Jin Yong was working in the "Southeast Daily" and became acquainted with a colleague's friend Du Yeqiu, and under du Yeqiu's introduction, Jin Yong met Du Zhifen, a miss of the Du family. Du Zhifen, who was 17 years old at the time, and Jin Yong, 23, both fell in love. In 1948, on the eve of Jin Yong's southward journey to Hong Kong, he rushed to Hangzhou to formally propose marriage, and in the same year the two held a wedding in Shanghai. Later, Du Zhifen also went to Hong Kong, Jin Yong was busy with work and had no time to accompany her, she was lonely and bored, and she had an unpleasant life, and the feelings between the two gradually faded, so that she liked others. As a result, the two divorced, and Du Zhifen returned to the mainland.
Jin Yong's second wife, Zhu Mei, was also a journalist, beautiful and capable, knew English, and was 11 years younger than Jin Yong. Zhu Mei graduated from the University of Hong Kong, has a high level of English, and has a strong will, is a career-oriented intellectual woman who dares to fight and is fierce. The two married on May 1, 1956. In 1959, the couple co-founded Ming Pao, with Jin Yong as editor-in-chief and Zhu Mei as the only female journalist, with intense and arduous work. In the beginning, Ming Pao did not sell well and was even in danger of going out of business, and their four children were born one after another, and the situation was even more difficult, sometimes having to rely on pawn goods to survive.
At that time, because they often stayed up late and needed to refresh themselves at work, they bought a cup of coffee and drank it together. In the difficult period at the beginning of the business, Zhu Mei and Jin Yong shared hardships and made an unforgettable history of mutual encounter. When Ming Pao was quite large-scale and Jin Yong's career was successful, their marriage was rifted, and the two finally divorced after more than 20 years together.
Jin Yong's third wife is named Lin Leyi, who is beautiful and intelligent. In 1976, Jin Yong and Zhu Mei broke down, took the initiative to divorce, and married the young Lin Leyi. Lin Leyi was originally a waitress at a café, and she was only 16 years old when she met Jin Yong, nearly 30 years younger than Jin Yong.
Jin Yong's "acquaintance" with Lin Leyi stemmed from a family change. In October 1976, Jin Yong's eldest son, Zha Chuanxia, committed suicide in the United States!
Zha Chuanxia is the eldest son of Jin Yong, Zha Chuanxia is early and sensitive, and began to publish articles at the age of 11, and his essay "What is my life for" impressed the class teacher. The melancholy of his personality can be described as early revelation. In October 1976, Zha Chuanxia, who was studying in the United States, learned of his parents' divorce, which hit him greatly. In addition, because of the emotional matter and the girlfriend quarrel, for a moment can not open, so he committed suicide, only 19 years old.
Faced with the pain of losing his son, Jin Yong could not calm down, so he often went to the bar to borrow wine to dispel his sorrows, which attracted the attention of a young waitress named Lin Leyi. Lin Leyi, who was 23 years old at the time, was a loyal reader of Jin Yong, and in the face of an injured idol, Lin Leyi took the initiative to chat with him. Slowly, the two people continued to get along and interact, and the two people who were 29 years apart became friends for a long time, and finally encountered the spark of love.
Zhu Mei is a woman with a strong personality, and in order to complete the love between the old and the young, she happily agreed to divorce Jin Yong. However, Zhu Mei put forward a condition: Lin Leyi must undergo sterilization surgery before she can marry Jin Yong. Unexpectedly, Lin Leyi unexpectedly agreed without hesitation and accompanied Jin Yong through the remaining years of his life.
In fact, in Jin Yong's family life, there is another thing that hurts him, that is, not long after he went to work in Hong Kong, his father was executed by the government for "overseas relations" and "suspected banditry".
Jin Yong's real name is Zha Liangyong, a native of Haining, Zhejiang, and was born in Shuxiang mendi. His grandfather Cha Wenqing was a Qing Guangxu Chengshu Jinshi (清 Guangxu Chengshu Branch Jinshi), and because of his political achievements, he was given the same title of Zhi. His father, Zha Shuqing, also known as Zha Shuxun, was a native of YuanHua Town, Haining, Zhejiang. In 1914, Zha Shuqing and Xu Lu married. After graduating from Aurora University at the age of 22, he began to run The Dalai Qianzhuang in Haining. During the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, the Dalai Qianzhuang was destroyed by artillery fire, leaving him with no intention of doing business anymore. It was not until his later years that he regrouped and once again ran the Zha family money house, handled the business of supporting the family, and established education for the zhou dynasty. In 1937, the Japanese invaded Jiangnan, his hometown Yuan Hua was bombed tragically, Zha Shuqing and his wife fled with their entire family, and Xu Lu fell ill and died of an emergency. Three years after Xu Lu's death, Zha Shuqing remarried and married Gu Xiuying, who was 17 years younger than him.
Around 1950, the "town counter" movement was launched throughout the country. Because his son Jin Yong was in Hong Kong, Zha Shuqing was labeled "overseas relations" and examined along with the crime of illegal landlord. After January 1951, he was included in the list of "kills" because a remnant of a bandit in a neighboring village exposed that Cardinal Cha was harboring guns. Zha Shuqing was charged with resisting grain, harboring bandits, and plotting to kill cadres. In fact, "anti-grain" is a fallacy. When the government collected grain, because the grain was in the hands of the sharecroppers, the sharecroppers themselves handed it over, and the grain paid by the Cha family was less. "Harboring bandits and guns" refers to the fact that his wife Gu Xiuying's former brother, who was a bandit, hid a pistol in the grain depot in his sister's backyard for several days, which Zha Shuqing and his wife did not know at the time. Unexpectedly, Gu Xiuying's younger brother inadvertently leaked this matter again. On April 26, 1951, Cardinal Zha was shot. It was not until 1981 that the "Cha Cardinal Case" was rehabilitated.
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