Wen | Forint Mommy
Nowadays, with the gradual superiority of material conditions, parents raise their children more and more delicately, especially for boys, without the spirit of hard-working, most of them show indecisive, timid and cowardly temperament.
Some boys lack self-confidence, speak in a particularly small voice, and even some children have a strong girlishness, I would like to ask as a boy, where does the masculinity go?
It is not easy to cultivate a boy with manhood and charm, so parents must be a good guide in the growth of their children, so that the little boy in the family can become a little man as soon as possible.
First, do not spoil the child too much
First of all, parents raising children must not spoil their children, especially raising boys, but also learn to let go and let the children grow on their own. Boys must have a self-reliant personality, otherwise they will easily become "nibbling old people" when they grow up.
Boys who grew up "spoiled" by their parents are prone to show withdrawal, fear and other phenomena in the face of setbacks, after all, the wind and waves have not been experienced, how to talk about sailing away.
Second, learn to let children solve problems on their own
It is normal for boys to have friction with their peers, but often some parents will indiscriminately order their children to scold or fight back when they hear that their children are being bullied.
As everyone knows, this kind of education method is already affecting children's interpersonal communication patterns. Since it is a conflict between children's interpersonal relationships, it depends on what kind of solution the child is willing to take, not what kind of solution he asks the child to take.
Third, appropriately let the child suffer some setbacks
Do not experience the wind and rain how to see the rainbow, the road to growth can not always be smooth, in order to become a man who stands tall in the future, first of all, we must cultivate the courage of children to accept setbacks.
Secondly, what needs to be done is to let the child grow in setbacks, setbacks are not stumbling blocks, only by correctly looking at setbacks, it will help children's growth.
Fourth, cultivate a sense of responsibility
The cultivation of a sense of responsibility is closely related to the parents' way of education. The reason why many adult men do not have a sense of responsibility and evade responsibility is because their parents lack this training when they are young.
The sense of responsibility of boys must be cultivated from an early age. In daily life, let the child help carry garbage and repair home appliances, so that he is taking on his own responsibilities.
If there is a boy in the family, his parents must cultivate him as a man, and it is always pampered and not conducive to the cultivation of strong, brave and other qualities. So parents hurry up, I believe that through your exemplary role, as well as the tempering of children, your little baby will become a warm and brave little man in the future!