In the year of the Mandate of Heaven, I always wanted to "follow the heavens to nourish my life". After dinner, there is the habit of walking around. One, go with the flow. And then, when you extend your life.
At dusk, the wind is cold. I hope that I can spend more time loving my children for the rest of my life, and I will continue to practice against the wind. Strong smooth "machine", sharpen the will!
Circle walk route, from the Meteorological Bureau, go with your heart. Jiaxiu Building is the scenery, nanming river side road is the way, and finally return to the meteorological bureau.
Freezing rain is falling, the road is slippery and wet, three or two pedestrians, slowly walking sideways. In the corner of the road, there are three women and two men, and they are surrounding a small boy. Compared to the five young adults, the little boy was indeed small enough. The two sides look at each other, just by momentum alone, it seems that the two sides are not much different.
The boy was the same size as my own child, so he was more curious and cared. After a moment's pause, the three women counted the boys without stopping. The two men glared at each other, but they also said little. The little boy was stubborn, holding his school bag, looking directly at his opponent, and was not afraid of humiliation.
Lao Tzu Tao Te Ching
The three women sounded like little boys' aunts and aunts. Two men, one seems to be the male stepfather, and the other seems to be the male uncle. Therefore, the wind is freezing, and the "bitter mouth" scolds the little boy. It turned out that the little boy was stubborn in the evening nursery, and when cleaning, he used a broom to dance, which hurt the eyes of his classmates. Things should not be too big, the adults just forced the child to admit his mistake and be soft. At the same time, he tried his best to let the child know that he would have to pay for the injured classmate to see a doctor. It seems that spending money is the point. It's just that the little boy can spend money. Therefore, when money is mentioned, the child is full of disdain, and regards money as cold as dung. Little children, who understand the rarity of money, and he can't talk about it at all.
Vaguely know the origin of the matter, since it is a family affair, it is inconvenient for others to watch. From a reasonable distance, watching the "hilarity" from a distance. Only for the sake of the stubborn child, I have a premonition that he will be beaten for fighting. Stay and watch, just to try to stop the adults who may be embarrassed and angry at the critical time.
Sure enough, with the baby "I'm not wrong, I didn't mean it!" "You're not my dad, you can't control me"... As soon as the voice of resistance began, the uncle kicked up, and the "non-father" slapped him in the face with a few slaps... "I'm just right, I don't want you to care", the child cried out with tears in his heart, and the three women also began to insult without shame. Just when I wanted to go forward, a woman who looked like a teacher preemptively "fought" out, "You can't educate your child like this, let alone beat him like this." It seems that the woman should be the child's evening nursery teacher. The three women and two men converged, and the child, who had been stubborn and tearless, also shed tears in her eyes and looked at the teacher.
The teacher came forward, the adults were silent, and the children stopped speaking. Come to think of it, things should be fine. Other people's family affairs, what to do with me, there is no bustle, should also go with peace of mind.
Hilariously watched for three or five days, worried about the stubborn little boy. In the face of the five fierce gods, he still did not repent. Admire his bravery, but also pity his "ignorance". The consciousness of the child, the ignorance of innocence, the scratching of the broom, the inadvertent transgression, the adult should not force himself to admit his mistake, let alone mention money. Isn't he better than the two of them? The consciousness of adults, children make mistakes, that is, they should be punished, and whether they have the heart or the heart is wrong, and even if they lose money. The two-compartment comparison seems to be good.
Children playing in the water
With the heart of my child, the meaning of a little boy at that time. Wrong is wrong, it is an unintentional mistake, it cannot be associated with money, and it cannot be extremely humiliating. Although the boy is small, he is also a boy, even if he breaks a little wealth, it is nothing more than a little wealth. Moreover, one stepfather, four relatives, love and care. If you have something to say, you will also obey the discipline. Adults mean, usually you eat and drink well, and do your best to serve. If you don't listen to the "teachings", beating you is only the first step, and then you don't give food or money, and what you have is the way.
Adults are not afraid, boys are not afraid. Boys should not know, the difference between relatives and relatives. The only thing you can do to fight against adults is the love of your biological parents. And he did not have it at that time, but he still made undaunted arguments and resistance. But the adults are arrogant to the advantages of money, and they have the advantage of height and horse. Small children can't clean up, and it is of course that they are ashamed and angry. The child's struggle is meaningless, and the result should be clear.
Jia Xiu Building
A small incident of a small child is as small as a stubborn child. Shouldn't have been, on the street, fists and feet combined, extremely reproachful. Come to think of it, it should be attributed to the child's true nature, and the adult is brutal. The boy's stubbornness should not have been taken for granted. It should be like a weed, beaten by many winds and rains, but it is tenacious and tenacious. With their own ignorance and fearlessness, they fight against the ignorance and arbitrariness of the adults. Who dares to say, young and ignorant, who dares not say, old and arrogant.
Boys, red faces in the cold wind, tearful eyes, wretched heads, crazy screams... He just wanted to express his grievances, his grievances. And I, watching his untamedness, wanted to express something to him, but it was finally difficult to say...
After a few days, I still remember that little face. I hope that when he grows up, he will be able to know: everything, different angles, right or wrong are uncertain! Stand in each other's shoes, be quiet, think about it. Yes or no! The relatives of those little boys should know this simple truth even more.
Don't ask for right or wrong, just right!