Text | Zhou Guoping · Anchor | Anthony
Excerpt from "May Life Be Calm"
If a young woman came to me and asked me what youth could not miss, and asked me to name ten things that must be done, I would probably list them like this:
First, at least once, up to two times. Not once, but not to live up to youth. But true love is not easy, more than twice, there is a suspicion of fakes.
Second, make a number of good friends, can be close friends in the boudoir, can also be a confidant of the opposite sex.
Third, learn to cook, can cook a few good dishes. What is important is not the craft itself, but the taste of daily life.
Fourth, once a year, a small trip, every few years a big trip, to increase insight, broaden the mind.
Fifth, exercise, it is best to have a sports that you like and can persevere.
Strive for a good education, proficiency in a professional knowledge or skill, and master the ability to maintain survival. Try to choose a career according to your own interests. If you can't do it, treat your job with professionalism and develop your interests in your spare time.
Seventh, develop a high-grade reading hobby, read a batch of good books, and find your own book confidant.
Like at least one art, music, dance, painting, you can create and participate in it yourself, or you can just appreciate it.
9. Develop the habit of writing a diary. It can help you learn to enjoy solitude and talk to yourself in solitude.
Ten, experience a major setback without being defeated. As long as you don't get defeated, you'll become many times stronger than you used to be. Without going through this, you won't know how powerful you actually are.
After opening this list, I will talk about my guiding ideology.
My guiding principle is simple, the first is happiness. Youth is the most vigorous period of life, and happiness is natural.
I hate the kind of preaching the most, what "young and strong do not work hard, the old man is sad", what "eat bitterly, only to be a superior person", as if the whole value of youth lies in the struggle for future success.
Of all the patterns of life, sacrificing the present for the sake of the future is the worst, pushing happiness backward forever and actually canceling it.
People have only one youth, and to enjoy youth, it can only be in adolescence. There are some enjoyments, and it is true that there can be after puberty, but the taste is different.
For example, people can still fall in love in middle age, but in the end, they reduce the freshness and passion. The same is travel, with the curiosity, sensitivity and energy of youth, you can also achieve the harvest that is not easy for middle-aged and elderly people.
Synopsis
Zhou Guoping wrote a life practice book for urban youth. Only when the heart is full can we calmly resist all the uneasiness and restlessness in the world.
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Zhou Guoping, a famous scholar, writer and philosophical researcher in contemporary China, has representative works such as "Man and Eternity", "Zhou Guoping's Philosophy of Life", "The Distance of Watching" and so on. This article is excerpted from "May Life Be Calm", and ten point reading is published with the permission of the publishing house.
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