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What kind of homeschooling is successful? This is a question that is difficult to give exact criteria.
But if the child is kind, caring for others, concerned about society, and sunny and positive, then it means that the parents' education must be positive and very successful.
A kind and cultured child is a business card of his parents, and the qualities he shows are the most direct guarantee of educational achievements.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" > little boy take the initiative to clear the blind road</h1>
The video is actually very simple, after the little boy and his mother arrived at the destination on a shared bicycle, the mother just parked the car in the parking area, and the little boy jumped out of the car and rushed to the bicycle parked on the blind lane line next to him.
Then we can see that this little boy, who is only a little taller than the bicycle, actively and laboriously removes the bicycle on the blind alley, and we can see that he is even struggling with his hair.
The boy's mother said that she often told her children that blind passages are important to visually impaired people and cannot be occupied for any reason.
Perhaps it is this sentence that makes the little boy consciously take the initiative to move the car, which is a show of hands for many people, but it is indeed not easy for the little boy, and this can just prove his rarity.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="39" > blind lanes – the lifeblood of visually impaired people</h1>
Blind alleys are everywhere, but visually impaired people are rare on the road these days.
Is the blind alley still important? Of course it matters. Remember some time ago, a video of a blind child crouching on the ground and touching the blind passage? How many people have seen it have been sad and tearful.
There is also a visually impaired little girl who carries a school bag to school every day, and her mother silently follows her every day to guard her, which makes many people sigh.
In fact, there are many visually impaired people around us, and the reason why we see them less and less on the road is because they have to learn to avoid more and more motor vehicles if they want to go out, and they also need to learn to bypass the various obstacles that appear on blind alleys.
Therefore, for the sake of safety, reducing travel may be the best way.
However, for the sake of the temporary convenience of healthy people, we cannot arbitrarily squeeze the only "lifeline" of the visually impaired when traveling.
The little boy took the initiative to remove the bicycle on the blind road, which was even more precious, and his kindness and love were worthy of the pride of his parents.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="40" > please teach children kindness</h1>
The best education parents give their children is to teach him kindness, has your family's education done it?
Don't fantasize that children can be self-taught in this subject, and don't push the responsibility of education to teachers and schools, know that parents are the best teachers for children, and children are a mirror for you.
First of all, parents should lead by example and be the best role models for their children.
In real life, the adult world is indeed much more complicated than that of children, full of scheming and scheming, but this is not contradictory to being a kind person.
In the process of interacting with people, parents should take kindness as the premise when they are involved in various human feelings.
In the conversation between husband and wife, we should also try to avoid words involving conspiracies and tricks, so that children can always receive positive energy from their parents.
Second, take more children to feel, especially emotionally.
Many parents pay attention to preaching to their children, but rarely take them to feel certain things more truly and intuitively, which is actually a long way to go far.
Parents can take their children to institutions such as nursing homes and orphanages to visit people in need of help, let children see their living conditions with their own eyes, and help them in person.
This sense-touching spiritual shock and the sense of self-affirmation and satisfaction that comes from helping others with their own hands will make children realize first-hand the importance of kindness and love.
These two important qualities not only help others, but also reflect self-worth.
Finally, guiding children to broaden their horizons is the most valuable asset.
Chinese often say that "reading ten thousand books travels thousands of miles", this is because in the process of reading and walking, we can broaden our horizons. When the horizon is broader, the perspective of people's thinking will be broader, and the understanding of the world will become more profound.
Therefore, the words social responsibility, responsibility, and dedication not only stay in their thoughts, but also reflect in their actions.
People with a sense of social responsibility will have a more responsible spirit in doing anything, and at the same time know how to dedicate their own strength to society and others.
When you are accustomed to carrying social responsibility on your shoulders, willing to dedicate, helpful, kindness and love have long been internalized and externalized in your heart, your child has grown into a useful pillar of society.