Everyone has had a crush on someone to a greater or lesser degree in their lives, but most of them either disappear like snowflakes or end up being reduced to spare tires. Like the story of Sheng Huainan and Luo Yu's long-term crush and finally becoming a couple in the TV series "Crush on Orange Sheng Huainan", it rarely happens in reality.
01 Inferiority type
One of the reasons why a crush has become a spare tire is inferiority. Many people face the people they like, unconsciously begin to inferiority, see the people they like the natural anger field weakened, the feeling is that as soon as they meet, they feel inferior. It is said that men and women fall in love, either the east wind overwhelms the west wind, or the west wind overwhelms the east wind. Once you meet, you don't have confidence how to attract girls' likes, in the long run, girls' impression of you is getting worse and worse, and you will become less and less confident, resulting in a vicious circle.
Under normal circumstances, the crush of such a person cannot stir up a little ripple, quietly come, and eventually disappear silently. Inferiority a lot of times stems from their own lack of self-confidence, many times, not at all their own bad, but self-denial too much, in fact, in reality, who has better than whom, the elite is not such a small poke, most people are ordinary people, who is worse than whom.
02 Silent dedication type
There is also a kind of person, that is, the silent dedication type. Such people often only silently dedicate, silently pay, and do not ask for returns. He would accompany the person he liked in the name of a good friend, coax her when she was unhappy, and comfort her when she was in love, but he would not express his love. The end result is to be issued a good guy card. The man who got the good guy card had to have a smile on his face and probably tears in his heart. There is no way to lose love and you can't lose your image.
03 Good brother type
To say that the saddest kind of crush is that I want to soak you, but you treat me as a girlfriend. Many times we are very envious of the kind of love of the green plum bamboo horse, but the green plum bamboo horse may not only lead to love, but also may lead to the emergence of a good girlfriend, at this time you really want to cry without tears, feel closest to her, but also feel the farthest from her, the so-called most painful thing in the world, not that I stand in front of you and you do not know that I love you, but you know that I love you, but you treat me as a girlfriend.
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