Parents most want to see that children can grow up healthily, but some children are not very lucky, they have physical problems for some reasons, and thus become a "special group" in the eyes of others, in the face of such children, parents must encourage more support, and must not give up on them.
Speaking of Hou Xiang, many people may feel that they don't know, but after seeing this person, they will understand who he is. He often appears on various screens and plays mostly child roles.
Many people mistakenly think that he is a "child star", but in fact, Hou Xiang has already reached adulthood. Because of the disease, he stopped developing at the age of 9, and since then, his appearance has been like a child, until the age of 36, when he was still playing someone else's son.
In the process of Hou Xiang's growth, he has also been ridiculed countless times, but he has come over under the cultivation and encouragement of his parents, and now although his career is not very popular, he is not bad, and he also has his own wife.
His wife is beautiful and generous, and she is also very tolerant and considerate of Hou Xiang, and she does not care too much about her husband's height, and quipped: Others always think that he is my son, but I don't care.
I have to say that although Hou Xiang's life has experienced some twists and turns, he has always been lucky, even if there is a physical problem, but fortunately, there is still the support of his family, which has everything now.
In fact, in reality, many children have some defects, and therefore they are ridiculed, if parents do not take the right way to treat and deal with, it is easy for children to have more problems.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > so what are the problems with children who are defective? </h1>
1. Psychology
Defective children in the face of others, it is easy to become the object of ridicule, which will cause great harm to their hearts, lead to inferiority complex, serious will also cause a series of problems in the child's psychology, such as depression, autism and so on.
2. Personality
Because of the long-term ridicule, children may become more and more taciturn, dare not go out, over time, the child's personality will also undergo a huge change, become introverted and cowardly, and there may be problems such as personality disorders.
Therefore, such children need more care and protection, and parents must treat them correctly.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > in the face of defective children, parents must do the following:</h1>
First, don't spoil your children
Some parents feel that their children are very distressed about their defects, and out of compensation psychology, they are very doting on their children, always responding to their needs, thinking that this is good for their children. But in fact, coddling children will lead to more problems in children, such as willfulness, rebellion, inability to take care of themselves, etc., which is harmful to children and not beneficial.
Therefore, parents must be careful not to spoil their children, which is completely different from loving.
Second, accompany and encourage more
Defective children may be more fragile and sensitive in their hearts, they are eager for more people's care and love, parents should usually accompany their children more, let them feel the love of their parents, and give children more strength to grow up.
At the same time, we must also encourage children to face others positively and bravely, so that they understand that no matter what happens, their parents will always be their backing.
Third, cultivate a skill
Parents always have the day of aging, it is impossible to accompany the child all the time, for the sake of the child's future considerations, parents must cultivate their children to have a skill.
You can start with your child's hobbies and interests and let your child learn a skill that not only diverts your child's grief, but also allows them to be independent and self-reliant, even if their parents are gone.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > white fox baba message:</h1>
Every child is a gift from Heaven, since parents bring their children to this world, no matter how the child is, they should take on their own responsibilities, strive to raise their children well, let them grow up, even if the children are defective, parents must not abandon or give up, so that they are truly qualified parents.