In order to celebrate Jiang Defu's 80th birthday, Anjie did not eat dinner. I have been sitting in the living room and staying up late knitting sweaters, how can a flower not be knitted well, Knitting and weaving fainted, sent to the hospital unconscious.
On the day that Anjie fainted, the only family members present were Jiang Defu, Jiang Yafei, Wang Haiyang, and Jiang Weimin. A group of people accompanied Jiang Defu to wait for the result.
Anjie is out of danger but still unconscious, and no one knows when he will wake up. During Anjie's coma, Jiang Yaning and Jiang Weidong rushed back to take care of their mother, and Jiang Dehua also ran to the ward to visit his sister-in-law.
From beginning to end, Anjie's mother's family did not appear, which is actually very unreasonable. Because Anjie is kind to her mother's family. Her marriage not only made her life comfortable, but also helped her niece to find a good future.
It is understandable that Antai did not appear when Anjie was critically ill, but Anxin should not, because Anxin is the kindest, most grateful, and most big-picture woman in the whole play.
At first, I didn't understand why An Xin, who was deeply in love with sisters, had not come to visit her sister until The An Zhi Yuan. 7 years later, I watched "Parental Love": I had an epiphany that Anjie was old, why was he deliberately estranged from An Xin?
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" data-track="7" > brotherhood</h1>
Among the 3 sisters of the An family, Anjie and Anxin walked closest. After the fall of the An family, the brother married the "daughter of the landlord's family", although the sister-in-law was superficially considerate of decency, but it still made the sisters feel like they were under the fence.
In the days before he married, An Xin was Anjie's only reliance on his mother's family. Her brother and sister-in-law were the ones who arranged for her, and only her sister was the confidant who was willing to help her solve her problems.
As a former "capitalist lady", An Xin will take the initiative to clean up after eating, while Anjie can go upstairs to make a cup of coffee and read a novel.
In that era, girls did not have to do housework at home, purely because someone spoiled her, that person was not Antai, but her sister Anxin.
After Anjie was arranged to go on a blind date with Jiang Defu, her brother and sister-in-law advised her to accept people, even if they were big bosses. Only An Xin put herself in her sister's shoes and thought about whether the two were suitable or not.
The dowry quilt when An Ming was married was sewn by An Xin himself, and this sisterhood was touching.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="02" data-track="14" > marrying someone is like changing your life</h1>
As the old saying goes, "the eldest sister-in-law is like a mother", but in the An family, it is "the eldest sister is like a mother".
Anxin's knowledge is above Anjie's, and his work is more decent than Anjie's. But what makes the two sisters open the gap is not themselves, but the men they marry: Ouyang Yi and Jiang Defu.
An Xin married Ouyang Yi because of love, almost the original family, almost the same knowledge and talk. Before Ouyang Yi fell, An Xin's elegance and beauty.
But with Ouyang Yi's downfall, An Xin quit her job in the city and followed her husband to the island, and an intellectual woman became a noodle presser. An Xin's life situation plummeted.
On the other hand, Anjie, since marrying Jiang Defu, has completely got rid of the entanglement of the original family. From a girl who was ridiculed in the factory, she became a lady and was respected everywhere she went.
The estrangement of the sisters is happening quietly.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="03" data-track="21" > why is Anjie deliberately estranged from Anxin? </h1>
The estrangement of the sisters was by no means overnight, in fact, it gradually became apparent since An Xin moved to the island. An Xin knew that his situation deliberately did not contact Xiao Mei, but Anjie was really worried that Ouyang Yi's affair would affect Jiang Defu, and Anjie was selfish in his bones.
Anjie asks Anxin to take care of her confinement, and Anxin takes care of all the cooking and cleaning work at home, but when Anjie praises Anxin for speaking well, Anjie says: "This is the way the servants of the big families talk." ”
An Xin heard it outside the door, and at night An Xin accompanied An Jie to rest, and An Jie asked An Xin how he had lived in the past few years. An Xin lowered his head and smiled bitterly, not wanting to say much, but Anjie accused his sister: "How have you changed, this rebellious and obedient look, I can't get used to it." ”
Anxin only lived in Anjie's house for a month, but he was poked in the heart several times by Anjie.
An Xin's situation was clear at a glance, and he never bothered Jiang Defu. But Anjie always treats her with a condescending look, and her siblings insist on showing a superior appearance, which is not as good as Dehua's treatment of Anxin.
Anjie has always had a great sense of superiority in front of An Xin, but in Ouyang Yi An xin's later years, he returned to Xiaohei Island. Anjie looked at the bunch of people in front of him holding up the bunting flag and shouting: "Welcome Teacher Ouyang, welcome Teacher An!" ”
Anjie was jealous at that time, because the degree of respect of An Xin and Ouyang Yi was unexpected. This kind of cultural respect is something that Jiang Defu cannot give her.
Both Anjie and Anxin are old, and Anxin chooses to return to the city to live. Anjie and Jiang Defu went to travel to borrow to stay at their sister's house, and they stayed for one night, and Anjie picked faults in the house: the room was small, the living room was small, and the toilet was small.
Anshin is more literate than Anjie, so she knows what everyone thinks of her, but she never thinks or complains.
After watching "Parental Love" 7 years later, I really understood the feelings of the sisters.
Different situations, different husbands, different experiences... The two have long since drifted apart. The sisterhood gradually fades, and Anjie, who only cares about the small family, thinks in his bones that his marriage has taken advantage of his mother's family.
Happy and happy, she no longer needs the help of her mother's family. Older siblings are relatives who only occasionally think about them. Anjie's children are also unfamiliar with the An family, and the relationship between the Jiang family and the An family has long since faded.
Anjie is conceited from beginning to end, and "beautiful but not kind" is Jiang Defu's evaluation of her. Knowing how to go with the flow is her "advantage", and she values bread more in front of reality.
But An Xin is not, let the years grind, she ran away for half a life, and returned to be the elegant girl who opened her mouth to "cook smoke".
7 years ago, I liked Anjie's sunny life, and now I understand that all her beautiful appearances are someone carrying the weight for her.
An Xin, on the other hand, has always been "self-absorbed in poetry and books", and has always respected and accompanied her husband who is in distress. An Xin is like the existence of "bitter tea light fragrance", and her calmness, generosity and modesty are more worth learning.