When family affection is facing a severe test, where to go, whether to choose blood or choose to accompany the affection, this is a choice of life, but also a condemnation of conscience.
Hello everyone, I am a full of vitality maple leaf flying, welcome to my book exchange meeting as a guest. A good book is like a ship that leads us from a shallow harbor to a vast ocean of life.
The "Father As Son" that I want to share today is closely related to the topic discussed above.
"Like Father Like Son" is a parent-child film directed by the famous Japanese director Hirokazu Kore-eda, who also published the novel of the same name, which won the Grand Jury Prize at the 66th Cannes Film Festival.
It tells the story of a middle-class family who suddenly learns that their son, who has been raising for 6 years, was mistakenly held at birth and fell into a family ethical dilemma.
Focusing on the survival and fate of small people, we will portray a deeper human emotional test from a small point of view.
Lost children occur in the world, sometimes because of poverty, sometimes because of accidents, "Like Father Like Son" is because the hospital nurse's "carelessness" caused two families to mistakenly hug each other's children, which is not intentional, but put forward a severe test for two families, whether family affection can withstand long-term companionship, test the determination and wisdom of the father, and also determine how the two families will face life.
This is a warm film, and naturally there will not be a bad ending at the end of the story. Many seem to understand the feelings between children and themselves and how to love children as a father. What about the fathers in reality? Do you understand how to be a father who is popular with your children?
The image of Many is almost a representative of the Japanese elite. He can be called excellent in every way, perhaps because he is too strict and self-disciplined so that both his parents and the children he has raised seem to be not very close to him, and always seem to be missing something. In the book, we see a strong father who is strict with his children, and the warmth may be there but should only be hidden in the heart, never showing a single trace.
Holding the wrong child will naturally cause pain to the family involved, but this is not what the author wants to show in the book. Rather, it is through this incident that a kind of family-related thinking is triggered. I believe that as a father loves his children (whether biological or nurturing), he wants to give them the best and hopes that they will become the best. But often what adults want to give to children is not what children want. Compared to such an elite person as Ryodo, the other father, Xiongda, is just a vulgar little person, and his performance when he first appears in the book is even a bit annoying. However, as the story progressed, I felt his cuteness more and more, and even in the end, his image was still a little tall. He is also a father who loves his children. His love is different from many, perhaps materially can not give a lot to the children, but he has the best love for the children. That love is called "companionship", companionship is the longest confession of affection, and guardianship is the most silent companionship.
I still remember the panic and joy of my new motherhood, every night I woke up from my dream, sweating and struggling to look at the child, touching her little face is still warm, probing her sniffles is still regular, and then lying down and closing her eyes with peace of mind.
Children will evoke unimaginable love in our hearts, but they will also stimulate the dark side of our personality and awaken some of our negative instincts, such as irritability, anger, control, and so on. Nothing tests our abilities like parenting.
If you were a parent, as a parent of both parties, how would you choose between blood and affection? You are welcome to leave a message in the comments section. I am full of vitality of the maple leaf flying, accompany you to enjoy the good drama and read good books, share more dry goods, please pay attention to me for my praise, thank you, see you in the next issue!