A good book worth savoring, a good book for the collision of Chinese and Western cultures, a good book for educating sons and mothers, and a good book for individuals to carry out self-cultivation.
This is an extremely sincere book. There is no preaching, no covering, two true souls appealing sincerely. The 36 family letters present the collision of the hearts of the two generations of mother and son and the influence of different cultures in China and the West on the individual ideology. Mother and son enter each other's lives, worlds and hearts in the form of letters, and the two generations of foreign countries have crossed the clash of Chinese and Western cultures and values, and frankly communicated, understood and tolerated each other, from strangers to friends.
The book consists of 36 family letters written by mother and son, and by reading this book, you can see more clearly the differences in the way of thinking and lifestyle of the two generations.
The communication of letters has a soul, because you can feel the emotions and attitudes of the writer, not just dry words.
The whole book is in the form of letters, and the friendship and temperature of the words are scattered from time to time. The child is spontaneous, energetic, confused, like a buffalo sucking enough water from the stream, greeting the morning sun. The mother is gentle, communicative, calm, willing to be only an occasional water bird, watching from a distance.
It is a mother-child dialogue that explores deep topics of independence and freedom, culture and conflict, maternal love and escape, and is thoughtful, emotional and readable.
Everyone's life is a practice, but don't forget to bring your loved ones with you.
Long Yingtai and her German husband were separated, taking her youngest son Philip in Hong Kong, while Andre and his father were in Germany, when the eighteen-year-old André, who was one meter and eighty-four, said to her: "No, I am not your An'an, I am me", the mother's heart was broken, she felt that she and her son were gradually drifting away, André felt that there was an invisible wall between her and her son: "Where is my lovely An'an?" She felt that her son "loved" her but did not "like" her. They are two generations, with an age difference of thirty years; they are also two people, with eastern and western cultures in the middle. It doesn't matter if she loses her little boy Ann, but she must know andy, a college student. So mother and son spent three years communicating with each other. In this way, they entered each other's lives, worlds, and hearts in the form of letters.
Long Yingtai could not write German, Andrei could not write Chinese, and the letters were completed in English and translated into Chinese.
The mother has experienced life experience, the words between the lines reflected in the simple, rigorous, erudite, realistic, serious; the son in the process of the gradual formation of the three views and the mother slowly and passively communicate, forming a sharp contrast, the generation gap between the two generations are melted between the words in the process of communication, so that empathy, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, leaving a heavy color for the son's youth!
The so-called father-daughter mother-son relationship only means that your fate with him is that in this life and this life, you are constantly watching his back drift away. You stand at this end of the path, watching him fade away where the path turns, and, silently telling you with his back: No need to chase.
Letter after letter, a colorful topic, three years of uninterrupted emotional exchanges, as she said, "The future journey of life, of course, is still to drift apart - where is the eternal life in life?" But after three years of sea flags, like the stars staring at each other, like the moonlight, what else can I ask for? "If you have such three years, you can talk to your favorite family members about the most sincere ideas without hesitation, how can you not let people steal the fun?" 」
Letter after letter conveys the emotions of two generations, back and forth, ushering in a greater understanding and closer relationship between the two hearts.
The entanglement of family affection is not only the touch of the moment, but also the inevitable journey of gradually drifting away, may love not be frozen in the silence of years and months.
Based on understanding and inclusive love can be eternal, parents are sometimes children, we need to coax attention and give affirmation, praise, and children are sometimes an adult, need parents to listen, let him fly high, and respect and understanding, truly happy parent-child relationship, need both sides to cultivate carefully, can not be lazy, unilateral watering can not produce sweet and full fruit, it must be bitter and dry, if you have not found the correct positive communication with parents, you may wish to read this book, It may give you some inspiration.
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This is a book for two generations to read together, although each of us grew up in a different environment, but we all sat on the "childish - mature" train, all the way along.
The best education is "Children you take your time", the most honest communication is called "Dear Andrei", and the most touching family affection is "Eye Sending" (which combines three family works into "Three Books of Life").
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Some people say that "Seeing" is a life and death note, writing about the death of the father, the old age of the mother, the departure of the son, the concern of friends and the hand in hand of brothers; writing about failure and vulnerability, loss and letting go.
"Child, you take your time" is an observation diary, writing about the growth of the child, the play of the brothers, the playfulness of the partners, the joy of the mother; writing about recklessness and childishness, helplessness and worry.
"Dear Andrei" is a growth manual, writing about the confusion of boys, the collision of youth, the hopes of mothers, the mutual hatred of mothers and children; writing about confusion and faith, weakness and hope.
Everyone's life will have ups and downs, maybe a trilogy, maybe a quadrilogy, maybe the melody of each track may be filled with joy and sweetness, or it may be intertwined with pain and sadness.