The other day I saw a fashion blogger post a photo of Katie Helms saying she had been wearing this Max Mara teddy bear jacket all winter, and that it was last year's.
Ordinary people wear last year's clothes is normal, but for the stars who have been in the entertainment industry, wearing the season will be ridiculed, and everyone for Katie, the comments are praising her as a good mother, cheering her up and cheering.
Katie desperately divorced Tom Cruise in 2012 for the same reasons as Nicole Kidman, because she couldn't stand the Scientology (also translated as Scientology) that Tom Cruise trusted.
Katie. Helms' only appeal at the time was to have custody of her daughter Suri, and nothing else mattered, she just wanted to escape as soon as possible.
This seems to be similar to the situation when Nicole got the divorce agreement signed by Tom Cruise and jumped up happily.
Paparazzi had been following Nicole Kidman and took this ecstatic photo of what kind of marriage could make a woman so relieved after leaving, as if she had finally escaped from the tiger's mouth.
Tom Cruise's first wife was Mimi Rogers, it was Rogers who let Uncle Atang into the Church of Scientology, according to the mainstream version is that Tom Cruise was not well-off when he was a child, his father was an engineer, he often changed jobs, every time he changed jobs, he had to move once, change schools, and his childhood is said to have changed more than a dozen schools. The relationship between his parents was also not good, his father was also abusive, and when he was 12 years old, his parents divorced, and his mother raised him and his sister alone.
This kind of growing up had a considerable impact on Tom Cruise, and he was diagnosed with dyslexia at the age of seven, and today, there are specialized institutions and schools that can help children guide and correct them in childhood, and most children can get considerable improvement. But Shuai Tang's family situation at that time was definitely not able to provide this condition.
After meeting Mimi Rogers, he joined the Church of Scientology. He received a psychological diagnosis from Scientology, and miraculously his dyslexia was cured, so he believed in Scientology and became the most loyal member of Scientology.
And Scientology also made Tom Cruise the golden sign of Scientology, responding to Tom Cruise's needs, and Tom Cruise's status in Scientology is like a prince. Once Tom Cruise happened to say that he dreamed that there was a lush wildflower around the house, and he thought it was beautiful. The next night, the bishop sent someone to quietly plant a large flower in Tom Cruise's yard.
This Scientology, although it is a legal tax-exempt religion in the United States, has been controversial.
Scientology was founded in 1952 by a science fiction writer, Ron Hubbard, who used some of the concepts of psychoanalysis and borrowed a little bit of Buddhist reincarnation to create his own set of so-called psychics.
The purification process they propose is that there is a special auditor to use an electrical skin response measuring instrument, called an electronic psychometric instrument, to detect areas of mental pain. The so-called psychic process begins with the inspector repeatedly asking questions to the subject, and then measuring the changes in the body's resistance according to the measuring instrument to find the potential evil product. After several conversations, until the inspector is convinced that the evil accumulation has left the reaction heart, the memory has been rearranged to the analytical mind, the evil accumulation is eliminated, and the person is "purified."
In fact, many people can understand what kind of organization it is when they see it, and the subject must sign a legal exemption before receiving these psychological treatments, guaranteeing that they will never sue. And, during the conversation, they repeatedly asked the subjects: What have you ever done to shame your mother? Subjects can't lie because your body's reactions to emotional ups and downs are recorded by electronic measuring instruments.
When you tell the truth about the secret you are hiding in your heart, it will be recorded in writing, and perhaps it will later become evidence that they threaten you.
So, that's the real reason why Nicole Kimand and Katie Helms decided to divorce Shuai Tang.
They were all attracted to the man's handsomeness, handsomeness, and enthusiasm, and for Katie, Tom Cruise was her teenage idol, and once her room had a handsome picture of Tom Cruise in Top Gun. Being able to fall in love and marry your idol is a plot that countless young girls have appeared in their dreams, and no girl can resist it.
What's more, Tom Cruise was indeed in love at the beginning, and on Oprah's talk show, he did not hide his love for Katie Helms and jumped straight out of the sofa.
At that time, I was also a powder of Shuai Tang, but at that time, I didn't understand how the beautiful girl who was obviously in Ang Lee's "Ice Storm" had a strong aura, how to marry Shuai Tang and give birth to her daughter Suri, she actually grew up like that.
It seems that the flowers have not bloomed and have aged overnight.
Because Tom Cruise asks her to raise Suri strictly according to The Scientology's requirements for her mother, and she is not allowed to have non-Scientology members around her, the prerequisite for her marriage to Tom Cruise is to join Scientology. It is said that when she gave birth to Suri, Tom Cruise also asked her to use the silent birth method, that is, to give birth without a word. This is really perverted, who can stand it. Because the philosophy of Scientology is that the fetus also has a memory, the mother's cry of pain will cause the child's evil accumulation.
Scientology also excludes hospitals, which have their own system of treatment.
And while Suri was still in infancy, breastfeeding was not allowed, and a mixture of milk, corn syrup, barley, and rice had to be used in a Scientology recipe. Scientology controls Katie a lot because they don't want a woman who is not loyal to Scientology to influence Tom Cruise.
Despite the pain, Katie obeyed the love of her husband and daughter.
It wasn't until Katie discovered that Scientology was beginning to control Suri, that Scientology ruled that non-Scientology had no dealings with non-Scientology personnel, that Suri had a long lack of companions, and that Tom Cruise wanted Suri to be educated in Scientology, and wanted her daughter to attend the audition as well, using the electronic measuring instrument, and having the Scientology Ethics Commissioner check her daughter for theft and lying. (Of course, Tom Cruise denies all of this.) ）
This infuriated Katie completely, and Katie made up her mind to divorce.
It has to be said that Tom Cruise's two ex-wives are very determined people and well educated, so that they can not be controlled by materialism, love and the continuous and repeated brainwashing process in the years-long marriage. This is very, very rare.
In other words, ordinary people imagine that the people you are in contact with every day are constantly brainwashing you every day, not one day, two days, but often for several years, I am afraid it is not so easy to break free.
Nicole Kidman's father was a psychiatrist and a university professor himself, and her father used to do psychological counseling for many people, so we saw in "Big Little Lies" that kind of psychological performance when she was consulted by a psychologist. How could such a Nicole Kidman be so easily brainwashed? She would only be extremely resistant to this abnormal behavior of mind control, but even then, their divorce would not be easy. Therefore, it is now understandable that Nicole was ecstatic to finally get out of the sea of suffering and regain her freedom.
Katie Helms' father, who is not a psychiatrist and unable to provide professional support to his daughter at the level of psychological counseling, is a well-known divorce lawyer. In the matter of daughter's divorce, it is definitely professional, effective, and god-level operational advice.
First of all, keep calm, as if nothing has happened, the show of love and love, the hand in hand on the street to hold hands to the street.
Although they were living in California at the time, because California supported parental custody, Katie definitely did not want Tom Cruise to interfere in her daughter's life, so she went to New York to file a divorce petition because New York supported single parent custody.
And in advance, he rented a house in New York, filed a divorce application, and lived in New York with his children and did not go back.
Therefore, When Tom Cruise received the divorce application, he was ignorant and completely unprepared. Other people's divorce wars are all broken bones to peel off the skin, and Katie's divorce is initiated by herself, and from the application to the agreement, the whole process took less than two weeks.
She doesn't care about anything but Suri's custody. Under the divorce settlement, Katie had custody of the children and Tom Cruise had visitation rights and paid Suri $400,000 a year in maintenance until the children were 18. $400,000 is a sky-high price for the average person raising a child, but for Tom Cruise's income, it's really, very little. You know, Suri has been a luxury product since he was a child, and the in and out is a private plane, 400,000, which may not be enough for the education of children in the upper class of the United States for a year. Not to mention that this is a year that includes all the costs of food, clothing and housing.
Originally, Katie could have asked the other party to pay spousal support and more daughter support, but in order to divorce quickly, Katie did not ask for it, and accepted the unreasonable demand that she should not be in a public relationship for five years after the divorce.
It is not easy for a single mother, she is both a father and a mother, and she has to do what her mother does, and what she needs her father to take her daughter to do, she also has to do. Do not wear luxury goods to wear affordable ZARA, no private plane, assistant, take the subway to travel, there is no mansion, but the daughter lives a normal child's life, has a lot of small partners and playmates, according to the middle-class education concept can also cultivate children well.
After all, for a child, having a healthy and normal life is the most important thing.
Raising her daughter alone is tiring, and Katie, who graduated from Columbia University, also went to Harvard Business School for further study, and when she posted photos of her at Harvard, the comments were overwhelming.
After the divorce, it is also constantly taking over the drama, before the drama should be reviewed by the husband, confirmed that there is no religious tendency before it can be starred, after the divorce, you can finally make your own decision.
But it is undeniable that she was not as well-known as Nicole Kidman before marriage, and in the years after marriage, she also appeared as an image of a good wife and mother, focusing on the family and children, so although she also took over the drama uninterruptedly, there was not much spark in the end. But now it's starting to move in the direction of producers and directors.
In 2016, she directed the movie "Everything We Have", both as a director and a producer, and also as a star, douban score of 7.1, so that everyone can see that she is not just Atang sister-in-law, the woman behind the superstar like a silk flower, nor is she just a sympathetic single mother, she is very hardworking and talented.
In 2017, she directed the American drama "The Fall of the Kennedy Family", and was a director and producer, this drama is the sequel to the 2011 "Kennedy Family", she played President Kennedy's wife Jacqueline in the play, her style restoration is very high, only from the appearance of Natalie Portman's version of Jacqueline closer to the prototype, but in 2011, she has not divorced, so the acting skills are still very much to be improved, did not play Jacqueline's aura.
But she knows her advantages, every step is very stable, I believe that the future will be better and better.
Uncle Tang's two ex-wives are now producers, and I don't know if there will be a day in the future when this past between them and Uncle Tang will be put on the screen, so it is really necessary to watch.