Many people envy the actor's high-paying job, but behind the glamorous beauty that others can see, the actor also bears the pain of gathering less and leaving more with his family. How many actor families, because of the gathering of less and more polygamous separation, in the end only left alone, guarding a successful career. Fortunately, actor Guo Guangping met the person who understood him.
He and his wife are 11 years apart, and there is already a crisis in the marriage. Coupled with more than ten years of gathering less and leaving more, the problems of the two can be imagined to be more complicated. But these difficulties, they all worked together to overcome, and even the son who was alone at home for a long time also understood the pain of his parents. But how did they come to such a marriage?
<h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > honor the wife who is 11 years younger</h1>
In fact, Guo Guangping never thought that he would marry some girls who were so much younger than himself, especially when the two of them were at that time, one was a substitute teacher, and the other was just an adult and was in his sophomore year. But with such a short encounter, no one could forget each other. So that when they meet again, when they see each other, their eyes are full of surprise and surprise. Fate arranges for us to meet again and again, and they will cherish it.
In 2001, Guo Gangping, who was already 30 years old, was enough to count as a successful career. Graduated from the Drama Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, he also has many years of performance experience in the military drama troupe, and has also had professional titles. In addition, he entered the film and television circle as early as 8 years ago, starring in many film and television works, and is a little famous.
As for the 19-year-old girl, she is still in school age, and naturally has no work achievements. However, her professional grades in school are very good, so when she has the opportunity to cooperate with Guo Guangping and dub for the TV series, she can win it for the first time. The work of dubbing a TV series is very intense and the time is also very long, which naturally gives them the opportunity to gradually get to know each other.
Guo Guangping always thinks that his age is a disadvantage, but in the eyes of the girl, he is mature and stable in his career, and he also knows how to take care of people, and he likes him more and more. Guo Guangping patiently guided the girl at work and helped her get started faster. After work, take the girls to dinner together and take care of the girls' lives carefully. In the long run, the window paper of the two people was naturally broken, and they were justifiably together.
But at that time, the girl was still young and did not want to get married so soon. But Guo Guangping had already reached the age of marriage and children, and the elders of the family had been urging. To this end, Guo Guangping waited for the girl for several years, carrying the pressure of the family alone. It wasn't until the girl nodded, and the girl's parents were willing to entrust her to him, that Guo Guangping married the other party.
According to the theory, Guo Gangping's age should be quickly married and have children after marriage, and his parents have been waiting to hold their grandchildren. At this point, Guo Guangping really did a good job. Xiao Jiao's wife did not want to have children, and also wanted to take advantage of her youth to fight for a career, and Guo Guangping did not hesitate to support each other. A few years later, when his wife unexpectedly became pregnant, Guo Guangping also excitedly welcomed the arrival of the child. What is rare is that he has always respected his wife's opinion.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > marriages that gather less and leave more</h1>
After having a son, the family of three lived a good life, but Guo Guangping still had the heart to fight for his career. Besides, how can a young wife return to the family as soon as she graduates? Regarding how to take care of the children, who stayed at home to take care of the children, Guo Guangping never forced his wife. Although both parents persuaded their wives to stay at home and Guo Guangping went out to make money, Guo Guangping cared about his wife's feelings in the marriage of the two people.
When his wife also wanted to go out to work, he was responsible for persuading parents on both sides that the children would naturally live with the elders. Finally, when the wife actually walked into the crew, she thought it was a dream. After all, his other married classmates, which are not required to teach their children at home, parents and husbands can accept that they do not care about their children to work, it is really incredible.
The couple each flew around with the crew, but in the quiet of the night, in addition to missing their son, they would also miss the pillow person. Especially when she didn't see each other a few times a year, her wife gradually felt that this marriage was illusory. The two of them gathered less and more, and they couldn't even see their children, which was still a happy marriage and family. The wife often wonders, who of them did something wrong?
Couples can't see each other for a long time, and they can't go home with each other, even if they don't have a scandal, but the sense of trust and dependence on each other will gradually weaken. The essence of this marriage has also become nominal. From missing to resentment, can their marital relationship still be stable? Moreover, if you follow your elders and don't see your parents' sons for a long time, will you complain about them?
Guo Guangping and his wife know in their hearts that the weight is heavy, and the career is definitely important to the family compared to the family. But if you give up your dreams for the sake of your family and are tied to life by pots and pans, then why bother getting married? Therefore, in order to solve the marriage crisis, Guo Guangping set a rule for himself and his wife:
"Whoever is not busy at work, the first time to go home with the child." The other can take the child to the crew to find each other and reunite the family. In addition, he had to go home every two months, no matter how busy he worked, and his son was the first. ”
As actors, they understand each other's difficulties. For the sake of family stability, both of them also follow this rule, and they can spend more time with their sons while accompanying each other, even if they are tired. But they don't know, where they can't see, how good their son has grown.
< h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > regret of success</h1>
Guo Guangping and his wife both work, are both actors, and earn a lot. At the very least, sons and elders eat and drink without worry. He even had spare money so that his son could receive a good education, and he also found a teacher to learn piano for many years. In 2016, a child around the age of 10 participated in the China-Australia Children's Piano Competition at the Sydney Opera House in Australia and won the first prize.
The son of the family has his own honor, and the couple who are busy outside the family have also broken into a world. In recent years, Guo Gangping's career has been even worse, and a "Parental Love" has made his name a household name. Over the years, many TV dramas and movies have been filmed, and the drama career has not fallen. Today, he is about to turn more than half a hundred years old, and this year alone, 3 TV series have been broadcast, and 2 movies have been started and are being filmed.
As for his 38-year-old wife, Chang Xiaochuan, although he has filmed many film and television dramas, he is still unknown. However, to be an actor is not only to achieve fame, but also to have a sense of participation in the shooting and a sense of accomplishment in seeing the work. And years of hard work is not nothing, and now as the deputy director of the Nanjing Repertory Theatre, it can be regarded as recognized.
However, for more than a decade, Guo Guangping has always wondered whether it will be his own problem to keep the family from reuniting day by day. If your career is good enough to protect your wife's dreams, will the couple not see each other? Nor will sons have a childhood with parents because of their careers. After all, he still owes too much to their mother and son.
Now Guo Guangping is still busy. But more than a career, I want to give my family a warm home. Especially if you have reached your youthful goals early, should you give in to your dreams for the sake of your family? You can still work hard after your career, but your son is growing up day by day, how many childhoods can he have?
< h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" > epilogue</h1>
Family and career are in a dilemma, how many people can achieve family happiness and fame? Always for one side, let the other side make concessions. It is not easy for them to understand each other's situation, but Guo Guangping can still worry about his family at all times, which is even more touching. Maybe when he set to return home in two months, he made a choice for his future.
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